“Time!” (3.20.17)


It’s been so long, Patricia Bokowski, I’m quite sure you’ve forgotten our secret handshake, haven’t you?
How about our code for saying, “I love you”?
Then I doubt you’ll recall my solemn promise to let you know once you began approaching exactly the right time and exactly the right place, with enough life lessons under your belt to finally stop struggling, start soaring, and living the life of your wildest dreams?
Well, if not, the following might not make much sense:
“You’re getting hot! Really HOT!! Ouch, so hot! DOUBLE-HOT! Patricia Bokowski, NOW-W-W-W-W-W-W!”
I $l%o^v1e you,
  The Universe / “Time!” / www.tut.com

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs


In case you haven’t heard.


You have to start!

And you don’t need a Monday to do it.

Or the first of the month.

You can start again at any moment you wish.

Stop putting off your life for a day, time, person or thing!

I’ve said it before.

Don’t close your eyes, open your mind!

Open your mind to new experiences.

New people.

And new ways of thinking.

Just remember.

It’s time!



Like that.

Every day is a new opportunity to start over.


None of us knows what the day is going to bring us.


My personal philosophy.

The MORE you put yourself out there.

You are giving The Universe so much more to work with!


Who doesn’t want that!

Just remember.

It’s time!



You have the right mindset to start again.

And again.

And again.


It’s a never ending cycle.


It’s a mindset.


A success mindset.

And every day is a new opportunity to reach your goals, and dreams.

Whatever it is you are going after.


Hopefully, you ARE going after something!


What’s the point?

Just remember.

It’s time!



I see this all the time.

No wonder why they can’t start again.

They never left the position that got them down.

That’s the thing about life.

As I’ve said a gazillion times.

Life WILL knock you down.

Sometimes it’s a small knockdown.

Other times.

It’s a f’ing landslide.

Be that as it may.



Too many people stay stuck.

And are drowning.

And don’t even realize.

They just have to make a small effort.

And they can change everything around.


I have found.

These individuals use that as their crutch.


They stay stuck.

Please don’t let that be you!

Just remember.

It’s time!

You know what they say?

No Risk No Magic!

You know those people who live their lives so carefully.

The never make mistakes.




They also don’t really live either.


They are so concerned of making a mistake.

Of living so cautiously.

So as not to rock the boat as the saying goes.

And they will be the FIRST.

To tell you how wrong you were for trying something new.

Things like:

‘I could have told you that wasn’t going to work.’


‘I don’t know why you even started that thing.”


These people don’t understand.

That’s where you find YOUR magic.

Trying the things that light you up.

That make you jump out of bed in the morning.

That when you get home from work, it’s the first thing you want to get to.


That kind of magic!

Just remember.

It’s time!

That’s it!

If you want to start over.

You are going to need a BIG heaping of Motivation!

And how are you going to motivate yourself everyday?

There are actually many ways to do it.

You could read my NineFrogs blogs (hint hint).

You can subscribe to motivational podcasts, blogs, emails. etc.

You can make yourself a Itunes mix-tape of tunes you love.

As for me, I have a Beach Boys CD with their biggest hits.

I put that baby on anytime I’m feeling I need some motivation!

Works every time!

Just remember.

You HAVE to start!

The point is this. 

Do something every day.

Towards your goals/dreams/whatever it is you are going after.

Start over every day.

Just make sure you start!


You don’t have to be great.


You HAVE to start!

Know it gorgeous one!


Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

Titled:  “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Release date:  September 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!




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