“It’s getting hot in here!” (8.23.16)

What if everything that’s happened so far, Patricia Bokowski, was just practice for when things get really, really good? 
Really, really soon – 
   The Universe / It’s getting hot in here!”

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

It’s getting hot in here!

How can I find my happiness?

I hear this so often when I talk to people.  

They keep putting off their happiness.

Because they are waiting for someone or something.  

These are the excuses I hear:

“When I fall in love again!”โคโคโค

“I’ll be happy when I’m out of debt.”

“When I get a new job.”

“I’ll be happy when I lose weight.” (this is a big one, and a total waste of time).

The list goes on and on!

Here’s my advice:


Seriously, be happy now!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

No person and no thing can make you happy!

Only you can make YOU happy.

Other people can ADD to your happiness.

But trust me.

If you aren’t really happy.

No one else can MAKE YOU happy ;-)๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜



My ex-husband was one of those people.

He always had an excuse as to why he wasn’t happy.

And he was FOREVER saying things like, “I’ll be happy when we get a house.”

We did.  Didn’t make him any happier.

Got a new car.  Same thing.

Even had a baby.  He was happy for a short time, then, not so much.

Kermit the Frog๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ


So, if you are looking for someone else to make you happy.

You are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment.  

You need to be your own best friend first.https://www.ninefrogs.com

And, as far as all the other “things” that people think will make them happy.

You should give up on that dream.  

Here’s another thing.

You have to stop putting off pursuing your dreams.

This isn’t a dress rehearsal.

It’s the real deal.

Your journey starts today.

Whatever excuses you have been using as to WHY you haven’t started already.

Has to stop now!

As in, no away.

Fresh slate.


And remember.

You are not going to be everybody’s cup of tea.

And, they won’t be yours.

And, that’s okay.

You are not vanilla.

What you want.

Are the people who make you feel like sunshine.

If they don’t.

Those aren’t your people. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

After you read this blog I want you to get a piece of paper (your phone doesn’t count).

And write down your dreams/goals/passions.

Then start making lists.

As to how you can go about making those BIG things happen?

With what you have right now.

With whatever resources you have right now.

And what most don’t realize.

Is that they have more resources than they think?

You just have to use a little brain power to figure it out.

And time.

But whatever you do.

Do not delay.

Stop waiting for Friday.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And stop putting off your happiness.

Make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!



“It’s getting hot in here!”




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