“Tell me why?” (4.25.2020)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternal… and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in love… and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
Tallyho,   The Universe
/ “Tell me why?”


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Tell me why?


Why don’t you?

I mean.

It’s day #93302830281 of #lockdown2020.😐😐😐

At least that’s what it feels like😷😷😷

How you all doingπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

Making the best.

Of this bad situation I hopeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Don’t lose your happiness.

In this ‘whatever this is’ mess.

Life is too short.

Not to be happy.

Even in the middle of a pandemic!

So, a friend of mine called me during the week.

And she said.

‘Patti, what the hell?

How come you haven’t written.

One of your inspirational blogs?

Like now!

People need to hear from you.’

Okay, point taken.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How are you?




I realize.

That many.

Will not be happy.

With my list.


You know what?

I’m good with that!

How are you?



I realize.

Not every item on my list.

Is quite ‘doable’ these days.

And that’s ok.


Now you have the time to think about them.

Think about what you want to change?

Think what you can change in your life?

How are you?

Seriously! πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Today I’m sharing.

My ideas for being happy.

Something of which.

Has alluded many these days.

If this lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that we are all a lot stronger.


Much more adaptable!

Who would have thought.

Just a precious few months ago.

We’d be grocery shopping with masks on?

Or, drinking wine at noon on a Tuesday 🍷🍷🍷

And yet, here we are!

How are you?


LIVE ferociously!

If this lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that life is fleeting.

So when this thing is over.

Live with all you heart <3

With WHOEVER you want to love!


Here’s a side-note.

Don’t fall in love in lockdown.


A lot of people are just bored.


Maybe not the best time to fall in love?

Just sayin!

How are you?


Let YOUR life serve as an inspiration to others.

What can you do?

To start inspiring those around you.


Everyone has a gift!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

What’s yours?

For me?

For one thing.

I have a great smile.

And great hair.

Right there.

Those two things make people happy.


I encounter it all the time.

So, again.

What’s yours?

Whatever it is.

Find it.

Share it.

Like throwing confetti around at a party!

How are you?


Check out that smile & hair = Makes people happy πŸ™‚

Make those around you HAPPY!



A lot of people can’t find their happiness right now.

And I can’t be everywhere. NineFrogs Daily β€œQUOTE OF THE DAY!”:



You need to step up.

Be the light for those around YOUπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How are you?


Take chances.

Life is way to short to live ‘too comfortably.”

Remember the book “Who Moved My Cheese?”

If you haven’t?

Now is a great time to read it!

I know you probably can’t get to the library.

But, maybe you can find it online!

The bottom line is this.

Life changes quickly.

Look at what we are dealing with now?

Would any of us have predicted this February 1st?

I don’t know about you, but I wasn’t.

How are you?


You Go Queens! Remember, we got this!

Have fun!

Yes, I know.

Right now you’re saying, ‘that’s impossible Patti.’

And, I’m saying it’s not.

But, here are my two schools of thought on this.


As much as you can.

Try and make the best out of a bad situation.


How can you make the situation work for you?


It’s not forever.

Just for now.

How are you?


I’ve also started a list.

A list of all the things.

I want to do when we ‘get out’.

One thing for sure.

I’m getting a new tattoo.

I’m getting a haircut.

And, getting my nails done.

What’s on your list?

How are you?


“Your spirit is what keeps you going,

your attitude is how you show it to the world.” /

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

Let your inner fashionista out…

She’s in there.

And that goes for the men too!

Please don’t be walking around.

In your sweats all day.

Because, as we all know.

Even in lockdown2020.

You need to get some balance in your life.

How are you?


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Fall in love, (or all over again) with yourself.❀❀❀

Prior to lockdown 2020.

We were all running around.

Like chickens without heads.

Let’s be honest.

And for many of us.

Put ourselves LAST on our “to-do” list.

Well guess what?

Take 15 minutes out of the day.

To do something ‘nice” for yourself.

How are you?


Move mountains, lots of them!

And while you are at it.

Get out of your own damn way.

Another way we trip up our own happiness.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

The key to your happiness is in YOUR pocket!

How are you?


Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself. The storm will pass.”

Lastly, don’t be afraid.

To break the rules (not the law).

To find your happiness.

You don’t have to follow the herd.

You are allowed to do your own thing.

Everyone may not be happy with you for doing it.

But that’s their problem not yours!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Tell me why?

Did you hear?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den!

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Tell me why?”



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