“How do I look?” (8.2.16)


Patricia Bokowski, what wouldn’t you give to live, love, and be happy, deliriously happy, forevermore? 
Well, that’s just it, you needn’t give anything, Patricia Bokowski. Just decide to live, love, and be happy, deliriously happy, from this moment forward. 
And I shall provide, 
  The Universe / How do I look? / www.tut.com
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How do I look?

A question you should be asking yourself everyday!


Your image says everything about you.

Don’t believe me?

Try getting good customer service?

Looking like sh*t.

It’s the truth!

And yes, I know.

A lot of you don’t want to hear that!


If you don’t think your image.

Says anything about you.

You are, simply put.

Not paying close enough attention!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I hear so many people say.

“Patti, that’s so shallow.”

“I’m better than that.”



They say things like: ‘I’m a good person”.


I say.

I’m sure you’re a lovely person.

Only your personality.

Is NOT the first thing people see.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Dressing well.

Does not mean.

You have to dress like George and Amal Clooney. 

My favorite best-dressed couple BTW.

Your aim.

Should be to look like the BEST version of YOU!

And only you!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Wake up folks!

In case you haven’t figured it out yet.

You are judged every day.

Like it or not.  πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


If you want to get a seat at the table.

You not only have to look the part.

You have to FEEL the part!

Every time you step out into the world.

Whether it’s your local coffee shop.

A meeting with a client.

A first date.

A party.

A wake.

Aa business lunch.

Everywhere you go.

People are looking at not only what you wear.


More importantly.

How you wear it.

AND how you carry yourself.

How do I look?

Does I mean.

You should spend thousands of dollars.

To buy expensive clothes.

To look good?  

Hell no!

I’ve said this before.


I’ll say it again.

I would recommend.

It is better to have five fabulous outfits.

Then, say, ten so-so outfits.

I want to fell my absolute best.

With every outfit I put on.


If I don’t feel that way.

I don’t wear it.

It’s that simple.

Only wear what makes you feel like sunshine!

Who has ever run out of their house.

Not looking their best.

To say.

Grab a cup of coffeee.


To pick up the dry cleaning.

And low and behold.

You run into your neighbor.

You know.

The one you really don’t like so much.

And here you are.

Dressed in your sweats.

No shower.

Hairs a mess.

No makeup.

All because.

You didn’t think you’d see anyone.

Oh yeah.

Been there.

The last time it happened.

At my local 7-11.

I run into my son’s best friends dad.

I was so embarrassed. 

I actually apologized.



I actually apologized .

For looking like a hot mess at 8’o clock in the morning.

These days.

I try to never have that happen again.


I’m just giving you a heads-up on that one!

How do I look?

You know that quote:

“Fashion is what you buy. Style is what you do with it.”

That’s the thing.

Make whatever you wear.

You’re on.

You are not obligated.

To dress like anyone else.


To dress a certain way.

Because of your age.

Please, don’t get me started.

The goal here.

Is to both look AND feel fabulous.

So, don’t be afraid to put.

Your own spin on things.

How do I look?



You are born of the stars.

My dear.

Don’t let the noise of the day.

Get into your soul.


It’s pretty hard to look fabulous.

When you’re not FEELING it inside.

I always advise my clients.

Only take in the positive.

Be it:



Social Media.


Whatever you are reading.

Any other influences in your life.

Inhale the positive.

Exhale the negative.

See how your world changes!


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

I keep telling you that.

You don’t have to dress like everyone else!

How boring would that be?

And you most certainly.

Don’t have to think like everyone else.

Absolutely not.


Be a freedom thinker!

In case you didn’t know.

That’s what makes you so attractive.


When it comes to dressing.

I tend to over-dress.

That’s just who I am.

I always make sure my hair.

And make-up are on-point.

And I dress in such a way.

That I look good.


I’m comfortable.


More importantly.

I feel good.

Which is why I look good.


In case I haven’t mentioned this before.

I don’t wear expensive clothes.

Not at all.

I put my money in my accessories.


My everyday outfits.

I keep to a minimum.

But again.

I buy things that I like.

So. “NineFrogs Weekly Roundup!” (12.3.19)

How do I look?



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That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare! Make it worth their while!


“How do I look?”



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