Life. The good, the bad and the ugly. (2.12.2020)

A philosophical journey from here to there…
Patricia Bokowski, do you think that if ten million dollars were to be suddenly deposited into your checking account, that over the following months and years you’d have fewer and fewer challenges? Or do you think, perhaps, that your challenges would simply evolve and change? 
Right, evolve and change. 
And do you think that with your extra $10 million, you’d gradually be presented with more and more opportunities to be happy? Or do you think, perhaps, that your opportunities would simply evolve and change? 
Right, evolve and change. 
Now, doesn’t that answer everything? 
Beeb, beeb –   The Universe

Life. The good, the bad and the ugly!


Life is too short, and you have worked too hard.

Every person I know seems to be working their ass off these days!

As for me, this year for me is all about getting things right.๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š

Things that I have put up with, settled on, dealt with, and most definitely my last year of tolerating less than I deserveโœ”โœ”โœ”

What about you?

How about this be the year we stop ‘accepting’ what is handed to us, and instead, go out and go after what is ours!

I was watching a YouTube video recently and the person asked (I don’t remember who it was), what is your word for 2020?

After about 10 seconds my word came to me…BELIEVE๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ As in, I BELIEVE I am worth it all!

What’s your word for 2020? Share it in the comments!

Just like when things don’t go your way and you’re thinking ‘why is this happening to me?’

Instead THINK; ‘no, it’s not for me, something better will come along.’๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

What’s yours will find you, it always does!

That’s what I’m talking about!๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿšฉ

We tend to hold onto things for far too long.

When the reality is we needed to let them go ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

Here’s my list of things that you should let go of in 2020:

toxic relationships๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฎ

obsessive use of social media (read a book)โœ”โœ”โœ”

negative self-talkโŒโŒโŒ

doubt ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

feeling unworthy๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘

worry (as Dale Carnegie says ‘the most useless thing you can do!’)๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

body-shaming (your own, you can’t change anything you don’t love first!)๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

putting off happinessโ˜บโ˜บโ˜บ (you truly need to let that shiz go!)

comparing yourself to anyone else (‘the reason why we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel!’)

“Not everyone will have the heart you have. Not everyone will appreciate you and what you do for them. Sometimes, it won’t be easy having a kind heart in a cruel world. Be prepared.” / Tony Gaskins <3 #realitybites

We’ve all been there.

Just when we think it can’t get any worse?


Life throws you another major punch๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š

And that is precisely when you need to throw your hands in the air and say ‘not today my friend, not today!’ #keepgoinganyway

Actually, I just read something the other day on LinkedIn, made me think of this๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

This is what it said:

I’ve run into both kinds.

I’m sure we all have!

Be the one who went for it!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

When all hell starts breaking loose in your life, remember, many times this is a clearing for better things to come, although it may not feel it at the time.๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

Many times it comes down to letting go (back to letting things go again), of old habits, old ways of thinking, or, shedding anything that doesn’t serve you anymore.

And see, if you won’t do it, the Universe will do it for you.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Life. The good, the bad and the uglyโŒโŒโŒ


That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stair. Make it worth their while!

Me these daysโ˜โ˜โ˜


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