“The business of Fashion!” (11.14.17)

What a day! I feel so great, so magnanimous, so everywhere! Tell you what, Patricia Bokowski, today dreams are on me. Today everyone’s dreams will come true!
Can I do that? Gimme a break!
Patricia Bokowski, I do it every single day, for everyone, everywhere, no matter what. Always, second to second, month to month, year to year, I give you what you think about, what you most expect, what you believe in and move toward.
What else are Universes for?
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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs


The business of fashion!

Today we’re talking fashion.

One of my favorite topics!


I often get asked.

What do I like Patti?

I’ve noticed a lot of people.

Seem to have the same taste as me.


Today I’ve put together a list of my current favorites.


Short hair!

I just recently had a conversation with a woman at the nail salon.

As we were waiting for our nails to dry.

This very subject came up.

She was sitting opposite me.

And every time I looked over at here.

I saw, that she was staring right at me 😉 

Then, in almost a whisper she says:

I Love Your Hair!

I told her; I get that often.

We then went on and had a great conversation about women.

Specifically, women who want to cut their hair.

Only they are afraid.

I get a lot of that too!


Remember that famous from Coco Chanel?

“A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life!”

And I couldn’t agree more!

Whenever someone (man or woman).

Tells me they need a change in their life.

I tell them to cut their hair.

It is without a doubt.

The quickest pick-me-up I know.

And I’ve yet to hear from anyone.

Who wasn’t happy after they did it!

Michael Kors Shoes!

I am so obsessed with them.

They are like my favorite!

And these ones (pictured above).

Are my all time favorite!

Currently, I have five pairs of Michael Kors shoes.

And I adore each and every one.

That’s probably my favorite thing to look at at the mall.

Not that I go to the mall very often.

But, when I do.

I really just go to admire all the pretty shoes 🙂


I am obsessed with lipstick!

Doesn’t matter the color.

I love them all.

Although, my personal favorite.

Is pink!

And let me tell you.

Over the years.

I can’t tell you how many lipsticks I’ve tried.

And, out of all of them.

I still have my favorite pink lipstick!


My first tattoo!


I have been obsessed with them for years. 

I absolutely adore them!

I know.

Many of you HATE them.

I had to put that in caps.

Because, that’s how some people.

Have expressed their total disdain of tattoos to me.

I get it.


It doesn’t change my mind.

I still love them!

And to date, I’ve gotten four now.

Just waiting to get my next!


And these earrings! 

I’m sure you’ve seen them by now.

Double ball earrings.  

I discovered these a couple of years ago.

When a good friend of mine brought me back a pair from the Philippines. 

Up until then.

I’d never seen a pair like them. 

And I feel in love immediately.

I’m always on the hunt for different ones. 

My Angel Bracelet!

I got it from an Influencer gig.

I absolutely loved it.

Problem was.

It was all fake.

Pure junk.

The whole thing literally fell apart after a couple of weeks.


I brought it to my jeweler.

And asked him if he could make me one.

Only if sterling silver.

And, with a real pearl.

It took him awhile.

As he had to get the Angel wing portion from Israel.

But, once he put it all together.

It was pure magic.

And I wear it everyday.

I like to think.

My guardian Angel is watching over me >3





If you had asked me five years ago.

When I started my business.

If people one day people would pay me to write for them.

I would have laughed.

And now I do@ 

And I love it!

It makes me happy.

When someone reads something I wrote.

And it moves them.

A couple of years ago.

I wrote a blog I called “Nine Suggestions To Have A Happy Day”. http://www,ninefrogs.com

And shortly after.

A man wrote me an email saying he owned a gym.

And that he made copies of the blog.

And hung them all around the gym.


When you can do that for people.

That’s a wonderful feeling.

Arcade Fire! 

I am a huge music fan, always have been.

And Arcade Fire is my current obsession.

And I LOVE their new song Creature Comfort

And when it comes to radio.

WFUV is my favorite radio station. 

I have it playing all day long in my office when I’m working.

I love the diversity of music they play, and I’m all about that 😉

Being the best ME!

Notice I didn’t say beautiful, gorgeous or pretty.

Just being the best me.

Some days I hit it out of the park.

And some days I don’t.

And, just like a lot of other people. 

I strive to be better every day.

Funny story. NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

Yesterday, we were having some work done at the house.

I hadn’t met the person doing the work because my son set it up.

So, I leave the house in the morning to go to my appointment.

And, this man walks up to his truck parked next to my car in the driveway.

I put two and two together, that this was the guy doing the work.

I say: Good morning.

He says: Good morning.

Then, he turns around again.

And says: “Can I just say, you are so beautiful.

I wasn’t expecting to see such a beautiful woman first thing in the morning!”

I say: Thank you.

He says: No, really, you are so beautiful!

Moral of the story:

Do you think when I left the house yesterday.

When I looked in the mirror before I left.

That I said to myself:

“God, you’re looking quite beautiful today Patti”.


No, I didn’t.


Maybe we should all try doing that more often!

My, you are looking quite beautiful today lovely <3


Have you heard?

I’m writing a book.

Yes, my first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: Summer 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!


Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos up now on TikTok & YouTube!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!


“The business of fashion!”



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