“How can I get ready?” (2.12.18)

When just starting out on a new journey, Patricia Bokowski, it’s only natural to feel vulnerable, like you have so much to lose. 
But may I remind you that never again, at any other point in the same journey, will you have so much to gain? 
I’ll take that as a “Yes.” 
  The Universe / How can I get ready?
And, Patricia Bokowski, that barely hints at how profoundly “the game of life” is rigged in your favor. Go for it and keep going for it! (I’m “wanted” in Vegas.)


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I get ready?

Start the week off right!

What is it about Monday’s that depresses so many people?

If you are living a life (and I know, because I used to live it).

Where you hate Monday’s.

Guess what?

Time to get a new life!


I know you know that.


I feel you have to address the issue.


If you are one of those people who sincerely Monday’s.

Then you either need to find a new job.


Start your own business.

Which is exactly what I did back in 2012.



Best decision I ever made for myself.

How will I know if I’m ready?

You can look at Mondays one of two ways.

Either you look at it as a clean slate and fresh start to your week.๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š


You dread it.

In which case.

I would say.

You need to be reading more of my blogs.

And watching my videos on my TikTok – The Frog’s Den!

You’re ready!

How will I know if I’m ready?

It’s like people who live for Friday’s.

Stop that too.

You’re wishing your whole life away..


You start with getting through Monday.

Then Tuesday.




Happiness sets in!


It’s the weekend!

(insert questionable choices made over weekend).


And we are back to Monday!

(insert sounds of loud groans).

You’re ready!

How about instead of hating Monday’s.

You chose instead.


Be a shark this week.

A BIG, scary, fuccing shark๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

See, sharks don’t let things get in their way.

They just tear through anything that gets in their way.

Or, eat them.

Whichever the case.

And they don’t really care.

Because, they are SHARKS.

And they are scary AF๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You’re ready!

You have to put in the work for what you want. 

So the question is, what do you want?

And, what are you willing to do to get there.

Because usually what happens next is coming out of your comfort zone.

Is that an option for you?

Or, are you happy staying where you are?

And only you know the answer!

You’re ready!

Most people are so busy complaining about “whatever”, that they don’t even take the time to realize.


A privilege denied to many, everyday.

Wake-up call, appreciate, give thanks, and love the ones you’re with <3

You’re ready!

Steve Martin got it right. 

Be so good they can’t ignore you (also, one of my tag lines).

Strive to be excellent in whatever it is you do.

If you make cupcakes for a living, be the best damn cupcake-maker ever!!!

Never settle for being mediocre or second best

Always strive to be YOUR best!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You’re ready!

Don’t forget your sense of humor.

A good sense of humor will take you great places.

It will also help on the days when things aren’t going so well.

And let’s be honest.

That’s life.

Good days.

Bad days.


Having a good sense of humor helps on both!

You’re ready!

Life is all about taking chances. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Never live your life that you are always so “comfortable”.

If there is a leap to be made in your life, by all means, take THE LEAP!


Make it a BIG one!

You’re ready!

Time is going to pass anyway.

So why not work on your dream?

One of the worst things in the world would be to look back over your life and regret not going for it!

For me personally, and I’ve written about this before, I am working on my empire.

My NineFrogs empire.

I’ve been working on it for quite a few years now.





Summer Time.

That’s what happens when you become laser-focused.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You have this burning passion.

And it’s pretty much the only thing you think about.


That about sums it up.

You’re ready!


Most people like to complicate the whole thing.

When literally, that’s what it comes down to.

Write it down on paper (it doesn’t have to be some long, drawn out Master Plan).

Take out a piece of plain paper and write what you want to accomplish, as in, your major goal.

Then write five things you can do to get you there.

And then be prepared to keep changing those five things.

And see, it doesn’t matter, as long as you don’t change your Major Goal.

Mine, is to be Internationally Successful๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And that’s what I work on everyday, in every way I can think of!

You’re ready!



Kermit the Frog๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

Spend your precious time with people that make you feel alive ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

People who appreciate your quirks and who love you like crazy.

Life is way too short to spend your time with people who merely ‘tolerate’ you.

I learned that lesson the hard way.

These days, I only spend time with people I really enjoy.

Otherwise, I spend it alone.

And I’m totally fine with that.

Because as I’ve learned over the past few years or so, I’m excellent company.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I’m funny.

I’m smart.

I’m interested in a variety of things.

I’m NEVER bored and I’m never boring!

You’re ready!



There is nothing like a bit of Retail Therapy to make your Monday a tad more joyous ๐Ÿ˜‰

And, it’s even better with your official NineFrogs tote-bag!

If you are interested in purchasing, let me know, I only have a small amount left!

You’re ready!


Pretty much!

Hey, whatever it takes!

Just remember, you need to push yourself.

Get out of your comfort zone.


I know.

You hate the idea of that.

But, that is what is going to get you to the next level.

Unless of course, you are ok staying where you are for the rest of your life.

Living a mediocre life.

When you actually have the potential to live an amazing life.

Choose wisely! NineFrogs Daily &#8220;QUOTE OF THE DAY&#8221;:

How can I get ready?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!



“How can I get ready?”