“I love you!” (4.9.2021)

Patricia Bokowski, would there be any point in giving you the gift of imagination, the freedom to think as you choose, and dreams that set your soul on fire if even a single one of them couldn’t come true? 
I think not. 
I love you too, too much. 
Tallyho,  The Universe
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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

I love you!

My love letter.

To all the people working on their dream.


As we all know.

It’s not the easiest thing to do!


I highly recommend.

You do it anyway!

One thing I’ve noticed over the years.

Is this.

People are way too quick to jump ship.

On their path.

To following their dreams.


As I write on here often.

Of the importance of following YOUR dream.

There is a reason for that!

It’s YOUR dream.👈👈👈

Not anyone else’s.


And yours alone!

So guard it safely!

There are so many people.

Who will dismiss YOUR dream.

Tell you that you are crazy.

Give you sh*t.

Ignore you when you talk about it.

Tell you to get a real job.

Remind you how impossible it will be to make happen.

And on and on and on.

My advice:

Don’t talk to these people about your dreams.

These people are dream-killers.


You don’t need their negativity in your life!

So again.

If YOU have a dream.

That YOU want to make happen.

Do not let anyone or anything.

Get in your way.



Great way to start.

Is, first off start.


Don’t talk about your dream.

To anyone who doesn’t fully support you.👈👈👈

The last thing you need is some negative Debbie downer.

Bringing you down.


Trust me.

Been there.

Done that.

As I’ve written about many times.

When I first started my business in 2012.

I had no idea what I was doing.

I just knew I wanted to do it.

With sheer determination!

So I did it.

And I learned along the way.

That’s how it usually works.

That’s why they call it a process.

You don’t learn everything in a day.

You plant seeds everyday.

And you harvest them.

WAY down the line.


You need to be in it for the long haul.

I love that one!

People LOVE telling YOU that YOU can’t do something.


They LOVE it.

Just remember.

That’s them.

Not you!

You can do whatever you set your mind to.

True story:

Yesterday I was in a store.

And I got talking to the cashier.

She asked me why I was shopping so late.

It was around 5:00pm.


Usually I’m there in the afternoon.

I told her I got caught up at home.

And that I have my own business.

(She usually sees me when I’m working

my part-time job at lunchtime).

And, yes.

I have a part-time job.


I have two.


She asks me what kind of business.

And I say it’s mostly an on-line business at this point.

And she looks at me.

With this kind of eyes rolling look.

And says; “As long as it pays the bills.”

You can be sure.

I will NEVER speak to that woman.

About my business ever again.

Quite honestly.

There are literally.

Only a handful of people.

That I talk about my business with.

I don’t need anyone’s negative vibes.

Ruining my positive ones!

Here’s a little advice.

I have learned the hard way.

And I know.

It may sound a tad dramatic.

Only, it’s not.

Over the years.

Since I started my business.

I have been tested beyond measure.


BEYOND measure.

And every time.

It’s happened.

I picked myself up.

Dusted myself off.

And went right back at it.

And, if you find yourself.

In a similar position.

I highly advise you to do the same.

At the end of the day.

That’s, what it really comes down do.

You have to keep going.

Until you get where you want to be.

And then.

Once I’m you are there.

Go even further.

The point is.

NEVER stop!

This is a one-way ticket.

No getting off.

Consider this if you will?

Whatever ‘this’ is to you.

Is your gift to the world.

And, you can’t stop.

Until you’ve shared it with EVERY blessed soul on this earth!

And, here’s another thing.

Don’t wait till the time is right!

To start!


There is NEVER a good time to start.

So just start.

With what you have RIGHT now!

Wherever you are right now.

Just start.

And, if you think you don’t have enough.

Enough of whatever it is.

You think you need.

Is actually probably in your life.

It’s just.

You aren’t looking hard enough.

This whole following your dream thing.

Calls for you to be extremely creative!

I made a TikTok the other day.

It was pretty simple.

This is what I said:

“You cannot speak Butterfly language with Caterpillar people.”


You just can’t!

So, my advice.

Don’t force it.

They are either Butterfly people.

Or, they aren’t.


Speaking of starting.

I’ve started writing my first book.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: 2.2.2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos up now on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

I love you!”



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