“How does it work?” (4.18.19)


Through you, through you, through you, Patricia Bokowski… 
The magic works through you. Not beside you. Not around you. Not for you. Not despite you. But through you!

You have to go there. You have to choose your stage. You have to do your dance. Putting yourself in place, to any degree that you can, even if it scares you, even when it’s “hard,” even if it’s just your big toe. Stretch yourself, scoff at the odds, get the ball rolling so that the magic can then come alive and sweep you off your feet with its infinite grace and glory.

You wouldn’t just carry around the seeds for the garden of your dreams in your pocket, all the while asking where your flowers were? Nope, you’d have to brave the elements, you’d have to choose the location, and then you’d have to go there.

Your life is your wand (or hoe),Β Β Β The Universe / How does it work? / www.tut.com

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How does it work?

I need a sign!

That’s what I hear from many.

But, what you should be saying is:

Sign me up for success!


You you deserve it!

That’s what it mean to be an entrepreneur!

Being an entrepreneur means.

You would rather work 80 hours for yourself.

And make $1.00.

Than work 40 hours for someone else and make $1,000.00.

That is the sign of a true entrepreneur. πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How does it work?

The lottery people are always telling us “you have to be in it to win it.”

Same goes for being an entrepreneur.

You have to be ALL in it to WIN it!

And with both feet, dug deep.

How does it work?

THEY say, “opportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor.”

I agree.



Make a decision.

To sign up for success!

How does it work?

Stay in the game.

Even on the days you feel like you are losing.

Like when I started blogging.

I felt like I was blogging to a giant black hole.

That nobody was reading my blogs.

But, that didn’t stop me from blogging.

I kept at it, religiously.

That’s the kind of mindset you need to have.

Look, is that mindset easy on your bad days.

Actually, for me.

Yes it is.

Because I have trained my mind to think it so.

Last month I started on TikTok.

January I started my YouTube Channel.

Was it easy?


It was not!

But, I did it anyway.

Just told myself.

I had to get out of my comfort zone.

and just do it.

And, if they suck, they suck.

And, I will work on making them not suck.

If that’s what it comes down to.

How does it work?

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

As I like to remind people, often, everyone starts at the beginning!

There is little use sitting on your couch.

Looking at your dream board.

Hoping and wishing your dream(s) will come true if that’s all you’re going to do.

You need to take action everyday.

As much as possible, to every extent you can.

Taking action on a daily basis towards your dream.

And, be like the rest of us working on our dream;

Getting told no, often.

How does it work?

Remember, success can’t reach you if you aren’t in the game!

I repeat that statement often.

Because it’s so important.

How does it work?

Let me tell you this.

Behind the scenes it is working.

You just can’t see it.

That’s how The Universe works.

You keep taking baby steps.

The Universe is taking giant steps.

Just remember.




I need a sign!

How does it work?

Here’s the thing.

And this is REALLY super important.



How does it work?

That’s how winners do it.

They don’t quit!

They keep going.

Even when things are HARD.

Reaching true success is anything but easy!

But, the winners know that!

How does it work?

As Tom Hank’s says:

That’s right, if it were easy, everyone would do it.

And they don’t, do they?

But, guess what?

You are NOT one of them.

You are YOU.

And you so have what it takes.

To do AMAZING things.

How does it work?

So what’s your excuse?





Need more knowledge.

Need more time.

Need more money.

Those are just excuses.

What you need is a vision .

Backed with guts and determination.

And you are half-way there!

That’s it!

There’s your plan.


I need a sign!

How does it work?

I can’t tell you when success will find you.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

But I can tell you when it won’t.

When you decided the game was too hard and quit!

The secret to success is failing and then failing again even harder.

But, you learn how to stay in the game.

Even on the days you don’t want to.


I need a sign!

How does it work?

I have personally fallen more times than I can count.

And yet, here I am, still in the game.

Still succeeding.

Baby steps and baby gains.

And I take everyone I can get, and relish it.


Stay in the game and play to win!


How does it work?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon.

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

How does it work?”



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