“How can I get to the top?” (8.31.2020)

Primitive societies live by the Rule of Might, and the strong prevail. 
Advanced societies live by the Rule of Law, and the privileged prevail. 
Enlightened societies live by the Rule of Love, and everyone is lifted higher. 
Love on, Patricia Bokowski –   The Universe / How can I get to the top?

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

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I was out shopping the other day and over-heard a conversation between two women.

Apparently, hadn’t seen in each other in a while and were catching up…

It went something like this:

Woman 1 – How are you doing?  Everything going good?

Woman 2 – Oh, you know…I’m tired, I feel like I can never catch up, blah, blah, blah

Woman 1 – I know how feel, the older I get, the harder everything seems.  Some days I find it hard to do anything!

Woman 2 – I know exactly how you feel.  Just getting dressed and combing my hair is an effort these days.

Woman 1 – It just doesn’t seem fair does it?

Woman 2 – Exactly, life just seems to be getting more complicated and harder, I just can’t deal with it.

Believe you can, and you’re half-way there!

Was waiting for today to publish this, I figured it was a great boost to start the week!


Let’s state the obvious.

Life is hard.

And these days, hard AND crazy πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And unpredictable.

And I think we are all suffering from a thing called “what day is it”?

Our ‘new normal’ so to speak!

And, I can see how it would be to have a bad attitude about it. πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

Only, don’t.

Having a bad attitude will get you nowhere in life.


No where that you want to go for sure!

The tag line for my business is:  Where Attitude is Everything!

There’s a reason for that.

Having a great attitude is what you need in life to not only survive, but to thrive!

And yet, so many people just don’t get that. 

I hear soooo many people complain, about just about everything. 

And it’s not just ‘older’ people.

I hear younger people complaining ALL the time.

About this and that.

How, so many things aren’t fair?

Since when has life ever been fair?

That’s life people! 

You either conquer it, or it will conquer you! πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

Just remember, you are in it for the WINπŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

Is it easy? 

Not it is not.

Especially these days.

Some days it is a struggle. 

Fortunately, those days are few and far between.

I think it is especially important these days to keep a positive attitude.

That’s the thing that keeps you sane in an insane world.

That positive attitude is what can help you get through the worst of days.

Every journey begins with a single HOP πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

Having the right attitude shines right through you.

People can feel it.

It fuels your energy.

And as we all know.

Your energy is contagious.  

You become a magnet for people who want what you have.

And these days, we need all the magnetic people we can shining their light!

I for one, get this all the time.

You guessed it.

I’m a magnet!

I’ve been asked more than once, how do I keep such a positive attitude?

Especially with all the craziness in the world right now.

And my honest answer is this:

I can’t control what’s going on in the world.

I can only control what’s going on in MY world.

So I choose to have a positive attitude every morning when I wake up.

I have a business that I work at EVERY day.

And I have a family to look after, among other things.

It’s how I choose to live my life.

And I highly recommend to others if they are not.

When you can’t get your pretty on!

And on those days when I wake up and feel I am the mess πŸ‘†πŸ‘†πŸ‘†

Again, not very often.

I give myself three things to do.

That’s it. 

Three things.

Something like this:

Take a shower.

Put on your makeup.

Get dressed.

And by the time I’ve done all three, I’m already feeling motivated!

It’s all in your ATTITUDE! πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Every morning when you wake up, you have two choices.

It’s either going to be a great day!

Or not.

When you possess a really positive attitude, it helps you live your life on a totally different level then most.

A level most don’t get to.

Which is sad.

It also helps bring about serendipities you never thought possible!

When you think better, life gets better.

“Whether you think you can, or whether you think you can’t, you’re right!” – Henry Ford

That’s what having the right attitude does for you and your life! https://www.ninefrogs.com

And in these crazy days we are living in, keep it light and keep it right!

How can I get to the top?

Working at it one day at a timeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Lastly, make sure to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!



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