The presumption, Patricia Bokowski, at all times and under all circumstances, should always be that you are good enough, worthy enough, and lovable enough. And that you are exactly the right kind of person, in the right place, at the right time. Otherwise, you wouldn’t have been instilled with such dreams in the first place.
Love you, The Universe / “The Frog’s Den Digest!” / www.tut.com
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
A couple of weeks ago.
I had surgery.
I say it was surgery.
THEY call it a procedure.
I did not realize.
How much it was going to take out of me.
How long it was going to take.
That’s the thing about life.
All the little things.
You do everyday.
You take for granted.
When you can’t do them.
You appreciate them.
So much more!
I literally spent five days on my couch.
Not good for much of anything.
The week prior to surgery.
I wasn’t good for much then either.
My anxiety was kicking in big time.
I was a puddle.
For the month of November.
Kind of sort of?
Still not at 100%.
More like 70%.
I’m doing my best 😉
So bear with me.
I love that ❤❤❤
When it comes to love.
It always seems you fall.
For the most unlikely person.
At the most unlikely time.🥰🥰🥰
Who do you think.
Your string is attached too? #youneverknowdoyou
“Life is a party. Dress for it!”
When I talk to people.
And I speak with a lot of people.
And they tell me:
“Patti, I have a hard time starting a conversation with someone.”
And I tell them.
Oh, that’s an easy one.
Just ask whoever you are meeting.
Something about themselves?
Or, give a genuine compliment.
And watch as the conversation flows.🍎🍎🍎
I also use this trick when I meet someone.
And I can tell they are nervous meeting me.
Don’t ask me why.
But sometimes they are.🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Here’s a little something.
You may not know about me.
Because this is like.
From my previous life.
I should say.
That’s the way I think of it.
I have an aviation background.✔✔✔
Yes, that’s right.✈✈✈
Back in my Corporate World days.
I worked in Cablevision’s Flight Department.
For about ten years.
As the Aviation Administrator.✈✈✈
To this day.
I still have a great love of Aviation.❤❤❤
I still have a lot of contacts.
And I have a lot of stories from those days.
Stories that I’ll be sharing shortly.
I have some great ones!
So, keep an eye out.
Since I started my business.
Seven years ago.
And after speaking with alot.
Of other entrepreneurs.
We all have one thing in common!
A deep burning desire.
To start a business.
And build a brand.👊👊👊
And it’s that burning passion.
That fuels the fire to do it!🔥🔥🔥
Personally, I think anyone who goes out.
On their own.
And starts a business is half crazy.
But then again.
I think you have to be😁😁😁 #memememememe
I believe you can use that philosophy.
With every area of your life.
Love, money, business…anything!
When I first started my business.
I did a lot of research.
Like, A LOT✅✅✅
I would go to the library.
Spend hours there.
Researching a variety of subjects:
How to be successful?
How to run a business?
What does it take to be great?
How to attract clients?
You name it!
And then I read something.
This one guy wrote (forgot his name).
He had this philosophy that just stuck with me.
He said, be like a beautiful butterfly.
Whatever it is you want into your life 👈👈👈
Get a platform.
Get lots of people following you.
Get them to listen to you.
And make them want more.
And do it everyday!
And watch the opportunities flow in!
Peppy Butternut ;-)😁😁😁
Feel free to share this with your office!🎅🤶
With the way things are going in the world.
That’s what we have to do.
In order to empower our kids!
We need to make them Warriors!
Warriors of HOPE!
Warriors of DREAMS!
Warriors of BELIEF IN THEMSELVES!
Warriors of YOU CAN BE ANYTHING YOU WANT!
My two boys are in their twenties now.
And I REMIND THEM DAILY!
From the time they were little.
I told them they could do anything.
They were willing to work for👊👊👊
Are you on Pinterest?
Follow me @pattibokowski 👈👈👈
Pins go up daily!
That’s the thing.
One small step.
But you HAVE to start👈👈👈
Isn’t that the truth!
Don’t ever apologize.
For your greatness.
And, don’t ever dim your shine.
To make others feel better.
The brighter you shine.
The more people.
You can inspire around you👈👈👈
Have you heard?
I wrote a book!
It’s titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!
Available now on Amazon!
Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ
I cannot wait for you guys to read it!
Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!
That’s a wrap!
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!
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