“How can I live my best life?” (8.19.2020)

I have to admit, Patricia Bokowski, when we thought of adding the dimension of “time” to space, it was not wildly popular. 

True, it would make possible evolution, reunions, and cute before-and-after photos. But it would add to the illusion of separation… “horror of horrors!” Spontaneous manifestations would spontaneously cease… “eee-gad!” And the only way anyone could get anything done, would be if they held onto and moved with their vision in thought, word, and deed, even when present circumstances appeared ABSOLUTELY unchanged for their efforts… yeah, “SIGN ME UP!!!!” 

Thinking of you beaming with childlike joy –ย ย ย The Universe / How can I live my best life?

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions!” – NineFrogs

Quote: www.tut.com

Quit trying to be perfect and get going๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰

Because you need to take you to new heights!

That’s the difference between walking with your head held high.

Or down around your knees ;-(

The difference between walking with brisk steps with confidence๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Or just shuffling your feet along like you have no where to go.

I went to a conference years ago, and Dr. Kim, the speaker, said something I always remember.

“Always walk like you have somewhere to go!” (even if you don’t).

It makes you look far more interesting! ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰

It’s the difference between waking up with determination and enthusiasm.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Or, turning on the snooze button five times and hiding under your blanket!

Yeah, we’ve all been there!


The right attitude does make a BIG difference.

As it should!

Having the right attitude is the thing that will help you not only in life (something many people are missing, and then they wonder why their lives are so miserable).

But, also in your quest to make your dreams a reality!

Johnny Depp/Captain Jack Sparrow got that rightโ˜โ˜โ˜

Every situation you have in life, both good and bad, comes down to YOUR attitude about it.

When times are good, obviously having a good attitude is going to make things even better.

And when times are bad?

Well, this is really where you need a GOOD attitude.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

See, having a bad attitude in a bad situation will reek absolute havoc in your life!

Be like Captain Jack!

Keep a good attitude ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰

Patricia D. Bokowski

Without a positive attitude, success is called LUCK. But with a positive attitude, success is called ACHIEVEMENT!”

NineFrogs Wisdom

That’s the difference with dreamers and doers.

Dreamers spend most of their time talking about what other people are doing, and the things they are going to do ‘someday’.

Doers on the other hand, are too busy working on their own shit, that they don’t have the time or interest, in what anybody else is doing!

They are way too busy watering their own grass, so they don’t care if you are growing flowers or weeds.

It’s all the same to them๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰

Remember, garbage in, garbage out.

I’m pretty sure Oprah said that!

You can’t have a GREAT attitude if you are taking in toxic shit.

You want a great attitude? https://www.ninefrogs.com

Fill your mind, body and soul with all the good stuff you can.

Literally and figuratively.

Eating lots of junkfood?

Checking in on the news 10 hours a day?

Start making better life choices.

And start to see your whole soul shine!

Ever notice how some people are like magnets?

As if they are some kind of beacon of light?

Some might say it’s their confidence?

Or, their energy. https://www.ninefrogs.com

And then there are those who might say it’s their attitude.

Perhaps, it’s all three๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

The point is, when you have a great attitude, you radiate confidence.

Which automatically puts you at the head of the line.

Which is exactly where you want to be๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Once upon a time I had a large circle around me.

These days, not so much.

As in, my circle is really small.

There is a reason for that.

Over the years I realized some ‘people’ did not have my best interests at heart.

Others, we just outgrew each other.

And still others, were just not meant to be in my life any more and I had to just those doors.

That’s how you grow.

It’s also sometimes absolutely necessary to continue on your path.

Personally, I found my attitude about a lot of things changed when I changed the people in my life.

Is it easy?


Is it necessary for our own success and well-being?

Sometimes, yes.


Just remember, the people who you surround yourself with makes a huge impact on your life.

I know you know this and that I don’t need to tell you again.

But I’m doing it anyway.

And, that goes for both your personal AND professional lives.

You can’t be bright, focused and determined, with a positive AF attitude, if there is someone in your circle bringing you down.

F thatโ˜นโ˜นโ˜น

If that’s the case, it’s time to KICK that person to the curb ASAP๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

Remember, it’s your circle, guard it closely!

So, I wanted to upload my latest TikTok video, but apparently I am not that technically advanced, because I couldn’t get it to work.

The point I was going to make is this.

If you want to make a YouTube or TikTok video, it takes a lot of confidence and a great attitude as well.

Otherwise, you are NOT going to come off well at all.

Doing both YouTube and TikTok pushed me way out of my comfort zone.

But, I am have gotten great feed back on both.

So I will be doing more.

And I never would have done either if it wasn’t for the fact that I had a great attitude about both.

See, having a positive attitude helps push you to do things that scare you.

How can I live my best life?

By deciding that you are worthy of having one!

Make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!



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