“Which way?” (4.28.2020)

There comes a time, Patricia Bokowski, in every life, when the valiant choice is made to take a courageous stand for oneself, in spite of consequences, against those who have behaved irresponsibly. And this is good. 
Sometime afterwards, it ultimately dawns on all, however, that what they might be most concerned with are their own responsibilities. And this is trebly good. 
Roll over Beethoven, hit me Amadeus, let’s waltz Matilda –  The Universe / Which way?

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” NineFrogs

“Never give in – never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small, large or petty, never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense.  Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy!”

– Winston Churchill

Which way should I go?

The million dollar question?


If you aren’t careful.

You will go down the wrong path.

Or, otherwise put as.

Down the rabbit hole.

You get in so deep.

You don’t even know how to get out ;-(

And, as if that wasn’t bad enough.

It knocks you back five spaces in the blink of an eye!👈👈👈

The problem here.

As I see it.

Is a lot of people are having a hard time getting back up again.

After being pushed back so far!

Which way should I go?

Trust me.

I know, getting up and trying again is no easy feat.

Especially, if you have been pushed back more times than you care to count.


I have been there more times than I can count quite honestly.

Let’s face it, we all have a breaking point!  

Only, the path to our destiny.

Is bound to be full of set-backs and failures.

Unfortunately, that’s just how life works!


You just have keep looking for your path!

It’s there, trust me!

Which way should I go?


When we are born.

And just look at any little kid to verify this.

We all had a pretty big amount of enthusiasm towards life.

Like try and calm any little kid when they have an idea in their head.

And you know exactly what I mean!

Yet, sometimes over the years.

It deteriorates in a lot of people.

And, unless you are quite aware of it.

Trying to catch it is a like a free fall into oblivion.

Which way should I go?

There is also this thing called ‘determination”!

Again, many people lose that as well!

But, here’s the thing, it’s still in you.

You just have to work at it!

Like everyday.

It doesn’t just happen.

If you are looking to find your path.

You really need to cultivate it.

Especially in #pandemic2020 😷😷😷

Which way should I go?

I’ve had my business for over eight years now.

And, I can honestly tell you.

Not a day goes by I don’t think about it.


Not only that.

Never an hour goes by without me thinking about it.

That’s how you know you’ve found your path.

When it absolutely consumes you.

Your thoughts, energy, time, money, etc.

Which way should I go?

Now, when you first start out.

Do you think you know that?

I can’t answer for anyone else.

Only, I can tell you for myself.

I didn’t think that for the first couple of years.


As I have said before (a lot).

I had NO idea what I was doing those first couple of years.

Totally winging it!

And it worked.


People hired me for my services.

So, I was obviously doing something right!

Looking back.

(I was still trying to figure out the whole ‘business’ thing).

Which way should I go?

But once I got it.

In that third year.

That was it.

I was completely hooked.

Still am.

Everything I do.

In one way, shape or form.

Has to do with my business.

Or, I’m thinking about it.

What can I do next?

What’s the next move?

Did you hear?

I’m writing a book?


My first.


Now that I’m writing one.

I know I’ll be writing another.

Or three!

It’s titled: How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!

Be willing to take risks.

The path to your success is not a straight line.

As you will find out shortly.


It’s a total zigzag.

And that’s okay.

That’s what it’s all about.

That’s also why a lot of folks don’t make it to the end.

They find a bus stop.

And instead of making it just that, a stop.

The make it their final destination! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Which way should I go?

The trick to this whole success thing.

You just have to keep at it.

Even when you don’t feel like it.

And, especially when it feels like nothing is happening.

Because, I hate to tell you.

In the beginning.

That’s what it will fell like.

Like, crickets.


I know it’s hard hard.

Trust me, I KNOW, more than you know.

But, we don’t give up!


Which way should I go?

That’s my attitude these days!

Tell me I can’t.

And I’ll do it twice as hard.

That’s what you call sheer determination!

That’s what you have to have to make those big dreams come true!

And remember.

You don’t have to have EVERYTHING worked out.

Just work with what you got!

Which way should I go?

Here is my last piece of advice.

Even during these trying times.

It’s easy to give up, it’s like the easiest thing ever.

ESPECIALLY now, I mean, what a great excuse…’I’m living in the middle of a #pandemic…yes, you are!

But, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t embrace life, and give it all you got!

Which way should I go?

So here’s the thing, if you are at the point of giving up.

Which many have told me they are at that point.

Please give it one more try!

The point is, NEVER give up!

How do I find your path?

You work at it one day at a time!

Which way should I go?

And lastly, remember to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Which way?”



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  1. Milly April 29, 2020
    • Patricia Bokowski April 30, 2020

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