“How can I win?” (8.13.15)

I’m not just in everyone, Patricia Bokowski, I am everyone.
Love all. 
  The Universe
Just look into anyone’s eyes,
including your own in a mirror, for 7 seconds, 
Patricia Bokowski, and you’ll see.
“How can I win?”

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I win?

That’s the kind of attitude.

You need to win in today’s world!


As we talk about in today’s blog.

In case you hadn’t heard?

The way you dress.

Speaks volumes about you.

Whether you like it or not.


I truly believe.

Young adults should know this.


Really know.

We have so many college graduates.

Out looking for job.

Who aren’t skilled enough.

To know how to dress for their interviews.

Because they don’t teach that in High School.

HINT: They should!

No matter how old you are.

Or what you do.

Your image plays a big part in your life!

Don’t believe me?

Next time you are out.

Look around and see how everyone is dressed?

Where do you rank?

Above or below average?

Hopefully, it is above.

Make sure you notice how people react.

To the folks who are well dressed.

They get treated better.

And they get more respect.

Trust me.

I know.

I live it everyday!

You get a sense of empowerment,

When you dress better.

And I know all the people out there.

Who will say: Patti, that’s not fair.


I will say: Life isn’t fair.

Deal with it!

Show the world you are serious about your image.

And watch how people respond to you.

And dressing better.

Does not mean you need to spend a fortune.

On new clothes to look good.

It simply means taking pride in what you wear.

How you wear it.

And how you feel on the inside.

When you are wearing it.

Many times.

All it takes is just buying.

A few new pieces.

To add to your wardrobe to update your look.

If you want to command the respect and attention of others.


See how quickly people will respond.

To you once you start dressing better.

And to be clear.

It’s not just your clothes we are talking about.

We are talking about the energy you bring with it.

Anybody can dress nicely.

That’s not the question.

The question is.

Can you wear it nicely so that people.

Respond to you in a positive manner?

First of all, you will feel better about yourself.

Second, you will have more confidence.

And you will hold our head higher and walk with more purpose.

That is what having confidence.

In who you are and how you present yourself.

To the world will affect you.👈👈👈

Similarly, all you have to do today is open a magazine.

Or turn on the tv and watch the multitude of commercials.

All that show that in today’s world.

Your image is everything. NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

From fashion models.

To A-list actors.

To top executives to career-minded individuals.

It is an important issue to everyone.

If you want to be recognized.

As someone who is serious about their career.

You will take the time to dress the part.

Especially, for that job interview!

And I don’t care what kind of job you are interviewing for?

You need to dress the part.👈👈👈

Even if the job interview doesn’t require a suit.

Although I do believe men (of all ages).

Underestimate the importance of when a suit.

Should be worn for an interview.

It is my personal philosophy that you should.

It is far better to be OVERDRESSED.

Than Underdressed any day.

I firmly believe that the line “Dress for Success”.

And all that it invokes.

Should be taught in high schools across the country.

Young adults need to be prepared to go on job interviews.

More-so for the confidence factor.✔✔✔

When you have a high level of self-confidence.

You automatically bring yourself to a higher level of thinking and performance.

I am a firm believer that when you feel good on the inside.

You will feel good on the outside as well.

That confidence radiates from you and other people feel it.

You owe it to yourself to both look and FEEL fabulous every day!

That’s why here at NineFrogs we say:

How can I win?

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Release date:  October 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I win?”


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