“Motivation Monday!” (9.23.19)

I think you already feel it, Patricia Bokowski, but a really HUGE wave of LOVE is coming your way.
Once-in-a-lifetime HUGE. 
Hang ten,  The Universe / Monday Motivation


Quote: www.tut.com

Who doesn’t need a little Monday Motivation!

I don’t know about you, but I really need some motivation.

I’ve been feeling quite stressed and anxious these days.

I have a lot on my mind.

So basically guys.

I’m writing a blog to make myself feel better.

Hopefully, it helps you too!

To that end.


Sad but true.

If you’re a good person with a good heart.

You rightfully would expect others to act the same.


That’s not how it works in the real world.


As anyone who’s been screwed over by people I know no less.

The last people you would think would screw you over,

And I know this happens on a daily basis.

I know.

I’ve spoken with many people about it.

It doesn’t even shock me anymore.

As a result.

The way I see it.

You have two choices.

Stay a lamb.


Become the lionπŸ‘†πŸ‘†πŸ‘†


That’s right!

I am no longer the lamb.



And I will eat anyone who gets in MY way.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

The way I figure it.

You can continue to be a lamb for the rest of your life.

Taking people’s shiz.

And I know a lot of people like this.


BECOME the LIONπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

When I first started my business in 2012.

Just about everyone thought I was crazy.

Just get a job, they said.

Why do you have to do this?

Who’s going to pay you to go shopping?

And you’re going to be a Fashion/LifeStyle blogger?

What does that even mean.

Guess what?

Here I am all these years later.

Still in business.

While many who I started with are not.

Don’t ever let someone tell you, that YOU can’t move mountains.

Because let me tell you friends.

I’m moving mountains EVERY F’ING DAYπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I ..I took the one less traveled by. And that has made all the difference.” Robert Frost

As crazy as it sounds.

After I take my morning shower.

And I put on my makeup.

Get dressed.

I immediately start to feel better (if I’m having a bad morning).

There is power in makeup.

It does something to you.

Both girls, and boys, know this.

That’s why I am obsessed with #makeup on #instagram.

So, if you’re having a bad day.

Pour yourself a drink (can be anything from a glass of wine to a glass of water), put on some lipstick, and handle your business!

The Frog’s Den

We all fall down in life.

It’s just a question of getting back up again.

And again.

And again.


That’s how life works.

She is always testing us.

To see how strong we are.

Giving us lessons.

Whether we want them or not.

And for the record.

The Universe must have utter faith in me.

Because she has tested the mother f’ing shiz out of me.

And yet.

I’m still here. https://www.ninefrogs.com

Not just surviving.

But THRIVING.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And I can feel the blessings are on their way!

Every woman everywhere over 50


Pretty accurate betrayal of my life these days!

So me now.


Not that I won’t shed a tear after reading a story about a dog getting adopted on Instagram.


If you fuxx with me.

I will fuxx you 100 times harder.

That’s my attitude these days.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That is what happens when you take your power back.

When no one scares you anymore.

Because you have already been to hell and back more times than you can count.

When you are NOT afraid to get down and dirty if you have to.


Like that.

You have rights.

No one has a right to ‘f with you.”

Although many will try.

You have the right to protest your own mistreatment.

If people disrespect you.

Cross their boundaries with you.

Mistreat you.

YOU have every right to hit back.

And yes, they will be offended and appalled.

Expect it.


That’s their problem, not yours!

As for me.

It’s time.

NineFrogs Wisdom


When you live your life this way.

You open it up to endless possibilities.

Kermit the Frog.

AKA The Frog Consultant.

Is a huge believer in The Universe.

And sometimes.

We need to do just that.

Let go.

You know how they say everyone has a book in them.


I’m writing a book.

And I have no doubt that the people I talk about in my book are going to be down-right out-raged.

That’s their problem.

They should have thought about that 10 years ago.

Because nobody was caring how I felt.










“Being underestimated is one of the biggest competitive advantages you can have!” – The Frog’s Den

Lastly, don’t forget to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

Need a smile?

Check out my videos on TikTok, guaranteed to make you smile πŸ™‚

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!




One Response

  1. Michael Ault September 24, 2019

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