“We do business!” (11.14.17)

What a day! I feel so great, so magnanimous, so everywhere! Tell you what, Patricia Bokowski, today dreams are on me. Today everyone’s dreams will come true!
Can I do that? Gimme a break!
Patricia Bokowski, I do it every single day, for everyone, everywhere, no matter what. Always, second to second, month to month, year to year, I give you what you think about, what you most expect, what you believe in and move toward.
What else are Universes for?
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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

We do business!

And today, we are talking the fashion business.

One of my favorite topics!


I often get asked.

What do you like Patricia?

Like, what’s my fashion choices?

Because. I have noticed a lot of people.

Seem to have the same taste as me.

So, today I’ve put together a list of my current favorites.


My short haircut!

I recently had a conversation.

With a woman at the nail salon.

As we were waiting for our nails to dry.

She brought this very subject up.

She was sitting opposite me.

And every time I looked over at her.

I saw, that she was staring right at me 😉 

Then, in almost a whisper she says:

“I Love Your Hair!”

I get that a lot.

We then had a great conversation about women.

Specifically, women who want to cut their hair.

Only they are afraid.

I get a lot of that too!

“A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life!” – Coco Chanel

And I couldn’t agree more!

Whenever someone (man or woman).

Tells me they need a change in their life.

I tell them to cut their hair.

It is without a doubt.

The quickest pick-me-up I know.

And I’ve yet to hear from anyone.

Who wasn’t happy after they did it!

Michael Kors Shoes!

I am so obsessed with them.

They are like my favorite!

And these ones (pictured above).

Are my all time favorite!

Currently, I have five pairs of Michael Kors shoes.

And I adore each and every one.

That’s probably my favorite thing to shop for!

Not that I shop for them very often.

But, when I do.

I really just go to admire all the pretty shoes 🙂


I am obsessed with lipstick!

Doesn’t matter the color.

I love them all.

Although, my personal favorite.

Is pink!

And let me tell you.

Over the years.

I can’t tell you how many lipsticks I’ve tried.

And, out of all of them.

I still have my favorite pink lipstick!

My first tattoo!


I have been obsessed with them for years. 

I absolutely adore them!

I know.

Many of you HATE them.

I had to put that in caps.

Because, that’s how some people.

Have expressed their total disdain of tattoos to me.

I get it.


It doesn’t change my mind.

I still love them!

And to date, I’ve gotten four.

Just waiting to get my next!

Don’t worry.

I’ll post it once I get it!


And these earrings! 

I’m sure you’ve seen them by now.

Double ball earrings.  

I discovered these a couple of years ago.

When a good friend of mine.

Brought me back a pair from the Philippines. 

Up until then.

I’d never seen a pair like them. 

And I feel in love immediately.

I’m always on the hunt for different ones. 

My Angel Bracelet!

I got it from an Influencer gig.

I absolutely loved it.

Problem was.

It was all fake.

Pure junk.

The whole thing literally fell apart after a couple of weeks.


I brought it to my jeweler.

And asked him if he could make me one.

Only in sterling silver.

And, with a real pearl.

It took him awhile.

As he had to get the Angel wing portion from Israel.

But, once he put it all together.

It was pure magic.

And I wear it everyday.

I like to think.

My guardian Angel is watching over me >3



If you had asked me five years ago.

When I started my business.

If one day.

People would pay me to write for them.

I would have laughed.

And yet, now I do.

And I love it!

It makes me happy.

When someone reads something I wrote.

And it moves them.

A couple of years ago.

I wrote a blog I called “Nine Suggestions To Have A Happy Day”. http://www,ninefrogs.com

And shortly after.

A man wrote me an email saying he owned a gym.

And that he made copies of the blog.

And hung them all around the gym.


When you can do that for people.

That’s a wonderful feeling.

It’s just like.

When I started networking.

And after a few years.

People paid me to network for them!

That was another.

You got to be f’ing kidding me.

You’re going to pay me.

To network for you?

I am so in!

Arcade Fire! 

I am a huge music fan, always have been.

And Arcade Fire is my current obsession.

And I LOVE their new song Creature Comfort

And when it comes to radio.

WFUV is my favorite radio station. 

I have it playing all day long in my office when I’m working.

I love the diversity of music they play, and I’m all about that 😉

Being the best ME!

Notice I didn’t say beautiful, gorgeous or pretty.

Just being the best me.

Some days I hit it out of the park.

And some days I don’t.

And, just like a lot of other people. 

I strive to be better every day.

The thing is.

You have to work at it everyday!


Funny story. NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

Yesterday, we were having some work done at the house.

I hadn’t met the person.

Doing the work because my son set it up.

So, I’m leave the house early.

In the morning to go to my appointment.

And, this man walks up to his truck.

Parked next to my car in the driveway.

I put two and two together.

That this was the guy doing the work.

I say: “Good morning.”

He says: “Good morning.”

Then, he turns around again.

And says: “Can I just say? You are so beautiful.”

“I wasn’t expecting to see such a beautiful woman first thing in the morning!”

I say: “Thank you.”

He says:  “No, really, you are so beautiful!”

Moral of the story:

You never know who you are inspiring!

I mean.

Do you think.

When I looked in the mirror before I left.

That I said to myself:

“God, you’re looking quite beautiful today Patricia?”


No, I didn’t.


Maybe we should all try doing that more often!

“My, you are looking quite beautiful today lovely.”

We do business!



Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!


Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!


“We do business!”


1027 St. Johnland Raoad, Kings Park, NY 11754


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