“How can I love again?” (1.19.2020)

Patricia Bokowski, have you ever seen a complete stranger across a room, street, or hallway, and sent them a silent, “You are loved,” just for the good it might do? I have. But then, to me, they’re not really strangers. Smile, and the world smiles with you.Neither are they to you, Patricia Bokowski –  The Universe / How can I love again? / www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I love again?

Gonna get a little rocky here today.

I was having a conversation yesterday with someone I know who is currently single, and also, terribly sad πŸ™

They said they were sure that they would have found ‘somebody’ by now.


Love doesn’t come on a timetable.πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜

My advice to them.

And to anyone else who is single reading this.

Focus on you.

Because, that’s how it really works!

Listen, anyone can find ‘somebody’.βœ”βœ”βœ”

If that’s what you really want?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

Some body?

But, are you really just looking for a ‘body’?

And remember this.

If you wind up with the wrong person.

You could very possibly feel a whole lot lonelier than being alone.

Yes, been there, done that!

There is a difference between being alone.

And being lonely.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

HUGE difference!

So today I am sharing.

Some LOVE quotes to spur your imagination.

Make you smile.

And hopefully.

Make you see that being ‘alone’ is not a terrible thing.

Remember, it’s not forever.

It’s just for nowπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


As I like to remind people.

Don’t make a permanent decision.

Like marrying someone.

Just because you felt lonely today!

Seen it more times than I can count!

Been there, done that☝☝☝

MORE than once!

Never again.

Sorry, not sorry.

That’s what happens when you find your power again!

You give people the keys to your happiness!

But, if you want someone who really means something to you.

Sometimes you just have to wait it out.

So, if you happen to be ‘solo’ this Valentine’s Day.

Don’t be sad ;-(

It is far better to be solo.

Then to be with someone who makes you feel alone.

Or, someone you don’t even really like.

Like, you’re with someone just.

So you can say you have a date for Valentine’s Day.

I’m sure many of you know exactly what I’m talking about.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Like I just said☝☝☝

That’s the truth!

We’ve ALL been there.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It’s taken me a long time to get that.

What you want is someone who is FULLY in.

Not just when it’s convenient!

Or, they feel like it.

Because you deserve someone who makes you feel AMAZING!!!

Karma is on your side <3


Love on the rocks
Ain’t no surprise
Just pour me a drink and I’ll tell you my lies
Yesterday’s gone
And now all I want is a smile

Love on the Rocks by Neil Diamond😒😒😒

That’s how it works.

Remember that.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

You attract what you are.

Not what you want.

So, who are you and what do you want?

And if you REALLY think about it…and get deep with it.

You’ll find it’s two completely different things? #youareworthitall

You’ll find what you seek! / The Universe

What’s truly yours won’t ever be withheld from you.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I was just talking about this in my latest YouTube video. (It’s called The Frog’s Den).

Like everything else in life.

You need to be on the dance floor in order for opportunity to find you.

So go pursue your dreams.

Work on the things you like.

Take that exercise class.

Sign-up for that college class you’ve been wanting to take.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Start that new side-gig you’ve been wanting to do for so long (yes, now is the time).

And while you are so busy living your life.

Going after your dreams, maybe, just maybe.

The love you have been looking for will find you.

Because they will have been busy doing exactly the SAME thing.

And in case you missed it.

I started my YouTube Channel last week.

it’s called The Frog’s Den.

Here is the link if you’d like to check it out!

Patricia D. Bokowski – The Frog’s Den on YouTube


So, if you were around when Christ was around.

You would see.

That they were having the same issues with love that we’re having today!

And, quite honestly.

I think they might have had it easier.

As they didn’t have to use OKQ, Match.com, Plenty of Fish, or any of the other horrid dating apps πŸ˜‰

They also didn’t have Instagram, Pinterest, Snapchat, Whatsapp, etc.

It was a battle then.

And the battle continues today πŸ™‚


Loving yourself is essential to having a healthy relationship with someone else.

So, take the time for yourself.

Indulge yourself.

Take yourself out to dinner.

Find something you love to do and do it by yourself.

My friend Wendy says she treats herself very well.

She takes herself out to eat.

Goes shopping, buys herself nice things.

And takes good care of her body.πŸ“πŸ“πŸ“

That’s what I’m talking about.

“If he don’t love you anymore, just walk your fine ass out the door.”

Good as Hell – Lizzo πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

NEVER let someone make you feel less than.

YOU deserve a love that makes you feel WONDERFUL.

And like I said earlier.

Don’t accept anything less.

Because you’re lonely.

The BEST kind of women:-)



Don’t believe everything you see on social media.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Remember, most people are on there to ‘sell’ something.

In one way, shape or form.

Take it for what it’s worth!

You have no idea what’s going on ‘behind’ those pictures!

No one is posting ‘bad’ pictures.

No one is talking about the big fight they just had?

I don’t care who they are.

We’re all human.

And we all have the same issues!

Who can relate?


Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok and YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“How can I love again?”



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