“How can I level up?” (10.20.2020)

Isn’t it a hoot? Patricia Bokowski, of all the people in all the world who actually “get it,” few, if any, actually give it to themselves.
The trick? Baby steps. 
Give, just a little, today. Give credit, give praise, give goodies to yourself, and the Universe will give you even more. 
Tallyho,  The Universe / How can I level up?


Patricia Bokowski, selfishness is a virtue, unless you think it must come at the expense of others. And why would anyone think that? Oh yeah, that’s what all the people who don’t “get it” told you.

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I level up?

The million dollar question!

I know.

You’ve heard it a million and one times.


Here’s the thing.

Ask yourself.

What would you do if you weren’t afraid?

If all those things you’ve been wanting to do.

You actually did.👈👈👈

How do you think that would make you feel?

Pretty amazing I’m sure.

To conquer your demons.

The ones that tell you it’s not going to work.

And how would doing so inspire those around you?

Seems to me.

These days.

We need more of that.

More people doing what sets their souls on fire.

And in doing so.

Helping those around them.

We certainly seem to be in the thick of it these days.

Lots of chatter going on out there.

In here.

Over there.

It’s everywhere.

Hard to get away from it.


To keep your spirits up.

Best to avoid it as much as possible.

And all you hear people complaining about this and that.

How sad they feel.


Literally drowning themselves in misery.

My success is not tied to anyone or anything.

Other than my own actions.

And neither is yours.

You are given this life to do amazing things.

Things that others only wished they had the courage to do.

Even if they don’t tell you.

Which they won’t!

Don’t let that stop you from being amazing!

I’ve learned over the years to be courageous.

Even when it scares the shiz out of me.

For doing so.

Standing up for what is right.

Is exactly what’s going to get me to where I want to be.

Will it be easy?


Will it be worth it?



When you are trying to do something that’s never been done before.

There will be many who will say, ‘you can’t do it’.

It’s too hard.

You don’t have enough experience.

How are you going to do it?

Don’t listen to those people.

Just do it👈👈👈

Even when it seems like nothing is happening, keep at it!

Especially on the days when it feels like nothing is happening.

See, the Universe loves rewarding people who don’t give up!

BE one of those people👈👈👈

That’s the kind of mindset to have, especially these days.


Sharks aren’t afraid of anything.

Sharks don’t let anyone or anything get in their way.

Even roadblocks.

Live with the mindset that:

The Universe has dealt you a ROYAL FLUSH.

Even if your reality doesn’t feel like it.

Mind > Matter.

When you start thinking on a whole other level.

You become untouchable.

Not me.

I’ve stopped apologizing for being who I am these days.

Definitely more wolf than woman.

I might not look it.

But I feel it.

Fueled with a deep desire to conquer all my fears.

And climb those mountains.

You know.

The ones that everyone says I can’t.

And I approach them all with fierce determination.

Embracing it all.

I love that quote.

And I think that goes for many women.

So much more than their partner can handle.

YOU are more than enough.

And not everyone is going to be able to handle you!

That’s their problem.

Not yours.

You keep glowing!

It all comes down to one thing.

Baby steps.

And finally.

I leave you with this, lol.

My new favorite meme <3

That is so me these days!


I am telling you once again!


No Matter What!

No Matter How!

Figure out a way to make it worth.

It took Thomas Edison 10,000 tries to make the lightbulb.

So don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t work for you the first ten times.


I’ve been working at it for nine years.

And I’ve only scratched the surface of where I want to be👈👈👈

Just believe you can.



Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while.

“How can I level up?”



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