“What if I can?” (2.18.2021)

How many people does it take to make a million bucks, Patricia Bokowski? 
None. Nada. Zippo. 
I do it for them. 
Just see it done and bust-a-move,   The Universe / What if I can? / www.tut.com

Contrary to popular thinking, Patricia Bokowski, I know funny. Ooh! How many people is it going to take to get you your new awesome successful thriving fabulous business?

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

What if I can?

You know.

What if you could.

Actually do those things.

Those things that you keep dreaming about.

Yes, those things

What if you actually.

Could do them!


Think about it?

Do you think if you.

Set your mind to it.

You could actually do it?

Of course you could!

Because you’re pure magic!


And yes.

I know you don’t hear that enough.

Me either.

And here’s another thing.

You don’t hear enough.

That’s right.

Here’s a little secret I’m going to share.👈👈👈

You were meant to do hard things.


It’s just no one tells you that.

Like, no one.

That’s why.

We don’t do it.

I mean.

What stops us.

From doing the impossible?

You know.

To have that ‘thing’ inside you.

That says:

“Today’s the day!”👈👈👈

Today, I will make it happen!

I have to tell you.

It’s not an easy thing to do.

Plenty of people start.

Few finish.

Don’t be one of them!

The struggle is real!

I’ve written about this before.

The Lotus Tree.

How the Lotus Tree grows in a dirty pond.

And it takes years.

For it to actually grow out of the pond.

But, once it does grow.

It’s absolutely magnificent.

The MOST beautiful plant ever.

Only, for it to get to that place.

It had to grow through all the muck first.

It usually takes about five years.

Five years of preparation.

All those years.

And nothing is happening.

Only then.

One day.

It blooms.

Just like life!

Lot’s of preparation.


Then one day.

It all comes together!

Life is either a daring adventure of nothing at all!

Being THE best you.

Doing your best work.

Making something from nothing.

That is not easy folks!

It takes sheer determination to make it happen👈👈👈

And I know.

Many are reading this.

Saying, ‘I can’t.’


You absolutely can!

You just have to have the right mindset.

And utter belief in yourself!

That you not only CAN do it.

You DESERVE to have it happen to YOU!

No risk, no magic.👈👈👈

That says it all right there folks!

In this game of life, you also need to be willing to take risks.

Because, playing it safe.

Is not going to get you where you want to be.

Like the saying goes: “your comfort zone will kill you”.👈👈👈

My latest risk, going on TikTok.

Totally out of my comfort zone.

Just like YouTube (starting up again this week!)

And yet, I do it.

Do I have a million followers?


I do not.

Last time I looked it was 120 on TikTok.

And about 22 on YouTube.

Not bad.

That’s what I’m talking about.

You have to be willing to take risks.

And fall flat on your face.

Because, if that does happen.

And it’s happened to me several times over the years.

Then guess what?

Now you know what NOT to do.

Or, how you can do it better?

Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

That’s really what it comes down to.

NOT giving up.

And you will want to.

Trust me.

You will have days where you will say to yourself, ‘I’m done’.


On those days.

You have to dig deep.

And remember your WHY👈👈👈

And keep reminding yourself:

I can do it!

Ancient Chinese Proverb

I cannot stress enough this statement ☝☝☝

Fall down.

Make mistakes.

Have a good cry if you want (you will, trust me).

Take a break if you need to.

Then, get back to it.

There’s a great Tom Hank’s quote:

“If it wasn’t hard, everyone would do it.

It’s the hard that makes it great!”👈👈👈

And oh so true.

Because let me tell you.

This sh*it is HARD!


We were never taught that.

Most of us.

That’s why so many give up.

When it gets HARD!


When it gets hard.

Is EXACTLY when we need to keep at it.

Be creative.

Try something new.

And, just keep telling yourself:

I can do it!

How courageous would you say you are?

I have to say.

On a personal note.

I never knew I could be this courageous.



What I’m trying to accomplish.

It takes a lot of hard work and dedication.


The way I look at it.

You have to ask yourself.

How bad do you want it?

And if you want it bad enough.

You’ll figure out a way.

I mean.

That’s what all the other successful people did.

They figured out what worked for them to be successful!

Say it again:

I can do it!

Here’s what I’ve figured out for myself.

You literally have to think yourself ‘successful’. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Even before you truly are!

Because, when you start seeing yourself as a success.

You will start “thinking” as a success.

And what do successful people do?

They get more successful.

You will level up.

Your thinking will shift.

The way you view the world will change.

And the world will view you differently.

Things and people that used to mean so much.

Probably won’t so much anymore.

Not everyone is meant to go to the end with you.

That’s leveling up.

Say it with me:

I can do it!

One decision away.

So everyday when you wake up.

Ask yourself?

What can I do today to get me one step closer to where I want to be?

For me?

It’s a no-brainer.

‘I switch into high-gear once I’m up.’

Because, see:

I can do it!

Want success?

Be willing to let go of everything.

And everyone that doesn’t serve you.


Where you are going.


Going to take every ounce of energy you have.

And then some.


You can’t be carrying anything that doesn’t serve you.

Be it people, things or situations.

No bs allowed. NineFrogs Daily:


You need to ask yourself?

How far are you willing to go to make it happen!

Say it with me:

I can do it!

Quick Update:

I’m writing my first book!

Something that has been on my bucket list for quite some time now.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything.”

Anticipated Release Date: 12.15.2021.

Stay Tuned For More Updates!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“What if I can?”



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