“I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?” (8.29.19)

“If you could see what’s coming, you wouldn’t stress about what’s happening!”

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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?


We have to be!

We do absolutely EVERYTHING.

For everybody!

And while we are it.

We are also responsible for EVERYONE’S feelings.

Including their HAPPINESS.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

It’s exhausting being a woman these days.

We woman are pretty incredible creatures.

And we certainly don’t get the credit we should, for all we do.


What’s your superpower?

So today, I’m honoring all the hard-working women.

Including myself.

And I don’t know about anyone else.

But I am perpetually exhausted.


What’s your superpower?


We need to possess unwavering belief in whatever it is we are doing.

Because, we are most likely doing it on our own.

I guess it just comes with the territory of being a woman.


What’s your superpower?

CEO & Founder – NineFrogs / Patricia D. Bokowski

BE that woman.

The one who is unstoppable.

The one who won’t take NO for an answer.

The one who decided to go for it.

And never looked back.


What’s your superpower?


There is power in that.

Knowing that in any moment you can change everything.

Like the saying goes: THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!


Very soon.


What’s your superpower?

YES, you will!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

That’s not your concern!

Do it anyway.

Because the minute you start doing what’s right for YOU.

And not for them.

You will starting living your truth!

And a lot of people won’t like it.

That would be their problem, not yours๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


What’s your superpower?


When people say you can’t do it,.

It means they don’t see HOW it can be done?

Only, they aren’t YOU๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You are smart!

And have resources!

It’s always amazing to me when people don’t realize all the resources they have.

Right at their fingertips.

There is literally so much information OUT there.

Tap into it when needed!


What’s your superpower?

It is unfortunate that it comes to this๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

People taking advantage of your kindess.

Speeking from experience.

I’ve had this happen to me more than once.

By the very people I once trusted.

You know what happens to you after that?

You turn into that very monster.

Just wearing a pretty face.


What’s your superpower?

There is a clip on Pinterest, with Tyler Perry in character as Medea.

And he’s giving advice to a young man who just had his heart broken.

And this is what she says (and I’m paraphrasing):

“Go home, have a good cry if you want. And then pick yourself up and move on.

If you have done everything you can to make someone happy, and they want to leave, LET THEM LEAVE!”

Sound advice.

I love that ๐Ÿ’–


What’s your superpower?

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

There is a difference between being cocky and being confident!

Confidence makes others feel good.

Being cocky does not.

And, let me tell you.

It took me a long time to feel that kind of confidence.


Once you have attained that kind of confidence.

You have truly leveled up.

That’s the kind of stuff.

That helps you make those dreams come true!


What’s your superpower?


So please don’t.

And remember, you are SO worthy of everything!

By the way.

If there is someone in your circle.

Be it family/lover/friend/etc.

Who doesn’t make you feel that way.

It’s time to boot them from your circle.

Don’t ever let anyone disrespect you!

Including yourself๐Ÿ‘ˆ


What’s your superpower?

That’s right!

LOVE may come and go!


Your career will always be there for you!

It will never cheat on you.

It will never make you cry.

It will make you feel fabulous.

Thank you Lady Gaga!

Great advice.


What’s your superpower?

True that!

Have you ever met a strong person.

Who didn’t have a story?


Ask any strong person what their story is?

And undoubtedly.

Their story will be about how someone close to them.

Betrayed them.

I know.

That’s my story.


What’s your superpower?

It has taken me a long time to finally get that place.

Here’s the thing you need to know.

People are going to talk about you no matter what.


So you might as well do whatever the hell you want!

Let them talk.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Be so busy working on you!

That you don’t have time for anyone else’s drama.

Be that woman!


What’s your superpower?

Unfortunately in life!

Sometimes that’s what it comes down to.


If you flip it around!

That’s how you find out just what you are made of.

So, yes.

Be that girl.

Be willing to fight for what is yours!

Regardless of who you have to fight๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š


What’s your superpower?

God, how true is that?

Every woman I know over 40.

So sick of EVERYONE’S sh*t. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Said every woman everywhere!


What’s your superpower?

Who can relate?

I call this ‘nice women’s syndrome’.

Where we don’t want to offend anyone.

Or cause a scene.

God forbid, make trouble for anyone else.

So we eat it, so to speak.

Until the war inside us is too much to bear.

And a decision needs to be made.

The war inside us vs. the war against us.


I hope if you find yourself in this place.

Like me.

I sincerely hope that you choose to go to war!!!

Because I am ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


What’s your superpower?

That’s right!

If people wanted you to write “nice” things about them.

They should have treated you better!

I believe it’s time we all start speaking and sharing our truths.

They are your stories.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You owe it to yourself to share them with the world.

That’s how other people can learn from you.


I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?


UPDATE: I’m writing my first book.

It’s titled “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything”.

Because I’m done going to war with myself.

Anticipated Release Date Fall 2021

Stay Tuned For More Updates!

“Be that girl who roots for the other girl, tells a stranger her hair looks amazing, and encourages other women to believe in themselves and their dreams!”

I heard this amazing quote the other day.

By a woman named Leonie Dawson.

She is a super-successful entrepreneur (Google her).

I have been a fan of hers for about ten years now, and recently took one of her on-line courses.

Here’s the quote: “Lord, grant me the confidence of a mediocre middle-aged white man.”

God, how true is that!

I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?

Moral of the story.


Stop taking other people’s sh*t!

Stand up for yourself.

Tell your story.

If people wanted you to write nicely about them.

They should have been nicer to you!

Enough is enough.

Grab your sword and fight for what is yours.

You deserve it all!

I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?



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  1. Snigdha January 7, 2020

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