“I give up!” (8.19.2020)

I have to admit, Patricia Bokowski, when we thought of adding the dimension of “time” to space, it was not wildly popular. 

True, it would make possible evolution, reunions, and cute before-and-after photos. But it would add to the illusion of separation… “horror of horrors!” Spontaneous manifestations would spontaneously cease… “eee-gad!” And the only way anyone could get anything done, would be if they held onto and moved with their vision in thought, word, and deed, even when present circumstances appeared ABSOLUTELY unchanged for their efforts… yeah, “SIGN ME UP!!!!” 

Thinking of you beaming with childlike joy –   The Universe / “I give up!” / www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs


I give up!

Three words!

I never want to hear you say!

Why you might ask?

Because, you only get one life.

And if you do it right.

Once is enough.

That’s the mindset.

You need to have.

In order to not only succeed.


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Now you may ask?

How do you do that?

And the answer would be:

By working at it everyday.

By going after your dreams.

By taking risks.

By doing the ‘hard’ stuff.

That’s how you do it!

There’s no easy formula.

You just wake up.

And give it everything you got!


That’s one of the ways.

To succeed.

But, if you really want to succeed.

There are certain things you need to do.

New thoughts you need to think.

New actions you need to take.

That’s how you reach new heights!

That’s the difference.

Between walking with your head held high.

Or down around your knees ;-(

The difference between walking.

With brisk steps with confidence.

Or just shuffling your feet along.

Like you have no where to go.


Always look like you have.

Somewhere to go!

I learned that one years ago!


I went to a conference several years ago.

And the speaker.

A woman named Dr. Kim.

Said something.

I will always remember.

“Always walk.

Like you have somewhere to go!”

(even if you don’t).

It makes you look.

Far more interesting! πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

That’s the BIG difference.

Between waking up with determination.

And enthusiasm.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Or, turning on the snooze button.

And hitting it five times.

And hiding under your blanket!

Yeah, we’ve all been there!

Don’t let it be you today!

That is why I succeed!

That’s the kind of attitude.

You need to have.

In order to soar to new heights.


Possessing a ‘can do’ attitude.

It’s the thing that winners have.

It is the ‘thing’ that will.

Not only help you in life.

It’s the ‘thing’.

So many people are missing.

And then they wonder.

Why their lives are so miserable.

Because, having a ‘can do’ attitude.

Is what you need.

In your quest to make.

Your dreams a reality!

I hope you are ready.

Sign me up for greatness!

Remember in the movie?

‘Pirates of the Caribbean’?

With Johnny Depp.

As Captain Jack Sparrow?


“The problem is not the problem.

The problem is your attitude.

About the problem.”


That’s it!

Every situation you have in life.

Both good and bad.

Comes down to YOUR attitude about it.

When times are good.

Obviously, having a good attitude.

Is for your benefit.

And when times are bad?

Well, this is really where.

A GREAT attitude.

Comes in handy.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Having a bad attitude.

In a bad situation.

Will get you nowhere fast.


Be like Captain Jack!


He knows what he’s talking about!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Without a positive attitude, success is called LUCK.

But with a positive attitude,

success is called ACHIEVEMENT!”

NineFrogs Wisdom

What’s the difference.

Between dreamers and doers?

Dreamers spend most of their time talking.

And comparing themselves to other people.

Talk about the things.

They are going to do ‘someday’.


Doers on the other hand.

Are too busy working.

On their own sh*t.

That they don’t have.

The time or interest.

In what anybody else is doing!

They are way too busy.

Planting seeds.

Watering their grass.

And tending to their flowers.


They don’t care what you’re doing.

Or, how you are doing it.

Yeah, like that!

Remember the phrase?

Garbage in, garbage out.

I’m pretty sure Oprah said that!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


You can’t have a GREAT attitude.

If you are taking in toxic sh*t.

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Fill your mind, body and soul.

With all the good stuff you can.

Literally and figuratively.

Eating lots of junk food?

Watching the news 10 hours a day?

Sitting on your couch.

Hours a day?

Maybe it’s time to:

Start making better life choices.

And then.

Start to see your whole world change!

Ever notice how some people.

Are like magnets?

As if they are some kind.

Of beacon of light?

Some might say.

It’s their confidence?

Or, their energy. http://www.ninefrogs.com

And then there are those.

Who might say it’s their attitude.

Perhaps, it’s all threeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Whatever the case.

The point is.

When you have a great attitude.

You radiate confidence.

And when you radiate confidence.

You become a beacon of light.

For all those souls.

Who can’t find it in themselves.

Which, automatically.

Puts you at the head of the line.


THAT is exactly.

Where you want to be!

Once upon a time.

I had a large circle of friends.

These days, not so much.

As in, my circle is really small.

There is a reason for that.

Over the years.

I realized that some ‘people’.

Did not have.

My best interest at heart.

Others, we just outgrew each other.

It happens.

It’s called growth.

And, it’s all part of life.

And still others.

Were just not meant.

To be in my life any more.

And I had to close.

Those doors as well.


That’s how you grow.

It’s absolutely necessary.

To continue.

On your path to success.


I found my attitude.

Changed after all these changes.

Like, I had a whole mind-shift.

That’s what I’m.

Talking about when I say.

Are you built for success?

Is it easy?


Is it necessary?



Who’s in your circle these days?


You are the sum of the five people.

You surround yourself with.


I know you know this.

But it bears repeating.

Because it’s that important.

So yes.

I’m saying it again anyway.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And, when I say.


That goes for both your personal.

AND professional lives.

You can’t be bright.

Focused and determined.

With a positive AF attitude.

And then have someone.

In your inner circle.

Bringing you down.

F*ck that!

If that’s the case.

As my friend Greg would say:

Time to KICK that person to the curb.

Remember, it’s your circle.

Doesn’t clap at your win.

You need a new circle!

So, I wanted to upload.

My latest TikTok video.

But apparently.

I am not that technically advanced.

Because I couldn’t get it to work.

See, still learning new tricks.


The point I was going to make.

If you want to make.

A YouTube or TikTok video.

Or do whatever.

It is you want to do.

Only you haven’t just yet.

You really just need one thing.


Oh, and you just need to start!

That’s it.

It doesn’t matter.

What you want.

Just, do it!

You have to start somewhere.

Doing both YouTube and TikTok.

Pushed me way out.

Of my comfort zone.

But, I am have gotten.

Great feed back on both.

So I will be doing more.

And I never would have done either.

If it wasn’t for the fact.

That I had the confidence to do it.

But TBH.

I am still slightly intimidated.

Doing both.

But as I say often.

How can I live my best life?

By deciding that.

I am worthy of having one!

I give up!

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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

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Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“I give up!



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