“Love me!” (9.23.15)

Patricia Bokowski, can you keep a secret? 
You know the space between you and all things, the void. Like right now, the space between you and your computer. 
That’s where I hide… and watch. 
Looking to see what your expectations are: of yourself, others, abundance, health, and happiness.
And from this space as I catch your thoughts, hear your words, and see all you do, no matter where we are, I manifest the next moment in time. 
Fade out with “I believe in miracles, you sexy thing” by Hot Chocolate – 
  The Universe / Love me! / www.tut.com
Patricia Bokowski, if you reach out now, into this space, you can feel me. I’m here. It’s true. You sexy thing.

“If you want to achieve greatness stop asking for permission.” – NineFrogs


Love: as defined by Webster’s Dictionary –

: a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person

: attraction that includes sexual desire

: the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship

: a person you love in a romantic way

 How can I find love?


As the song goes.

Looking for love in all the wrong places.


That’s certainly what it feels like some days.

For those of us in the dating game (which is what it feels like most days).

So today.

We’re celebrating the single life, of sorts.


It seems we are all either trying to find it.

Keep it.

Or find a new one.

Probably one of THE most written about subjects.  

And why is that you may ask?

Because there’s so much mystery to it. 

It’s so complicated.

Even though they say when you find the right one it’s not.


There’s just so much to say about it.  

So many unanswered questions?  






And no one can give you that answer.

Only The Universe knows.



We are all looking for the answers.

In all the wrong places ๐Ÿ˜‰

I have no doubt about that!

Love is magical for sure <3

And other times.

It can be agonizing AF.

We’ve all been there ;-(

When it’s wonderful.

It is timeless.

When it’s awful.

Time stands still.

And when will you find it?

That is a BIG one๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Usually when you least suspect it.

With someone you least suspect.

I met my husband (now ex) on a blind date.

And we fell hard and fast for each other.

That’s how she works her magic.


Is what makes LOVE so special.



So my advice to anyone who is seeking LOVE?

Let LOVE seek you.


That doesn’t mean you sit back and do nothing.

Oh no.

It means you stop waiting for your prince/princess to come knocking on your door.

It means, get yourself out in the world.

Pursue your interests.  

LIVE your best life.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

BE with the people who make you happy.

Do the work you love to do!

And then, when you least suspect it, LOVE will find you <3

Be a beautiful butterfly.โ€œ




How can I find love?


And while you’re at it.

Sign-up for some of those on-line dating apps.


I know you hate them.

We all HATE them.

But, I have to say, over the years, I’ve met some great people.


It didn’t last.

But, I am still in touch with some of those very people.

Like the lottery says: You never know.

No risk, no magic.

Be willing to put yourself out there a bit.

Like dipping your toes in the water.

You can do.

I believe in you <3

And what happens if you do?

And you meet the love of your life! 

It could happen๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

How can I find love?

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

My first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: 12.15.2021.

Stay tuned for further updates!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!


“Love me!”



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