“It’s my life!” (9.13.16)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternal… and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in love… and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
  The Universe / It’s my life!
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

It’s my life!

Like the BonJovi song.

Dare to be whoever you want to be!

Think about that.

What does that mean to you?

To me.

It means.

I don’t have to be like everyone else.👈👈👈

It mean.

I give myself the freedom to think how I want to think👈👈👈

To wear what I want I to wear!

Do the kind of work that I want to do!

Spend my time with whoever I want.

Not who other people think that I should be spending time with.

Love whoever I want.


Not what others think.

And most importantly.

Be the kind of person I want to be👈👈👈

How I live my life these days☝☝☝

That’s why I keep my circle small these days.


Super small.

Less people, less BS!


To be in my circle.

You don’t have to think like me.


You can’t also think like everyone else out there.


No judgement.

No gossip.

No talking about other people!

I was just speaking with my friend Wendy yesterday.

And we were both saying.

How the reason we get along so great, is because, we are both very open minded individuals.

We both can bounce ideas off of one another.

And we don’t worry about being judged by the other.

If you have friends like that in your circle.

Consider yourself lucky.


Trust me.

Those people are hard to come by.

And those people are the kind of you WANT in your circle!

That is so damn accurate☝☝☝

And the more entrepreneurs I speak with.

That’s how they feel as well.

Someone told me years ago.

When I first started my business.

That entrepreneurship was a lonely business.

I didn’t really get that at first.

It wasn’t until I realized I was spending great amounts of time by myself.

Because as a solo entrepreneur, that’s how it works.

And you know what?

I love it <3

It’s my new lifestyle.

And it’s funny.

People always ask me do I get bored?



How do you think those around me felt when I opened my business in 2012?

Do you think people were like, ‘Wow, that’s awesome?’


“I’m so happy for you Patti, you’re going to do just great.”

No, they were not!

If you are going to pick a different path then those around you, be prepared.

Because, being different requires thick skin👈👈👈

It also requires a heaping load of self-discipline.

Tremendous amounts of resilience.

And enough self-confidence to take you from here to the moon!

But still.

Have the balls.

Dare to be different!


True GREATNESS comes from taking chances!

Chances that “most” others would not!

If you think about it.

How are you going to know how far you can go?

If you don’t push yourself.

That’s what you call out-of-the-box thinking!

Unfortunately, most people do not think that way.

Most people.

Like to just keep doing the same thing.

Year in and year out.

Because it’s safe.

Only living a save life isn’t going to get you where you are going.

Is it?

One step at a time babe.

No one expects you to take on everything in one big chunk!

That’s how it works.

You chip away at it.

One day at a time.

One chip at a time.

Sounds kind of crazy, only it works!

Dare to be whoever you want to be.

And see how it changes your life. 

To be honest, it wasn’t until I started my own business years ago that I started living life on my terms.

And giving myself permission to think different than everybody else👈👈👈

Actually, it’s not that I wasn’t already thinking different, it’s just that my life wasn’t aligned with my thoughts.

Once I started my business, it all came together.

I believe that’s how it kind of works.

We need to be totally aligned with our thoughts AND actions for it all to come together.

I always knew there was something more OUT THERE for me.

I just wasn’t sure what THAT thing was.“Sign me up!” (10.20.2020)

Only once I started my business, and started down my own path, it all came together!


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

That’s so true☝☝☝

Life is way too short.

So spend it with the people you love.

Make memories and have wonderful adventures together.

Do the kind of work that sets your soul on fire,.

Even if no one else “gets” it.

Remember that everyday IS THE SPECIAL OCCASION.

So stop putting off until tomorrow.

People always get that wrong.

That’s so true!

Dare to be whoever you want to be!

And make sure you share your BIG BEAUTIFUL SMILE with the world.  

The world needs it more than ever  😉

It’s my life.


What are you going to do with it?

Don’t you dare waste one day.

Living a mediocre life.

You deserve everything!


I believe in you!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!


It’s my life.



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