“When it’s time to let go!” (10.1.19)

Do you know what happens, Patricia Bokowski, when a dream comes true and you feel your joy bubbling over into wide grins and happy dances? 
Your energy actually spills over into the oceans of time and reaches into the past where it laps upon the shores of a former here and now, infusing a former unsuspecting self (who is still merrily living their life due to time’s “simultaneousity”) with a flash of inspiration or a burst of intuition and hope for what the future might hold. 
Whew… and that, my friend, is the truth about where dreams come from. 
Tallyho,  The Universe
/ When it’s time to let go!


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – The Frog’s Den

When it’s time to let go…

Nobody ever usually wants to let go.

Letting go of anything that doesn’t serve you.

Which can be anything from a person, a job, a relationship, a friend, clutter in your house, you name it!

It’s all that stuff.

That we cling to for far too long.

When in reality.

We should have gotten rid of a long time ago.


I know so many people that are holding onto old hurts, wounds and people.

Holding on because for whatever reason they just can’t let go.

No matter how much it hurts them.

The thing is.

When you hold onto the past.

You let it take up to much of the present.

And you aren’t even aware of it.


You are making it way too difficult to let the ‘good’ stuff in when you do this!

Whenever I’m speaking with someone.

And they start to tell me about some “fill-in-the-blank” …

I ask them, ‘why’?

What good is it doing you now?

And they invariably will say,

“I just can’t let it go.”


I am telling you today.

Let that shit go👈👈👈

All of it..

Anything that hurts your soul.

F it.

Kick it to the proverbial curb!

You know what they say?

If you’re not losing friends.

You’re not growing.

And the older I get, the more I see this.

What you need to understand.

Is that some people come into your life,.

With the plan of not staying so long.

Only you don’t know that.

Sad but true.

They may not even plan on it, it just happens.

What screws us up is holding onto that hurt.

Like it’s some kind of badge of honor to do so.

I say, LET IT GO👈👈👈

If you need to.

Go have a cry over it.

But then.

Move on.

Then release it to The Universe.👈👈👈

And then watch your life get better.


You starting to feel better.


You are worth it all👈👈👈

Remember that!


I think being human.

A truly authentic human.

Takes a whole lot of courage.

The point is, you got to let it go.

Anything that doesn’t fill you up.

Anything that doesn’t make you feel good.


That person who did you dirty ten years ago.

Forget them.

Your old boss who made your life miserable.

Start your own business and be a huge success.

Success and Happiness are the best revenge.

Moving on.

Start over and let go of shit.

It’s the best recipe for inner peace.

When life gets too overwhelming.

It’s time to start letting go.

It’s means you have way too much on your plate.

Or your mind.

And if you don’t start letting go.


YOU are going to get crushed.

I’ve learned.

As a result of letting go;

I feel happier.


And I truly believe I think better.👈👈👈

My mind isn’t cluttered with all that “resentment & brain fog”.


You can’t move forward if you are still holding onto yesterdays crap.

Similarly, this goes for material things as well. https://www.ninefrogs.com

We all know that when you have too much “stuff” around you,.

It blocks the good from getting to you.

Wrecks havoc on your mind and is impossible to get around.

My advice: purge like a mother-fuccer!!!👈👈👈

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸


You are a victim of the rules you live by.

Ask yourself if you are holding onto “old” ways of thinking?

Because, those very thoughts could be holding you back.

You know, when people say things like:

I can’t do that because I am too young/too old.

You need to have ___________ in order to do that.

What would my friends/parents/family think if I did that?

I really want to do _____________but I heard from soandso a long time ago that it’s not a good idea.

People think some crazy shiz.

And it’s just another way of “stuff” holding you back.

So I say, let go.

Let go of any and all thoughts that don’t serve you.

Thoughts that don’t make you feel good about YOU🥰🥰🥰

Because at the end of the day, it’s all about YOU!

Never forget that.

Especially us women.

We’re always putting ourselves at the bottom of the list.

Yet, another reason we hold onto so much “stuff”.

Ask any woman over 40 if she is full of rage 😉

We have to learn to let go, and put ourselves on TOP of the list.

And LET GO of anything that doesn’t make us feel fabulous.

Do you know what the bonus points are of letting go?

Old hurts. Old wounds. Old thoughts.

You leave room in your life for new people to enter.

New adventures, new opportunities, and new ideas.

Out with the old and in with the new.

Because remember, it’s all in the way you think🤔🤔🤔

“Know when to let go and when to hold on tight.”

That’s how you do it.

It’s a balancing act every day.

Enjoy your today’s.

And put to pasture any bad memories of anything that has hurt your soul.

You are so loved, and you are so special.

You deserve to live in the light, not the dark.

So make it a priority this month to let go of everything and anything that doesn’t serve you.

And I myself will be doing a lot of that this month.

I am find the clutter is gaining of me again.

I urge you do to the same 😉

I love this one.

I’ve shared it many times here on my blog.

It’s a great reminder.

That we have more power over a situation.

Than the situation has one us!


Remember that!

Let it ALL go.

When it’s time to let go👈👈👈

And breathe.

Lastly, follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Autumn whispered to the wind, “I fall; but always rise again.” / Angie Weiland-Crosby



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