“What kind of life do I want?” (1.2.17)

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  The Universe / What kind of life do I want?

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs Wisdom

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This blog is for all the people who are waiting for the “perfect” time to do something.

Or, waiting for whatever they are creating, to be perfect.

Maybe ever, life to be perfect.

I don’t know how many bloggers I’ve spoken with who have told me it takes them a long time to publish a blog.

Why you might ask?

Because they refuse to hit the PUBLISH button.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

They want another day to edit their blog.

Obsess over it.

Redo it.

Make sure it’s absolutely perfect (no such thing).

And then they wonder why they aren’t getting great results?

Same goes for people who post on social media.

They hem and haw over each post.

And in the end, by the time they actually put up the post, it’s not very good anyway.

I don’t want to get off topic here, but the amount of boring posts I see on social media is staggering.

Or, bad shots.

Too many words.

Posts that having nothing to do with nothing.

That’s why I started my NineFrogs Social Media Consulting Service.

To help business owners and entrepreneurs make better posts.

I believe that’s one of the reasons I have over 420,000+ followers across the globe across all my social media.

Because people like my posts (well, that’s one reason).

Ok, back to the subject.

Life isn’t perfect.

You make it as good as it can be.

And go from thereπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It is a constant struggle.

Only, far too many people refuse to do that.

Instead, they stay stuck.

Stuck in whatever happened in their life.

So, there is no telling these people to make it work.

They have already given up.

Not me though.

I work at it everyday!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

As I like to tell people, I’m totally winging it everyday!

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing every day and expecting different results.

Yet, that’s what so many people do!

That’s why you have to get out of your comfort zone and do something different.

Recently, I started on TikTok.

Talk about coming out of my comfort zone!

But, I did it.

And continue to do it at least five times a week.

It’s a tad easier now.

Just like anything else you start anew.

Practice makes perfect.

Actually, practice makes you better, not perfect!

“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get that you’ve always got.”


How many opportunities do you think there are on any given day?

The answer is, opportunities are all around us!

So I ask, are you looking?  

And not just with your eyes, but with your mind, heart and body.

There are times, we are so focused on what others are doing, that we don’t see the opportunities right in front of us!

And then there are times, when we have to make our own opportunities.

It is our responsibility to find the key to open the door to get us to where we want to be. 

Don’t be afraid to jump out of your comfort zone to get there!

And if by chance, someone else gets a golden opportunity, don’t be bitter, resentful, angry or sad.  

Be Happy for them ;-)πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Because when you are happy for them, you send out positive energy into the Universe and then that will come back to you!  

On a daily basis, and I know that’s easier said then done some days, TRY and put out as much positive energy as you can.

Because, just like everything else you put out, everything comes back to you!

And you want as much goodness as you can coming back your way!

 Recently I read a little something on Oprah’s Instagram page, it went like this:

‘I am smart.  I am blessed.  I can do anything!”

I love that <3

Now I say it to myself everyday!

Whenever I start feeling anxious or overwhelmed.

If life has shown me anything, it’s anything is possible.

Opportunities really are all around us.

Think, now is the time to shift your thinking.

Anything is possible.

Align your thoughts.

Next, align your thinking.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Now take action!

And as you start thinking differently, you will see the world from a whole different perspective.


I don’t know about you, but I am totally thrilled about all the new possibilities!  

So, what can you do different now? β€œHow to have a Happy Day!” (9.30.2020)

It doesn’t have to be some major life change.

You can start out small, like driving a new way to work.

Or, getting your coffee from a different place in the morning.

Take a walk on a different place.

Driving a different way to work.

The possibilities are endless πŸ˜‰

So you ask…

Where is my life going?


What kind of life do I want?

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Guaranteed to make you smile!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

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