“If you want different move different!” (9.19.16)

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Here are the top 10 ways people give away their power:
  1. Choosing to be unhappy.
  2. Fear of anything, especially falling in love.
  3. Believing that karma or spiritual contracts are absolute.
  4. Waiting for their ducks to line up before acting.
  5. Believing in soul mates.
  6. Attaching to unimportant details and outcomes.
  7. Thinking they have dues to pay.
  8. Worrying about HOW their dream will come true.
  9. Thinking God decides who gets what.
  10. Asking others what they should do.

The Universe / “If you want different move different!”


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

If you want different move different!

Then you need to do different.

You can’t expect better results.

Doing the same exact thing.

Over and over again.

Yet,Β I hear so many people.

Complain about that.

And yet.

So few do anything about it.

You have to understand.

That it is a mindset.

Not a ‘where you are at’ set.

You decide in your mind.

That you are not happy where you are.

And that you are ready.

To start making changes.

That are going to change your life.

Deciding that you are worthy.

Of a better life.

Just remember.

You want different.

You have to do different.

And stop being afraid of what could go wrong.

You really need to turn that thinking around.

And now, FEAR nothing!

FEAR is something you make up in your head.

Danger is real.

As in, a dinosaur is chasing you, and is going to eat you.

That’s danger.

FEAR is usually the things.

We THINK are going to happen.

And they usually don’t.

Or at least.

Not as bad as we think.

Here’s a little nugget of wisdom.

I wanted to share with you today:

EVERYTHING is figureoutable.

Everything πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Are you worried.

About how it’s all going to work out?

Well don’t.

I learned a long time ago.

To forget about the dreaded “how’s”.

As Mike Dooley says.

You know Mike Dooley?Β  The Universe guy!

It’s not up to us to figure out the ‘how’s’.


To be present everyday!

To put out our best work.

To show up.

To use to consistent.

To be persistent.

To use our creative imaginations.

To do the work!

We were born to do.

And remember.

Some days you’ll knock it out of the park.

And some days, you won’t.

And that’s ok.

As long as you keep showing up!

Are you struggling with limited beliefs?

How many times have you heard, “you can’t do that.”


“That’s never going to work.”


“What makes you think you can be successful?”


“No one is going to pay you to do that.”

And the list goes on and on.

Stop that thinking right now.

Trust me.

People LOVE to tell you what you can’t do.

Only, that’s what they can’t do.

Not you.

YOU, can do anything you set your mind to.

As long as you work at it everyday.

Giving it everything you’ve got.

With a no holds bar attitude.

Be relentless in your pursuit.

Of whatever sets your soul on fire ✝✝✝

I don’t know how many times.

I’ve used that picture πŸ‘†πŸ‘†πŸ‘†

Because it really does say it all.

Don’t be like the rest of them, darling.

And it’s very easy to be like them.

To be in the same routine of them.

Do the same work.

Have the same friends.

The usual weekend fun.

But if you’re like me.

And got hit with the bug.

The entrepreneur bug.

You know?

The thing that wakes you wake up at 8:00am.

When you are really a 9:00am kind of girl.

The notion that you want a different kind of life.

That you dare to think differently.

Than everyone else around you.

Trust me.

That’s when your life.

Starts to level up!

I’ve written about this before.

All the years I worked my 9-5 job.

Talk about not doing different!

It wasn’t until I was out of that world.

For quite some time.

That I realized how much time I wasted.

Time that I actually could have been doing.

Something really amazing with my life.

Working toward a higher purpose.

I’ve said this before.

All those years.

In my past life.

And I ALWAYS knew.

There was something bigger.

That I was meant to be doing.

I just didn’t know what that ‘thing’ was.

But once I found my ‘thing’.

I’ve never looked back.

Long story short.

It was the BEST decision I have ever made!

What so many people.

Don’t get.

Those dreams were planted in you for a reason.

And you know what?

Not everyone gets them.

Yes, that’s right.

Not everyone gets them.

So, if you are one of the luck ones.

Who got one.

Then you need to do your part. NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

And figure out how to make them come true.


Do whatever you can.

With whatever resources you have right now.

Trust me.

You will be so happy with yourself that you did!

YOU ARE ready now.

There is never going to be.

Some mystical great time to start.

Just start.

From where you are.

With what you have.

Just start.


If you want different.

You need to do different.

This is YOUR life.

AndΒ YOU are in charge of it.

Have you heard?

I’m writing my first book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated Release Date:Β  November 15, 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on YouTube and TikTok – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.Β  Make it worth while!

“If you want different move different!”


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