“Where do I start?” (1.1.16)


Patricia Bokowski, next time you feel really hurt, really angry, or really, really upset, and you’re sure that even I have been violated, shaken, and humbled, quick, check and see if the sky is any less blue, the sun any less radiant, the birds have stopped singing, or the flowers have lost their scent. 

I’ll wager you’ll find that life has gone on much as before. Too consumed by the powers of now and the inevitabilities of love, understanding, and eternal life to have even missed a beat. 
  The Universe / Where do I start?

Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions. – NineFrogs


Where do I start?

The age-old question?

Starting over is never easy.

Some people never even start.

Why is that?

Why is it people would rather keep complaining about their life instead of trying to change it!

Do WHAT YOU loveπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


What someone else thinks you should be doing!

Don’t take NO for an answer.

FROM anyone!

Prove the naysayers wrong.

BELIEVE that anything is POSSIBLEπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If it comes.

Let it.

If it goes.

Let it.

Take chances.

Move mountains.

Do things that scare the f out of you!

Push yourself.

We get so comfortable, we forget that we are made to do wonderful things!

Life shrinks or expands in direct proportion to one’s courage.

Be courageous.

Do hard things.

The things that make you uncomfortable.

Those things that you keep pushing to the back of your  “to do” list.

Do them.

Push yourself harder than you ever have.

See what you are made of!

Like thatπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Fall in love (or, all over again).

Only, this time with yourselfπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Discover what you are made of.


It will most likely be much more than you think!πŸ’ͺ

That goes for me too.

I’ve had to come out of my comfort zone.

And do new things.

I started my YouTube Channel.

That took longer than expected.

And I started on TikTok too.

Both, took me out of my comfort zones.

And now I have some other things on my “to do” list.

That I want to accomplish this year.


Nothing happens until you put the action behind it.

Do that things that scare you.

Either you will fail miserably.


It will be a huge success.

Either way.

YOU WINπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Keep your mind and eyes open to everything!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

You never know where you will find your next miracle?

Or find you?

That’s why I also say.

Get out of your own way!


We trip ourselves up all the time.

Get out of your own damn way.

And just do it

Now is the time.

Move mountains.

Lots of them!

This is just my friendly reminder to keep smiling.

Keep it happy.

Keep your mindset set to success.

No matter what is going on around you.

Know that you are always winning.

(That’s success mindset).

Know that The Universe is on your side.

And wants what you want.

Keep shining like The Universe is conspiring on your behalf.


Don’t be afraid to break the rules.

Not the law.

You don’t have to follow the herd.

In fact.


Do your own thing.

Be alone.

And learn the power in it.

Find out what you are made of, really!  

You think you can only do this much.

When in fact.

You can do a whole lot more.

And you won’t know unless you try.


Be kind to yourself.


Say nice things to yourself and watch what happens. 

Stop beating yourself up for what you are not.

And instead. β€œHow can I be more confident?” (10.10.2020)

Give yourself high-fives for what you are!

Remember, you are a work in progress.

Take chances and don’t be afraid to fail!  

Failure is not the worst thing that can happen to you.

Living a mediocre life is.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


If you are trying to create something beautiful.

Remember this. β€œ9 Thought Provoking Quotes To Set Your Soul On Fire!” (11.12.2020)

“There is always a way, ALWAYS.”πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Your future is going to be EPIC!  

It’s in YOUR hands.

Be courageous brave girl.


Where do I start?πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Right from where you are right now!

With whatever you have!

Lastly, make sure to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~People will stare.  Make it worth their while!









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