“Where’s my happy?” (8.23.16)

Our worlds actually have a lot in common, Patricia Bokowski.

We’ve got angels; you’ve got angels.

Our thoughts become things; your thoughts become things.

We have no limits; you have no limits.

I make my dreams come true; you make your dreams come true.


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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Where’s my happy?

Do you know why I think so many people are unhappy?

Because they don’t do enough things.

That make them happy.


And if that’s you.

You need to adjust accordingly.

Now, adjusting can include a lot things.

It can be:




Where you live.





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The list goes on and on.

Sometimes it takes a huge mis-step.

To find your happiness.

Like that (fill in the blank).

That you’ve been holding onto.

Even though it doesn’t make you happy.

But you’re afraid to ‘let go’ of it.

For whatever reason.

Even though it makes you miserable.

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That’s when you have to ask yourself?

What’s my important?

That ‘thing’.

Or, your happiness?

And this is where you need to be.

Real honest with yourself.

Do you know how many relationships.

I had to give up to find my happiness.

Both friend-wise and relationship-wise.


But I’ll tell you this.

I’m a whole lot happier.

And more at peace.

Than ever before.

I also moved earlier last year.

One of the best decisions ever.

For myself and my family.

Was it easy? No, it was not.

Was it worth it?

100% x 100!

We’re all a lot happier.

Another BIG way people lose their happiness.

Is by giving the keys to their happiness.

To put in someone else’s pocket.

Don’t do that!


It’s your happiness.

And you are in charge of it.

So for the love of God.

Do not give it away to anyone!

That’s it!

That’s the kind of attitude.

You need to have.

And you need to have it now.

Not tomorrow.

Not next week.

Not, when your life gets better.



If Wonder Woman were here.

She would tell you the same thing.

Because she knows.

Happiness is an inside job.

So, stop saying tomorrow I’ll be happy.

People love doing that.

Putting off their happiness.

Because they don’t want to face.

Whatever it is that is making them unhappy.

So instead.

They wait.

For someone or something.

To make them happy.


That’s NOT how it works.

YOU make YOU happy πŸ™‚

I know, I know.

I know how it goes from here.

These are some of the excuses I hear:

“When I fall in love again I’ll be happy.”

“I’ll be happy when I’m out of debt I’ll be happy.”

“When I get a new job I’ll be happy.”

“I’ll be happy when I lose weight I’ll be happy.”

“When I get more money I’ll be happy.”

That’s a big one!

And a total waste of time.

The list goes on and on!

Here’s my advice:


Seriously, be happy now!

No person.

And no thing.

Is going.

To make you happy!

Only YOU can make YOU happy!


Other people can ADD to your happiness.

But trust me.

If you aren’t really happy.

No one else can MAKE YOU happy πŸ˜‰

As I said, happiness is an inside job!

Do you really want to be happy?

Give up all the sh*t that weighs you down!

You know.

All the sh*t that we put upon ourselves.

The things we’ve been holding onto.

For far too long.

Let it ALL go.


Don’t be surprised.

If you find yourself.

Feeling light as a feather!

The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸



Stop looking for someone else to make you happy.“You have two choices!” (7.4.2021)


You are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment.

You need to be your own best friend first.


As far as all the other “things”.

That people think will make them happy.

You should give up on that dream.

Life does not have to be perfect.

In order for you to be happy.

As a matter of fact.

Who’s life is perfect anyway?

No one I know.


I know a lot of people.

Like a lot.

And not one of them.

Has a perfect life.

Even very wealthy people.

Have problems.

So stop putting off your happiness.

And stop waiting for Friday.

While you’re at it!

Isn’t the truth!

Most great things.

Are preceded by chaos.

And once again.

Don’t lose your happiness in there.

No matter what is going on in your life.

Keep your mindset.

Fixed on happiness.


That doesn’t mean you walk.

Around all day with a big smile.

On your face.

It’s a mindset thing.

Work on that!

That makes me happy!

Because I know.

If I don’t get a seat at the table.

I’ll make my own table.

And invite who I want!

Yeah babe.

That kind of mindset.

See, that makes me very happy.

Knowing my worth.

Knowing my power.

Knowing I’m in charge of MY destiny.

And, once you have that mindset.

It’s like a superpower.

And you will see.

That so many people want it.

And they should.

Because, because true happiness.

Is like a drug.β€œHow can I move on?” (9.1.2021)

And if someone doesn’t have it in them.

They’ll want it from you!

Trust me kids, it’s real!

Only you can make you happy!

Where’s my happy?

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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

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Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

Where’s my happy?




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