“How can I succeed?” (1.1.18)

In a slightly different world, if dogs believed in “soul mates” when it came to choosing their owners, can you imagine how lonesome most would be?
Oh, there’s definitely room for “picky,” Patricia Bokowski, but there’s also room for “surprise me.” 
Surprise me, 
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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs


How can I succeed?

Answer: START!

Any which way you can.

There is no right or wrong way.

But you have to start.

People always want to know, how can I succeed?

You know what?

There’s about a zillion ways!

And it’s different for everyone.

Unfortunately, there’s no blueprint.

Just determination, persistence and a ton of self-confidence! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:


How can you succeed?


Make it a priority in your life to do it!

As in, showing up everyday.

Even if it’s just baby steps.

I’ve been at this for almost nine years (come August 2021).

And quite honestly.

I’ve come a lot farther than I thought at this point.

And how did I do that?

By showing up everyday.

No matter what is/was going on in my life.

I showed up and did what I could.

And still follow that formula today.


I know where I want to go/be/do/have.

And it’s going to take a ton of work to get there.

I’ve only scratched the surface of all the things I want to do.

I have several projects I’m working on this year; starting up my YouTube Channel, writing a book, designing clothes to name a few.

See, that’s the kind of attitude you have to have.

It’s that ‘no one is going to get in my way’ kind of attitude!

I hope you have that kind of attitude too!

We’re going to do GREAT things out there!


One of the BIGGEST ways people block success in their life.

Is actually something they don’t do.

And that is.




It sounds so simple.


You would not believe how many people will talk a good game.


Never actually start.


After starting.

Thinking positive comes to mind.


Sounds simple enough.

Want to succeed?

Cultivate a positive attitude!

A success mindset!

If you can do those two things?

Right there.

You are on the right track!

We were meant to do hard things.


That’s true.

The problem is.


No One.



We were born to do hard things.

To see what we are made of.

To push ourselves out of our comfort zones.

Instead of living a life of mediocrity.

We should be living the life of our dreams!

That is so ME these days!


Crying over people or situations.

I’m in charge. 

And I will be damned if anyone is going to get the best of me.


I’ve grown as a person.

As a business leader..

That’s what happens when you have been to hell and back more times than you can count!

I swear.

Every time I look at this post.☝☝☝

It reminds me of everything I’ve been through.

Every person that has wronged me.


It reminds me of MY power.


I hope it reminds YOU of YOURS👈👈👈



Back to starting. 


Excuses as to why you can’t do _________

If you really want to do something you will do it.

If not.

You will find an excuse.

Choose wisely.


A few years back, as I walked into the gym on a hot Summer night,

looking like I wanted to be anywhere but at the gym,

the guy at the front desk looks at me and says,

“Patti, you have to change your attitude about going to the gym,

it’s not something you have to do everyday, it’s WHAT you do everyday! 

It’s part of your life!”

And I’ll be the first to admit it then.

I’d gotten off that train.

Too busy for the gym because ________.

Let’s face it.

We’re all busy.


We can all set aside one hour a day go to the gym.


At least five times a week.

But, we come up with every reason under the sun.





Let’s promise each other.

This year.

We vow to get to the gym much more.


Much, much more!

Especially after going through a pandemic.

And being confined to our houses for over a year!

Want to succeed this year?

Develop an “I can do anything I set my mind to’ kind of attitude!


Now is the time to get gansta!


Develop an ‘I am going to do this and no one is going to stop me’ kind of attitude!

And you will be unstoppable!


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸


Here’s another idea!

Want to succeed?

Expand your network.

Make friends with people not your age.

Not your back ground.

People who speak another language.

Expand your horizons.

How are you going to succeed if you keep hanging out with the same people?

Doing the same things?

You’re not.


Go out and meet some new peeps.

See how the world looks from their eyes?

Could be an eye-opening experience.

And certainly a place to grow!

Listen to Lady Gaga!

Fall in love with your career.

Your partner can wait.

Whatever it is you want to do out there in the big old world!

DO IT👈👈👈


Your career will never leave you.

Never cheat on you.

Never leave you for another career!


How can I succeed?

Lastly, follow make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!



How can I succeed?




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