“How to be Happy!”(4.25.2020)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternalโ€ฆ and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in loveโ€ฆ and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
Tallyho,   The Universe
/ How to be Happy!


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Day #93302830281 of #lockdown2020.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

At least that’s what it feels like๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ˜ท

How you all doing๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

Making the best of this bad situation I hope๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

How to be happy!

So, a friend of mine called me during the week.

And she said.

‘Patti, what the hell?

You need to write one of your inspirational blogs.

Like now, people need to hear from you.’

Okay, point taken.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

How to be happy!



I do realize that many of the things I am going to suggest here today.

Are not quite “doable” under the current circumstances.

And that’s ok.


Now you have the time to think.

Think about what you want to change?

Think about what you can change in your life to be happier?

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Today I’m sharing.

My ideas for being happy.

Something of which has alluded many these days.

If this lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that we are all a lot stronger.


Much more adaptable!

Who would have thought just a precious few months ago.

We’d be grocery shopping with masks on?

Or, drinking wine at noon on a Tuesday ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท

And yet, here we are!

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LIVE ferociously!

If this lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that life is fleeting.

So when this thing is over.

Live with all you heart <3

With WHOEVER you want to love!


Here’s a side-note.

Don’t fall in love in lockdown.


A lot of people are just bored.


Maybe not the best time to fall in love?

Just sayin!

How to be happy.

Let YOUR life serve as an inspiration to others.

What can you do?

To start inspiring those around you.


Everyone has a gift!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

What’s yours?

For me?

For one thing.

I have a great smile.

And great hair.

Right there.

Those two things make people happy.


I encounter it all the time.

So, again.

What’s yours?

Whatever it is.

Find it.

Share it.

Like throwing confetti around at a party!

How to be happy.

Making those around you HAPPY!



A lot of people can’t find there happiness.

And I can’t be everywhere.



You need to step up.

Be the light for those around YOU๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

How to be happy. NineFrogs Daily:

Take chances.

Life is way to short to live ‘too comfortably.”

Remember the book “Who Moved My Cheese?”

If you haven’t?

Now is a great time to do it!

I know you probably can’t get to the library.

But, maybe you can find it online!

The bottom line is this.

Life changes quickly.

Look at what we are dealing with now?

Would any of us have predicted this February 1st?

I don’t know about you, but I wasn’t.

How to be happy.

You Go Queens! Remember, we got this!

Have fun!

Yes, I know.

Right now you’re saying, ‘that’s impossible Patti.’

And, I’m saying it’s not.

But, here are my two schools of thought on this.


As much as you can.

Try and make the best out of a bad situation.


How can you make the situation work for you?


It’s not forever.

Just for now.

How to be happy!

I’ve also started a list.

A list of all the things I want to do when we ‘get out’.

One thing for sure, I’m getting a new tattoo๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

What’s on your list?

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“Your spirit is what keeps you going,

your attitude is how you show it to the world.” /

Patricia Bokowski

Let your inner fashionista out…

She’s in there.

And that goes for the men too!

Please don’t be walking around in your sweats all day.

Because, as we all know.

Even in lockdown2020.

You need to get some balance in your life.

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Fall in love, (or all over again) with yourself.โคโคโค

Prior to lockdown 2020.

We were all running around like chickens without heads.

Let’s be honest.

And for many of us.

Put ourselves LAST on our “to-do” list.

Well guess what?

Take 15 minutes out of the day to do something ‘nice” for yourself.

How to be happy!

Move mountains, lots of them!

And while you are at it.

Get out of your own damn way.

Another way we trip up our own happiness.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

The key to our happiness is in OUR pocket!

How to be happy!

“Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself. The storm will pass.”

Lastly, don’t be afraid to break the rules (not the law).

To find your happiness.

You don’t have to follow the herd.

You are allowed to do your own thing.

Everyone may not be happy with you for doing it,

But that’s their problem not yours!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

How to be happy?

I also wanted to give a HUGE shout-out to ALL the essential works!

From the medical folks, to the grocery store people, to the truck drivers, to the cashiers at the Dollar Store, and to anyone I may have missed!

THANK YOU to you all๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And while you’re in #lockdown2020.

Make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Stay safe everyone.

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

How to be happy!



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