|Okay, Patricia Bokowski, here’s the skinny. The answer to your question. The way, the light, the door. The most overlooked truth in reality. And the one that requires the most “uncommon sense” to fully grasp:|
When it comes to effecting change (big or little, but especially big), manifesting the life of your dreams, or getting that perfect parking space, “thinking” is immeasurably more valuable when used to imagine what you want — the end result — than to figure out how you’re going to get it.
Which is why most people have to schlep through big parking lots.
Tallyho, The Universe / “On the go!” / www.tut.com
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
On the go!
Isn’t that most of us these days.
Always on the go.
The problem is.
A lot of people are just going around in circles.
Not really going anywhere.
That’s where your passion comes in.
So let me ask you?
What is your passion?
And, do you even have one?
Note: not everyone does.
But, if you one of the lucky ones.
Who have that ‘something’.
I’ve spoken about this many times before.
ALL my years at Cablevision.
I ALWAYS had this nagging feeling.
That I was supposed to be doing ‘something’ bigger.
Unfortunately for me.
I didn’t know what that ‘something’ was.
And, it took me a long time to find after.
But, once I found it.
This was the f*cking thing.
That I was supposed to be doing!
Yeah, like that!
So, let me ask you?
Are you following your path?
That thing that gets your heart pumping.
That thing that makes you get out of bed in the morning!
That thing that you can’t stop thinking about.
That thing you dream about doing.
That thing that makes you want to cry somedays.
BTW, that’s true!
Now, if you aren’t.
You should be.
And, I should add.
Everyone should be on their path.
That’s what this life is all about!
Doing that thing that sets your soul on fire!
Let me explain something to you.
In case you weren’t aware.
Opportunity dances with those.
Already on the dance floor👈👈👈
Already ON the dance floor!
Not, getting ready to.
Or, working on it.
Check. Check. Check.✔✔✔
“Opportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor.”
You have to be ON the actual dance floor.
To put it another way.
As the lottery people love to say:
“You have to be in it to win it”.
You get the idea!
You need to be “in the game”.
In order to be winning!
On the go!
Sitting on the sidelines.
That your dreams.
Will come true.
Is a complete waste of time!
Get out and start!
That’s where the magic is!
It’s a leap of faith for sure.
You can do it, I promise you!
If that’s what you really want.
You so have what it takes.
I promise you!
Now, I am no sports enthusiast!
By any stretch of the imagination!
But I do know enough about professional players.
That in order for them to gain the success.
That they have achieved.
They had to have practiced till they bled.
And then some.
They kept getting back up.
And doing it over again.
That’s what it’s like.
On the dancefloor.
You get knocked down.
You get back up.
“Fall down seven times, stand up either.” – Ancient Chinese Proverb
Your time is now!
It’s not easy to stay in the game.
That’s why so many quit!
Only, you owe it to yourself.
To stay in the game.
You will NEVER know.
What you are made of.
We are ALL born with so much potential.
And yet so many of us die.
Using only a fraction of it!
The minute it starts to get hard.
And I can tell you right now.
It is HARD.
Like f*cking hard.
Nothing great ever came from easy .
It is the hard that makes it worthwhile.
Even if you feel like you are losing today.
Stick with it.
You will start to win.
Even if they are just little wins.
Eventually become big wins.
You just have to stick with it!
Now or never baby~
Nobody wants to be average.
Certainly, no one wants to live a mediocre life.
If you don’t start making some major changes.
That includes your mindset.
Things will never change.
And no one has time for that!
It all starts with your thoughts.
That is so me these days.
See, I have learned (the hard way).
That as you pursue your journey.
Along the way.
You will most likely encounter people.
Who will want to jump on your path with you.
See, you have already started.
And they didn’t.
So, they want to take the easy route.
And jump on your path.
That’s where the hellfire comes in.
Do you know how many times.
Over the years.
People who tried to take advantage of me.
Who were not happy with them trying to do so.
Said to me: “Patricia, I thought you were a nice person?”
The minute a woman speaks up for herself.
She is considered a B*TCH!
I say this, in case this hasn’t happened to you yet.
But, do not let is deter you.
Press on hard as a matter of fact.
Just like I do everyday.
B*tch or not.
No one is stopping me!
It’s a daily process.
This pursuing your dreams thing.
Wash + Rinse = Repeat 👈👈👈
You just keep at it.
With whatever you got.
However you can do it.
Maybe you work full time.
And start it as a side-hustle.
Maybe you are a stay at home mom.
You start it at night.
Whatever the case may be.
You start! “How can I?” (6.3.2021)
The moral of the story, don’t give up!
Never give up on something.
You can’t go a day.
Without thinking about it.
Life is too short.
And, you are too special!
I can honestly say.
That if I never started my business.
My life would be so different.
And I can guarantee you.
I would never be as happy as I am now!
Ok, so did you hear?
I just finished.
Writing my first book.
At least for me.
And, now I’m already.
Putting things together for my second.
And, contemplating a third.
That’s what happens.
Once you start something.
You enjoy doing it.
And, now you want to.
Continue doing it!
Trust me, that’s how it works!
Plus, writing a book.
Let’s you add author to your bio.
And that my friends is a +++
I can’t tell you when success will find you?
I can tell you when it won’t!
You, sitting on your couch.
Not doing anything.
To be successful!
I can pretty much guarantee you a success rate.
And ain’t nobody got time for that.
I’m telling you.
It’s YOUR time to shine.
Now, go out and get busy.
On the go!
Did you hear?
I wrote a book!
Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”
Available now on Amazon!
Click link to purchase: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ
I cannot wait for you guys to read it!
Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!
That’s a wrap!
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!
“On the go!”
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