“What is your end result?” (4.21.17)

Ever notice Patricia Bokowski…
how when someone dreams of happiness, abundance, health, romance, or friendship, they never have to wonder if it’s in their best interest?
But when someone dreams of a specific house, employer, love interest, deadline, dollar amount, or diet fad, they often end up contradicting themselves?
Keep your “end results” general, Patricia Bokowski. Everything else is just a how.
To the big picture, 
  The Universe / “What is your end result?”
Save the glorious details for visualizing to thereby get excited about the new big picture of your life, Patricia Bokowski, yet don’t attach to those details or mistake them for what you really want.

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions!’ – NineFrogs


What is your end result?

That’s the question people should be asking themselves.

You know.

The ones who keep asking me how they should start?

Here’s your answer:

Just start!

People don’t seem to understand.

Every morning that you wake up.

Is a new opportunity to start over.

You don’t need a Monday.

Or a new month.

Even a new year.


You can start over at 1:00pm in the afternoon.

Starting over is a mindset.

It’s not an actual time๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You can tell yourself that today.

Tomorrow you are going to start over.

It is literally that simple.


Some people.

Just refuse to look at it that way.


They get it all messed up.

Step over themselves.

Overthink it.

Get in their own way.

And then wonder why they aren’t getting anywhere in life.

Why they are unhappy.








That about sums it up how it worksโ˜โ˜โ˜

Whatever you really want,

Will require a lot of work.

That’s just the way it works.

But so worth it.

That’s why you have to keep reminding yourself?

What is your end result?


You need to constantly be reassessing your own mind and body.

Is everything running right?

Feeling right?

Thinking clearly?

It’s so easy to over-look when we are so ‘busy’ living.

We wake up everyday.

And then we are all ‘off to the races.’๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

Work, meetings, kids, family, sports, and checking our social media.

And everything else under the sun.

Which is why we find ourselves running ragged.

Then we wonder why we feel like sh*t?

Or, why can’t we remember a damn thing!

How many of us have walked into a room.

Only to forget why the hell why we even walked in there?

That’s your brain telling you it’s over-loaded!

That’s when you need to take a much-needed break.

A break.

Not a full-on stop.

There’s a difference.

What is your end result?


Sometimes we are in recovery mode.

Maybe from a breakup?

A huge life-storm?

(been there more times than I can count).

A sickness.

Or an accident.

Sometimes we just need to re-charge our batteries.

None of us are superman or superwoman.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

We are humans, made of flesh. 

Flesh that needs lots of TLC.

Both our bodies AND our souls, need maintenance. โคโคโค 

On a regular basis.

What is your end result?

People will spend a small fortune to fix their house or car.

I know people who lease their car for $500.00 a month.

But won’t spring $100.00 for a facial or massage.

Or, they eat crap food because they say ‘organic is too expensive.’

So, basically, you are saying your car is more important than your body?

Believe me when I tell you, you are worth the expense!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Even if right now you don’t have the money for a facial at a salon.

Do your own at home.


Go to the library.

And spend an hour wandering around.

You never know what you might find.


Take an hour for you boo for a walk!

The point is:

You need to fill up your ‘tank’.


In case no one has told you lately.

You are worth it all .๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

What is your end result?

Join a gym.

Get a massage.

Take up Zumba.

Sign up for a class you’ve always wanted to do.

Whatever it is.

That will fill your cup.

And make you feel good.

Do that.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


Take the time to take care of you!

And watch every effort come back to you tenfold.

That goes for your mind too.

It is crucial you take care of your mindset.

Having a positive mindset.

Is one of THE most important things successful people possess!


They work at it daily!

What is your end result?


I make sure on every social media platform I’m on.

My feed is FILLED with inspirational and motivational posts.

Because that’s how I roll.

I also like to take a break from it.

At least once a day.

And actually talk to people in person.

It’s called boundaries.

What is your end result?

How many times have we stayed too long.

When we knew it was time to leave.

Be it a job.



I know I have.

And, literally paid the price for staying.

Not these days.

These days.

As soon as I sense it, I leave.

I leave.


You know that feeling?

You know.

The one when you’re overwhelmed?

Like, you can’t even think straight?


EVERY little thing,

You have to think about exhausts you?

That’s your body.

Sending you.

An SOS signal

That you need to shut down.

Like NOW.

And most likely.

You got there.

Because you didn’t care of yourself.

Running on fumes.

And your body/mind can’t take it anymore.

Don’t let yourself get to this point.

It’s okay to say, ‘I need a break.’

Than take one!!!

What is your end result?

Most of us.

Because I like to believe we are all generous souls.

Are always giving and doing for others. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Pouring our hearts and souls into our families, friend, business, career, etc.

It’s never-ending.

That’s why it is so important to take some ‘me time’.

Here’s my advice to you today:

You have permission.

To take the time.


To rejuvenate your body.

And soul on a daily basis.

Think about this?

What kind of life do I want?

I hope you know now.


It all comes down to you. 

For you, to take action, today!

You were not meant to live a mediocre life.

You WERE meant to live an amazing one!

What is your end result?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!




“What is your end result?”