Make today ridiculously amazing! (5.25.17)

Those feelings you most want, Patricia Bokowski, aren’t going to come from somewhere new, someone special, or something wonderful. 
They’re going to come from within, where they now wait for your permission to be released – often in terms of somewhere new, someone special, or something wonderful. 
Permission granted, 
  The Universe / Make today ridiculously amazing!
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs


Yes, today.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

It’s not just another day, it’s today.  

People have this way of putting the special for another day!  

Only, “today” is the special day.  

If you woke up this morning, today is another special day >3

Remember thatโ˜โ˜โ˜ 

Be AMAZING today!

This is pretty much how I live my life these days. 

Ever since I started my business just about five years ago.

I wake up everyday (and say thank you) with the intention of helping as many people as I can.

Through whichever means I can.

My posts, my services, my blog, all of it serves to help others!

It gives me MY purpose.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

This NineFrogs business of mine is the driving factor in my life (aside from my two sons).

Having a true purpose has changed my life immensely in more ways than I can count.

I can’t imagine living my life any other way now. 

And I have many things I still want to do.  


I know I have only literally scratched the surface of what I want to do and where I want to go.

When you have that sense of purpose, it makes each day amazing!โ˜

Because no two days are the same for me anymore.

No more 9-5, Monday to Friday.

Now it’s from the time I wake up till the time I go to bed.



That’s what makes every day amazing for me.  

Following my passion and my purpose.


In my vast life experience.

I have one theory of what stops people from living their amazing life…

Most people spend too much time thinking about yesterday.

Last month.

Last year.

Twenty years ago.

Instead of actually thinking about today!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Too many people are living in the past.


Of thinking about right now.

You know what those people need to do?

Let that shit go!

Reality check.

You have today!

That’s it.

Nothing after that is promised to any of us.


If you ever needed a reminder to make today amazing.

That should be it!



However you can.

With whatever you have.

With whatever resources you have. 

With whatever knowledge you have.

You don’t need to figure out the whole thing.

Just start.

Want to make today ridiculously amazing?

Do something that makes you happy!


We often look to big occasions to make us happy.

Maybe it’s a wedding.

A birthday party.

Graduation party.

Some BIG life event.

Instead of realizing everyday is THE event!


How you live your life.

Depends how amazing you think your life is.

Do you live your life thinking the best is yet to come?


Do you live your life thinking your best days are behind you?


If you are living your life the later.

Your chances of having any amazing days are pretty much shot to hell!


When you wake up in the morning.

Adopt the mindset that THIS is going to be an amazing day!

Because you know what? 

It is ๐Ÿ˜‰  

How many people have a funny memory with their family?

Something that happened out of the blue and you still talk about it today?

I know me and my kids have quite a few.

I’m pretty sure every family has many.


You never knew it was going to be a cherished moment until it happened.


That’s what living a ridiculously amazing life is all about.

Always thinking the best is till to come. โ€œLive your best life!โ€ (8.19.2020)


True story:

Some years ago or so, when I was working at Cablevision’s Flight Department, I met Brad Pritt in person.  And yes, he is just as handsome, if not more, in person, and just as nice).  

I had heard at the time that he was taking flying lessons, so I knew he was in the area, I was just never expecting him to walk through the door at work.

So imagine your standing talking with a couple of your co-workers by your desk and the door opens from the hangar and in walks Brad Pitt!  

That really happened!  

I received an e-mail yesterday that brought me some great news!

Something that I was hoping was going to happen (business wise).  

My first reaction was, OMG, I can’t believe it!  

And second reaction was, Mmmmm, I don’t know if I can do that. srg9

Then I proceeded to come up with about five reasons why I couldn’t/shouldn’t do it.


“If you are always trying to be normal,

you will never know how AMAZING you can be.” /

Maya Angelou

Here was a thing I really wanted to do.

Yet the thought of actually doing it scared the hell out of me.  

Totally out of my comfort zone. 

I had to literally sit and think about it, and tell myself I could do it.  

And to cement the deal, I told a couple of people about it, making myself accountable to actually doing it!

Is is easy coming out of your comfort zone?  

Absolutely not!  Only, that really is WHERE THE MAGIC HAPPENS.๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•

So here’s my advice; don’t be afraid of coming out of your comfort zone and doing amazing things!


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I leave you with this…  “Pursue Greatness Daily”!

You deserve it!

It’s your destiny.

Don’t just ‘settle’ for whatever comes your way.

There are plenty of people who die at 30 and aren’t buried till they’re 75.

I’m sure we all have a story, or two, or ten, about shiz that happened to us.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


The difference is, you can look at what happened to you, learn from it and move on.

OR, you can let it keep right where you are!

Total BS, don’t let that happen to you!

As the saying goes, you are never too old to learn a new trick.

Because, remember, you are looking to make your days ridiculously amazing!

People get so caught up in what “happened” to them, that they can’t move forward.

Don’t let the person be you!

Be so caught up in your own life, your future, your passion, that you don’t have time to think about yesterday.

All your thoughts are on your tomorrows๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ


Personally, I’ve been to hell and back more times than I can count.  

I just use that as fuel to get me to where I want to me!

There is only person responsible for making your life amazing, and that is you! 

So be amazing!

Make today ridiculously amazing!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ 

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!