“How can I move on?” (10.20.2020)

Isn’t it a hoot? Patricia Bokowski, of all the people in all the world who actually “get it,” few, if any, actually give it to themselves.
The trick? Baby steps. 
Give, just a little, today. Give credit, give praise, give goodies to yourself, and the Universe will give you even more. 
Tallyho,  The Universe / How can I move on?


Patricia Bokowski, selfishness is a virtue, unless you think it must come at the expense of others. And why would anyone think that? Oh yeah, that’s what all the people who don’t “get it” told you.

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I move on?

One of THE most popular questions ever!

I know.

I’ve asked it several times in my life as well.


I’m sure you’ve heard a million and one times.


Here’s the thing.

Ask yourself.

How can I move on?

And here’s something for you to think about.

Maybe, in order to move on.

We finally get to do those things we’ve been wanting to do.

What an idea?

How do you think that would make you feel?

Pretty amazing I’m sure.

To conquer all your doubts.

You know?

The ones that tell you it’s not going to work.

Now think?

What if I actually did those things?

And, how would doing so inspire those around me?

Seems to me.

These days.

We need more of that.

More people doing what sets their souls on fire.

And in doing so.

Helping those around them.

That’s what call a win/win!

We certainly seem to be in the thick of it these days.

Lots of chatter going on out there.

In here.

Over there.

It’s everywhere.

Hard to get away from it.


To keep your spirits up.

Best to avoid it as much as possible.


All you hear are people complaining about this and that.

How sad they are.


Literally drowning themselves in misery.

So, I ask you?

How can you move on from misery?


Stop being miserable! NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:


Your success.

My success.

Should not tied to anyone or anything.


My success is because of my actions.

As yours should be.

You are given this life to do amazing things.

Things that others only wished they had the courage to do.

Even if they don’t tell you.

Which they won’t!

Don’t let that stop you from being amazing!

I’ve learned over the years to be courageous.

Even when it scares the sh*t out of me.

That’s what this life is all about.

Experimenting with how far you can go.

So, how far do you think you can go?

I think you can go a whole lot further than you think.


You will NEVER know until you try!

100% baby 👈👈👈


I used to be one of those women.

Until, I took my power back.


Once I did that.

My world changed.



Everything looked different.

I felt different.

That’s what happens when you step into the fire.

It is extremely empowering.

So, if you haven’t already.

I highly suggest you step into the fire.

And take YOUR power back 👈👈👈

You want to move on?

Change your mindset.


Sharks aren’t afraid of anything.

Sharks don’t let anyone or anything get in their way.

Even roadblocks.

Live with the mindset that 👉👉👉

The Universe has dealt you a ROYAL FLUSH.👈👈👈

Even if your reality doesn’t feel like it.

Mind > Matter.

When you start thinking on a whole other level.

You become untouchable.👈👈👈

Not me.

I’ve stopped apologizing for being who I am these days.

Definitely more wolf than woman.

I might not look it.

But I feel it.

Fueled with a deep desire to conquer all my fears.

And climb those mountains.

You know.

The ones that everyone says I can’t.

And I approach them all with fierce determination.

Embracing it all.

That’s the mindset you need.

You know?

The mindset to move on!

I love that quote <3

And I think that goes for many women.

They are so much more than their partner can handle.

Just remember.

YOU are more than enough.

And not everyone is going to be able to handle you!

That’s their problem.

Not yours.

You keep being you.

It all comes down to one thing.

“When you are golden, not everyone knows how to handle gold!”

Keep shining love <3


Under the heading:

How can I move on?


In my case.

How I’m turning lemons into lemonade.

I’m so excited to share.

I’m actually writing my first book.

Something that has been on my bucket list for some time now.

It’s title:

“How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything”

Anticipated Release Date: Fall 2021

More details to follow soon!

And finally.

I leave you with this, lol.

My new favorite meme <3

That is so me these days!


I am telling you once again!


No Matter What!

No Matter How!

Figure out a way to make it worth.

It took Thomas Edison 10,000 tries to make the lightbulb.

So don’t get discouraged.

If it doesn’t work for you the first ten times.


I’ve been working at it for nine years.

And I’ve only scratched the surface of where I want to be👈👈👈

Just believe you can.



How can I move on?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while.

“How can I move on?”



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