“How can I stop?” (4.14.16)

If you knew of a spectacular mountain that was very, very tall, yet climbable. And if it was well established that from its peak, you could literally see all the love that bathes the world, dance with the angels, and party with the gods. Would you curse or celebrate each step you took as you ascended it?
Patricia Bokowski, life is that mountain and each day a step. 
Perspectives change everything,
  The Universe / How can I stop?
Fear not. Last time I checked, Patricia Bokowski, you were so close to the top they were taking your toga measurements.
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – The Frog’s Den

Read that again☝☝☝

How can I stop?

Well, the first thing you need to do!

Is change your attitude.


Where you need to be right now.

Is on ON the dance floor!


They say “opportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor”

Or, as the lottery people love to tell us.

“you have to be in it to win it”.

Either way, you get the idea.

You need to be “in the game” in order to win and achieve success.

There is no use sitting on the sidelines wishing, hoping and praying!

That your dreams will come true. 

Oh, I suppose that works every once in a while.

But, for most of us, you need to be IN THE GAME.

Getting slammed, pushed, rejected and sidelined pretty much on a daily basis.😑😑😑

Remember, success can’t reach you if you aren’t in the game to win!🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Now, I am no sports enthusiast

But I do know enough about professional players.

And I know that in order for them to gain the success they achieved.

They had to have practiced till they bled😩😩😩

Along with many losses as well.

But they always got up!

You stay in the game, even if you feel like you are losing every time. 

Because, eventually you will start to win.👈👈👈

Eventually, little by little.

Maybe not big wins at first but wins.

Little wins will start adding up.

And every little win needs to be recognized and celebrated.

Just remember.

The road to success can be a long and lonely road.

Bet no one told you that!


You will need to hold the memory of those little wins.

For the days when there are no wins or even worse, a big loss or rejection!


Stay in the game. 👈👈👈

Work at it daily. 

And never give up!

No matter what anyone says to you!

And trust me, they will👈👈👈

I would love to have a conversation with Jeff Bezos.

And ask him how many times people told him to give up?

I bet many.


I beg you.

Don’t give up!!!

My journey started in 2012.

And from what I’ve experienced on my own journey so far.

Is that being consistent has played a major part in my success.

Granted, I still have a long way to go.

But, I’m pretty freaking proud of myself that I have gotten this far.

I said from the beginning, I had one BIG goal.

And this is…

To be internationally successful.

And that’s actually happening.

I have connections/followers from all over the world.

Let me tell you, that has taken a tremendous amount of work.

No small feet!

Here’s the thing.

If you quit.

I can pretty much guarantee you a success rate of failure of 100%. 

And nobody wants that.

Next time you find yourself doubting your progress.

Look back to where you started (the only time I ever advise to look back).

So, how far have you come? NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

For me, I can’t believe how far I’ve come.

I’m actually not even the same person from 2012.

That’s what happens when life knocks you on your a*s more times than you can count.

Pursuing your dreams and making things happens is hard.


Not so hard they can’t be achieved with hard work and determination👈👈👈

Ah, you just remembered didn’t you?

You don’t like being like everyone else.

I get it.

Me too👈👈👈

Stay in the game and play to win!

That my friends.






I’m not stopping now!

UPDATE: 9.16.2021

I’m writing my first book!

It’s called “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything”.

Anticipated Release Date: Fall 2021

Stay tuned for more updates!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I stop?”