“It’s the end!” (4.21.17)

Ever notice Patricia Bokowski…
how when someone dreams of happiness, abundance, health, romance, or friendship, they never have to wonder if it’s in their best interest?
 
But when someone dreams of a specific house, employer, love interest, deadline, dollar amount, or diet fad, they often end up contradicting themselves?
 
Keep your “end results” general, Patricia Bokowski. Everything else is just a how.
 
To the big picture, 
  The Universe / “It’s the end!” / www.tut.com
 
Save the glorious details for visualizing to thereby get excited about the new big picture of your life, Patricia Bokowski, yet don’t attach to those details or mistake them for what you really want.
 

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions!’ – NineFrogs

It’s the end!

The end of waiting.

Waiting to start.

To start

Your new life.

Stop living a dumb AF life.

And.

Start living a larger than life.

LIFE!

How do you do that?

START!

Just start!

You know what they say?

If you want BIG results.

You need to make BIG moves!

People don’t seem to understand.

Every morning that you wake up.

Is a new opportunity to start over.

You don’t need a Monday.

Or a new month.

Even a new year.

Hell.

You can start over at 1:00pm in the afternoon.

Starting over is a mindset.

It’s not an actual timeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

You can tell yourself that today.

Tomorrow.

You are going to start over.

It is literally that simple.

Only.

Some people.

Just refuse to look at it that way.

No.

They get it all messed up.

Step over themselves.

Overthink it.

Get in their own way.

And then wonder.

Why they aren’t getting anywhere in life.

Why they are unhappy.

Unsatisfied.

Resentful.

Bitter.

Please.

Don’t be one.

Of those people!

That about sums it up!

Whatever you really want.

Will require a lot of work.

That’s just the way it works.

But so worth it.

That’s why.

You have to keep reminding yourself.

What is your WHY?

 

If you want to go far.

You need to give up.

EVERYTHING.

That weighs you down.

And.

I mean EVERYTHING!

That means:

People.

Relationships.

Jobs.

Careers.

Places where you live.

You name it!

You can’t get.

To the top of the mountain.

When you are carrying.

All that extra weight.

I solved that problem.

I made my own table!

See, easy!

Stop over-thinking things!

I’ve written about this.

Many times over.

Stop asking people.

Who have never been.

Where you are going.

For directions.

Sure.

You can ask for help.

Or advice.

But.

DO NOT asking people.

What you should do?

I’ve learned.

Over the years.

Tip-toeing. 

Which to me.

Really means.

Being really ‘nice’.

Gets you nowhere fast.

Which is not to say.

Don’t be nice.

I’m saying.

Don’t be naive.

And.

Don’t be afraid.

To do some stomping.

While you’re out there!

 

Here’s another way.

Of looking at it.

The world.

Needs your magic.

I don’t care.

Whatever it is you do.

The world needs it.

And you.

Your magic.

So.

If you need another reason.

Why you need to start.

Think about that.

And.

Here’s another thing.

To think about.

What if?

Whatever it is you are contemplating doing.

Works?

Not just works?

But, is an absolute HUGE Success?

Yeah.

Think about that!

 

I always say.

Don’t be afraid.

To break the rules.

NOT the law.

If you stay in the lines.

You’ll NEVER find out.

What you are made of.

Seriously.

If we are to find out.

How magical are.

We need to do.

Magical sh*t!

You want BIG results.

Don’t be afraid.

To do BIG things!

 

We all have them.

Those bad days.

I find it best.

To find some humor.

On those days.

Or.

Lipstick.

Do whatever works for you.

So you can get through.

Your bad day.

And.

Get back to having.

Better days.

How many times?

Have we stayed too long?

After.

We knew it was time to leave.

Whether, it was a:

Job.

Relationship.

Friendship.

Situation.

Business.

Career

You name it.

I know I have.

And.

Literally, paid the price for staying.

More on that.

In my upcoming book:

“How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

But.

Not these days.

These days.

Bye-Bye!

 

I know that’s not.

What you want to hear.

But trust me.

It’s so true!

You will NEVER.

Get to where you want to be.

Unless.

You get out of your comfort zone.

I know.

It’s hard.

But remember.

The HARD.

Is what makes it GREAT!

 

And that.

Is what it comes.

Down it.

I can.

I will.

End of story.

No if’s.

And’s.

Or.

But’s.

This is it.

And.

I’m doing it!

It’s a total mind f*ck!

But, it works!

 

 

Seriously.

It’s called.

Doing whatever.

You have to do.

Until you can do.

What you want to do!

 

So.

To that end.

I’m writing a book!

My first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: February 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos up now on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

 

 

 

“It’s the end!”

www.ninefrogs.com

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