“The end!” (4.21.17)

Patricia Bokowski, wanting something means you believe you don’t have it.
Which you don’t want to believe or you may never get it.
Instead, you can recognize that which you don’t yet have by giving thanks, in advance, for receiving it.
Cool,  The Universe / “The end!” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & FOUNDER – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions!’ – NineFrogs

The end!

That’s right!

The end of waiting.

The end of you.

Being less than.

Now.

Time to start.

Your new life.

And to.

Stop living a dumb AF life.

And.

Start living a larger than life.

LIFE!

How do you do that?

START!

Just start!

You know what they say?

If you want BIG results.

You need to make BIG moves!

It’s funny.

People don’t seem to understand.

Every morning that you wake up.

Is a new opportunity to start over.

You don’t need a Monday.

Or a new month.

Even a new year.

Hell.

You can start over at 1:00pm in the afternoon.

Starting over is a mindset.

It’s not an actual time👈👈👈

You can tell yourself that today.

Or tomorrow.

You are going to start over.

It is literally that simple.

Only.

Some people.

Just refuse to look at it that way.

No.

They get it all messed up.

Step over themselves.

Overthink it.

Get in their own way.

And then wonder.

Why they aren’t getting anywhere in life.

Why they are unhappy.

Unsatisfied.

Resentful.

Bitter.

Please., don’t be one.

Of those people!

That about sums it up!

Whatever you really want.

Will require a lot of work.

That’s just the way it works.

But so worth it.

That’s why.

You have to keep reminding yourself.

What is your WHY?

Listen.

If you want to go far in life.

You need to give up.

EVERYTHING.

That weighs you down.

And.

I mean EVERYTHING!

That means:

People.

Relationships.

Jobs.

Careers.

Places where you live.

You name it!

You can’t get.

To the top of the mountain.

When you are carrying.

All that extra weight.

I solved that problem.

I made my own table!

See, easy!

Now I invite who I want,

To be at my table.

Less BS.

Less drama.

More focus.

More opportunities.

Like I said.

Easy.

Don’t be afraid to take risks.

That’s how you grow.

Now.

Stop over-thinking things!

I’ve written about this.

Many times over.

Stop asking people.

Who have never been.

Where you are going.

For directions.

Sure.

You can ask for help.

Or advice.

But.

DO NOT asking people.

What you should do?

It’s your path.

You decide!

I’ve learned.

Over the years.

Tip-toeing. 

Which to me.

Really means.

Being really ‘nice’.

Gets you nowhere fast.

Which is not to say.

Don’t be nice.

I’m saying.

Don’t be naive.

And.

Don’t be afraid.

To do some stomping.

While you’re out there!

In fact.

I encourage it!

Do it on behalf of all women.

Make some noise.

Big and loud!

I know I am!

Here’s another way.

Of looking at it.

The world.

Needs your magic.

I don’t care.

Whatever it is you do.

The world needs it.

You.

Your magic.

Your power.

Look at it this way.

You sharing your gifts.

Could inspire someone else to share theirs.

Here’s another thing.

To consider?

What if?

Seriously.

Whatever it is you are contemplating doing.

Works?

Not just works?

But, is an absolute HUGE Success?

Yeah.

Think about that!

Exactly.

I always say.

Don’t be afraid.

To break the rules.

NOT the law.

If you stay in the lines.

You’ll NEVER find out.

What you are made of.

Seriously.

If we are to find out.

How amazing we are.

We need to do.

Magical sh*t.

So, if.

You want BIG results.

Don’t be afraid.

To do BIG things!

Been there.

We all have them.

Those bad days.

I find it best.

To find some humor.

On those days.

Or.

Lipstick.

Do whatever works for you.

So you can get through.

Your bad day.

And.

Get back to having.

Better days.

How many times?

Have we stayed too long?

After.

We knew it was time to leave.

Whether, it was a:

Job.

Relationship.

Friendship.

Situation.

Business.

Career.

Places to live.

You name it.

I know I have.

And.

Literally, paid the price for staying!

But.

Not these days.

These days.

The first hint of a red flag.

Bye-Bye!

I am out.

I know that’s not.

What you want to hear.

But trust me.

It’s so true!

You will NEVER.

Get to where you want to be.

Unless.

You get out of your comfort zone.

I know.

It’s hard.

But remember.

The HARD.

Is what makes it GREAT!

Stop being comfortable.

And start doing the things.

That make you uncomfortable.

That’s where the magic happens.

 

And that.

Is what it comes.

Down it.

I can.

I will.

End of story.

No if’s.

And’s.

Or.

But’s.

This is it.

And.

I’m doing it!

I know it sounds crazy.

But trust me.

It’s a total mind f*ck!

But, it works!

 

Seriously.

It’s called.

Do whatever.

You have to do.

Until you can do.

What you want to do!

Like I always say.

When people ask me what I do.

I say “whatever it takes.”

The end!

 

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

My first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Release date:  October 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“The end!”

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