“How can I start again?” (2.6.17)

The one thing all famous authors, world-class athletes, business tycoons, singers, actors, and celebrated achievers in any field have in common, Patricia Bokowski, is that they all began their journeys when they were none of these things. 
Yet still, they began their journeys. 
You are so poised for greatness, 
  The Universe / How can I start again?

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs


How can I start again?

Here’s the thing if you want to be great!

You can’t keep doing the same thing every day, in and out, and expect different results.

That truly is the definition of insanity!

So today I’m sharing 9 life hacks to shift your thinking.

BE A SHARK ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


Ever notice how sharks don’t let anything get in their way.

They go wherever they want.

They eat whatever they want.

They push through anyone or anything who tries to stop them.

That’s why everyone is afraid of sharks.

They take their shit seriously and don’t let anyone mess with them ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰

Now, stop and think. 

How are you going to be a shark this week?

SMILE ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I know, you’ve heard me say this before.

Well, I’m saying it again.

Because from what I’m seeing, many of you have NOT taken my advice ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†

How are you going to take over the world, frowning ;-(

What kind of impression do you think that leaves with people?


So yes, smile ๐Ÿ˜‰

When you wake up, make it a point to smile to whoever crosses your path ๐Ÿ˜‰

Your significant other, the cashier at the coffee shop, your co-workers, etc.

You get the idea. 

Even if you arenโ€™t feeling it.

Do it anyway.

And I guarantee you the process alone will start to make you feel better.

Even for a Monday!


In order to go after what you want.

You need to be at the top of your game! ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


โ€“ thatโ€™s right. 

With every person you speak with, look them in the eye. 

This is so important for your relationships with others. 

It really lets people know you are really listening to them.

Making eye contact is just another form of good listening skills.


Nothing will ruin your Monday than all that toxic shiz!

Shut it down..




And kick all those bad vibes to the curb!

Then start to take in all the good stuff.

It’s out there.

Some days you just have to dig a little harder to find it!


Another one we all know, yet don’t do enough of. 

Drinking water is good for your mind, body and soul. 

So drink up!

And, in order to do great things, like going after what you want, you need to feel GREAT!!!


I don’t care what you do for a living, you need to dress your best! 

If you wear a uniform every day for your job, make sure your uniform is clean and presentable. 

And if you donโ€™t wear a uniform and can wear anything you want, make whatever you are wearing special. 

Style your hair nicely, shave, put on some good cologne/perfume, use some make-up (even if it’s lip gloss).

Really shine. 

No matter what you do, get dressed and knock it out-of-the-park! 

You wonโ€™t believe how good you will feel.

You will interact better with others and others will perceive you in a higher light!

Because, you will carry yourself better.

You will have more confidence. โ€œ9 Thought Provoking Quotes To Set Your Soul On Fire!โ€ (11.12.2020)

And you will be a light beam of happiness.

Trust me!

How can I start again?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on YouTube and TikTok – The Frog’s Den ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon.

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

Every day is a new opportunity to start again!



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