“How can I?” (12.5.17)

There’s someone here, very wise and very caring, Patricia Bokowski, who’s not yet lived in time and space, who has a question for all those who have: 
“Does the fact that each earthly life is so incredibly brief add to or detract from its sublime magnificence?” 
Yeah, I said “add to” as well, but I was in a hurry… 
Tallyho,  The Universe / “How can I?” / www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“If you want to achieve greatness, stop asking for permission.” – NineFrogs

How can I?

It’s true.

Believe you can and you are half-way there!


It’s just the way it works.


If you think your life is shattering.

When in reality.

It’s The Universe’s way.

Of clearing the way.

To take you somewhere.

You have never been before!

To surround yourself with people.

You normally would not.

To go places you normally would not.

To see the world differently.

Think new thoughts.

To form a new mindset.

It’s not a punishment.

It’s an act of surrender.

What do you love to do?

What is that ‘thing’?

That makes you get out of bed each morning?

What are the things that fuel your soul?

Are you doing them now?

And if not?

Why not?

Because if you aren’t.

You should.


You should be doing them with total conviction!

Let your passion flow out of you.

Let it destroy your current state of affairs.



Your passion was put inside you for a reason.

Don’t let it die IN you.

Let it out. NineFrogs “Quote of the Day”!

You are the fire.

Now remember what you must do!

Don’t be a prisoner like so many people.

A prisoner of their day-to-day lives.👈👈👈

Missing so much of life.

Not embracing their inner selves.

Refusing to express their real selves.

Not doing the things they really want to be doing.




Not doing the things they really want to do.

With the people they want to do it with!

So important!

Stop saying “no” to opportunities because it looks like work.


It looks scary.

Too many people these days want the easy way out.👈👈👈

Yet they want different results.

As we all know.

The easy way out.

Gets you no where fast.

Stop living the same day over and over again and calling it a life!

I know, I used to live THAT life.

Not anymore!

Is my life chaotic?

Kinda sorta.

But I’m getting great results.

And I’m prepared for what’s coming next.


If you want different results.

You have to be prepared to do different things.

Start today.


How can I change my future?

Because if you don’t.

Not much is going to change in your future.


Start now.

Take risks.

Start creating your own opportunities.

How do you create your own opportunities?

Knock on more doors!

Put yourself out there.

On the ‘dance-floor of life’ as I like to say!

Out there.

In that uncomfortable place called life!

Time to dust yourself off and do it.

You have to push yourself.

I know it’s not easy.

I know it can be over-whelming.

But, if you want to life that big life.

You HAVE to do it!

That’s right.

The Universe is always conspiring on your behalf.

She wants you to succeed.

But she wants also wants to see how bad you want it.


You have to do your part.

She’s not going to do it all for you.

So much for sitting on your couch with your vision board.

Waiting for Oprah to come knocking on your door.


You actually have to get out there.


Knocking on doors.







As the saying goes:

Fall down seven times, stand up eight!

I personally, have fallen down more times than I can count.

But look who’s still here👈👈👈


Not just surviving.

Mindset is the thing that separates us all.

Do you possess a positive mindset?

Are you set on making your dreams come true?


Is your mindset in the gutter?

Collecting negative thoughts?

Toxic people?

Worse yet.

Toxic feelings?

That’s very true!

That’s why i say!

“If the people in your circle don’t clap at your wins.”

It’s time for a new circle.

Don’t let small thinking cut your dreams down to size!

Think Big.

Then Bigger.

That’s how people with amazing self-confidence think.

And they don’t get distracted.

They don’t spend their days thinking about other people.

They are too busy working on their own dreams.

They have neither the time nor the patience.

To care what anyone else is doing.

They are too busy coming up with new ideas of their own.

And how they are going to make it all work!

Because that’s how successful people work.

Driven by their passion.

Fueled by their desire.

And they don’t let anyone or anything get in their way.

This one hits home for me!

I love meeting people.

Especially those who have the same mindset as me.

Although, it’s rare these days.

But when it happens.

It’s magical.

Kind of like.


You too?

Like I said.

Unfortunately, very rare.

But I’m always on the look-out.

People often ask me.

“How do I know what my passion is?

My honest answer.

When it’s all you think about.

Talk about.

Dream about.

When it’s all you want to do!


When it absolutely consumes your life.

And trust me.

You’ll know when you’ve found it!

How can I?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure to follow me on TikTok and YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I?”


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