“NineFrogs Weekly Roundup!” (9.25.2020)

Well, Patricia Bokowski, by this point in the day, if my calculations are correct, I expect you’ve already begun thinking of yourself as “mere mortal.” Somewhat alone, a little bit confused, and responsible for figuring out how to make your life take off.

So… just thought I’d send you a reminder that at this very moment, there are a million eyes upon you, grateful for your courage; that you already know all you need to know; and that whether or not you can see it, you’re already soaring. 

“Houston to Patricia Bokowski,” nice blast-off –   The Universe / NineFrogs Weekly Roundup /


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – Kermit the Frog

Don’t let your challenges get the best of you.👈👈👈

I’m pretty sure we all need to hear that right now!

Trying times at best these days.

And I don’t know about anyone else, but the whole “what day is it” thing has only gotten worse for me.

I know this pandemic has affected us all in different ways.

So today, my NineFrogs Weekly Roundup, is all about being positive, even in these strange days.

Because those of you that know me personally, know, that this is how I live my life, pandemic or not!


This is also a good time to have a good sense of humor about life and try not to take everything so seriously:

Blanche: Well, Dorothy, since when do you care about what you look like?

Dorothy: Ever since I came down from the bell-tower and had my lump fixed!


“Never give in – never, never, never, never in nothing great or small, large or petty, never give in except to conviction of honour and good sense. Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.” / Winston Churchill

You HAVE to START 👉👉👉

The power in anything is starting.

You will never know what you are made of, if you don’t start!

And then once you start, you never know how far you can go!

It sounds so simple, doesn’t it?

But, to truly get to lead the life we want, that’s what you need to to.

Start saying no to the things that no longer serve you.👉👉👉

And start saying YES to the things that set your soul on fire🔥🔥🔥

Start today!

I don’t know if anyone noticed on LinkedIn or FaceBook, but I started on TikTok last month.

Talk about being uncomfortable 🙏🙏🙏

But, I knew it was the next step for my business, so I just did it!

And you know what?

It’s doing wonders for both myself and my business.👈👈👈

It’s not easy coming out of your comfort zone.

Trust me, I know.👆👆👆

But you will never know until you try something to see if it works.

So here’s my advice, just DO IT 👈👈👈

I’ve probably said this before, but, I’ve had this taped to the back door in my office for years.

Because, when you think about it, isn’t that what really holds us back?

We think,

“Oh no, I can’t do that?”


“No one cares what I think”


“I’m not smart enough to do that.”

Only here’s the thing, you can, they do and yes you are!

So who are you NOT to be amazing👈👈👈

Like that. https://www.ninefrogs.com

It’s all connected.

And one day it’s all going to make sense of everything you’ve gone through.

So, in the meantime, take it one day at a time. and embrace it all!👈👈👈

How many people have experienced this?

I know I have.👈👈👈

People that I once considered my ride or die people.

Are now are on a totally different road than me.

And that’s ok (I’ve came to terms with it a long time ago).

That’s true growth.

Not everyone is meant to stay with you to the end.

If you want different results, be prepared to try different methods to get where you want to be.

Don’t be afraid to experiment!

What’s the worse that can happen?

You’ll fail.

That’s ok.

Then you will have learned one way NOT to do something.👈👈

But what if you tried something NEW and it worked?

How would you feel then?

About five years ago I started selling t-shirts on Amazon (because I was lucky enough to get chosen by Amazon).

I spent quite a few bucks to get the designs for the t-shirts, but my heart was never really in it.

I should add I NEVER wear t-shirts, like ever.👉👉👉

Needless to say, it was no surprise the whole thing went no where and was a big bust!

I think I sold like five t-shirts.

Lesson learned.

Don’t sell things you don’t love and don’t do things you love to do👈👈👈

l truly believe that.👆👆👆

Again, sometimes some people, and usually the ones you least suspect, aren’t going to be with you till the end of the road.

And that’s ok.

Because the way I look at it.

It leaves room for new people to come into your life.👆👆👆

And maybe these are the people The Universe meant to be with you till the end of the road👈👈👈

I always come back!


Fall down seven times, stand up eight.

I don’t care what life is throwing at you right now.

Throw it right back!

Never quit!

Never surrender!

You have it in you.

Fight for what you want.

No one is going to hand it to you.

Work hard.

Work smart.

And get it.

Time will pass anyway.

Let it work in your favor!

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Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs onTikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while.



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