“What can I tell you?” (10.29.2022)

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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Isn’t that the truth!

What can I tell you?

That’s life.

And if you are doing it right.

You learn.

You learn to take the good.

With the bad.

And hopeufully.

You have more good days.

Than bad.

And as Winston Churchill tells us:

“If you are going through hell, keep going.”

What can I tell you?

That’s how it works.

You feel like your knee-deep.

In utter chaos.

And yet, through the chaos.

You find success.

It’s a messy process for sure.

That’s where the saying comes from:

“All great changes are proceeded by chaos.”

What can I tell you?

That’s so ME these days!

I used to cry over EVERYTHING.

Now, not so much.

I’ve learned the hard way.

Life is tough.

Business is tough.

But so am I.

I’ve learned to believe.

In myself more than ever.

I’ve learned.

I’m capable of so much more.

Hell, I just wrote a book (coming out in paperback shortly).

I’ve learned not to rely on others.

And to rely on myself.

I’ve learned I can make opportunity.

For myself.

I’ve learned I’m more powerful.

Than I’ve ever dreamed.

I’ve learned I can make things happen.

When I want them to happen.

I’ve learned not to be afraid.

Of just about everything.

I’ve learned to hang on.

And I’ve learned to let go.

I’ve learned I’m worthy of nice things.

Be it people, things, places and events.

I’ve learned to work hard, yet smart.

I’ve learned to believe in myself.

When no one else did.

One of my favorite quotes:

“A woman who knows what she brings to the table,

Is not afraid to eat alone.”

What can I tell you?

This is so true.

I learned this lesson early on.

When you are the new kid.

On the block.

Everyone adores you.

But, the minute you start.

Inching up the ladder.

You are now considered.

A threat.

You aren’t cute anymore.

No, now you rattle.

Their cages.

I was once at a networking luncheon.

And went on line to go to the ladies room.

And the lady in front of me.

Turned around and said:

“How do you get all those followers on LinkedIn?”

And she wasn’t saying it.

In cute, funny way either.

No, she was saying it like:

“How the f*ck do you get all those followers?”

And do you want to know.

How I answered her?

I just smiled 🙂

“Some people are never gonna clap for you.

Clap anyway.”

What can I tell you?

I wish more women did this!

Lived life on THEIR terms.

And not on someone else’s.

Especially as they get older.

Instead, I notice.

The older women get.

The quieter they become.

Don’t let that be you!

“You are a rare breed.

They are not supposed to understand you.”

What can I tell you?

That’s what it boils down to.

Knowing what you bring to the table.

And once you know it.

You make your own table.

And forget about sitting at someone else’s.

It’s true.

When you know what you got.

You stop worrying.

About what other’s think.

Because you know what you got.

You know your worth.

Do you know how many things.

I have learned to do.

Over these past ten years.

I’ll tell you.

A sh*tload of stuff.

Seriously.

I have learned so much.

And I bring all that knowedge.

With me where ever I go.

That’s why I consult on so many.

Different subjects.

Because I know how.

One day I can be out.

Personal Shopping with a client.

And the next day.

Working with a client on their social media.

And another day.

Writing an article.

For a publication.

I learned a long time ago.

To diversify.

“It doesn’t matter if you flip,

Burgers, bricks or houses.

Just don’t sit on your a**,

All day, flipping channels.”

What can I tell you?

Did you hear?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

Coming out in paperback soon!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly make sure you follow me on YouTube & TikTok – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“What can I tell you?”

www.ninefrogs.com

1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754

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