“Stop Waiting For Friday!” (8.23.16)

What if everything that’s happened so far, Patricia Bokowski, was just practice for when things get really, really good? 
Really, really soon – 
   The Universe / Stop Waiting For Friday!
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
“Stop Waiting For Friday!”

Quote: www.tut.com

Stop already!

I hear this so often when I talk to people.  

They keep putting off their happiness because they are waiting for someone or something.  

These are the excuses I hear:

“When I fall in love again!”❤❤❤

“I’ll be happy when I’m out of debt.”

“When I get a new job.”

“I’ll be happy when I lose weight.” (this is a big one, and a total waste of time).

The list goes on and on!


Here’s my advice:


Seriously, be happy now!😁😁😁

No person and no thing can make you happy!

Only you can make YOU happy.

Other people can ADD to your happiness.

But trust me, if you aren’t really happy, no one else can MAKE YOU happy ;-)😍😍😍



My ex-husband was one of those people.

He always had an excuse as to why he wasn’t happy.

And he was FOREVER saying things like, “I’ll be happy when we get a house.”

We did.  Didn’t make him any happier.

Got a new car.  Same thing.

Even had a baby.  He was happy for a short time, then, not so much.

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸


So, if you are looking for someone else to make you happy, you are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment.  

You need to be your own best friend first.https://www.ninefrogs.com

And as far as all the other “things” that people think will make them happy, you should give up on that dream.  

Here’s another thing.

You have to stop putting off pursuing your dreams.

This isn’t a dress rehearsal.

It’s the real deal.

Your journey starts today.

Whatever excuses you have been using as to WHY you haven’t started already, go away. Fresh slate.


After you read this blog I want you to get a piece of paper (your phone doesn’t count).

And write down your dreams/goals/passions.

Then start making lists as to how you can go about making those things happen, with what you have right now.

With whatever resources you have right now.

And what most don’t realize, is that they have more resources than they think?

You just have to use a little brain power to figure it out.

And time.

But whatever you do, do not delay.

Stop waiting for Friday.👈👈👈

And stop putting off your happiness.

Speaking of your happiness.

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Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

Don’t back down. Show them who you are!




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