“How can I fix this?” (1.19.17)

Patricia Bokowski, all you have to do is be. Be yourself. 
There’s nothing to prove.
And there’s no one to please who isn’t already over the moon
with joy at how well you’ve done and with who you’ve become. 
Tallyho,
  The Universe / “How can I fix this?” / www.tut.com
 

 

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

 

 

How can I fix this?

I think we can all agree that image is King these days.

Take one look on social media.

And you will see, it’s all about your image. 

Although many will disagree with me, to which I will say.

Your personality is NOT the first thing people see.

Some may it’s superficial.

I disagree.

And that being a good person, and/or.

Being respectable is more important (not to say it isn’t). 

The issue becomes somewhat apparent quickly.

You basically have a nano second.

To make a great impression.

And that’s before you say a word.

That’s just how it works.

How can I fix this?

Self-Confidence:  

Chances are.

You are most likely not going to achieve big things in life.

Not looking your best. 

When you put your best “self” out into the world.

The world responds back in a positive fashion.

Like attracts like.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

 

Career

When was the last time you went on an interview and didn’t look your best? 

Or attend a big meeting? 

Meet a new client?

Go on a date? NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

How many men have a red tie? 

The power color. 

Or ladies, an ensemble that says I’m ready to take-on-the-world? 

A LBD perhaps?

Killer heels.

My favorite!βœ”βœ”βœ”

Who doesn’t love the UPS man when he makes deliveries to the office? 

Hello? 

The world is as competitive as ever, maybe more so.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

So, if you want to be seen.

And acknowledged for who you are.

Your image needs to meet the expectation! 

You need to be in the drivers seat this year steering your career along.

I believe this year is going to be a game-changer for many of us.

Are you prepared?

Make this YOUR year to really shine!

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Feeling Good

Like the saying goes:

“Look good, Feel good”.

And vice-versa. 

You are never going to feel good about yourself.

If you aren’t trying to look your best everyday. 

Sorry.

That’s just the way it  works!

“Dressing well is a form of good manners.” / Tom Ford

Dating

I could actually write a book on this one. 

For those of us (yes, myself included).

Out in the dating world.

You need to not only look your best.

But, you need to smile and show off your best!

I am still shocked when I look at the profile pictures that men put up!

Pictures with no smiles πŸ™

Most definitely NOT my kind of man!

Not dressed properly, or not dressed at all!

Laying down in bed.

Which says to me.

You are either too lazy to stand up and take a picture.

Group shots. 

Shows lack of confidence.

Like why?

Wearing sunglasses. 

He’s hiding something.

Or doesn’t want to be seen.βœ”βœ”βœ” 

So who’s this working for? 

You are not going to attract an amazing woman with pictures like that! 

And to be fair, it goes both ways as well. 

I’ve heard men complain that women need to take better profile pics.

So make this the year you level-up and put up some great shots.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

This could be your year of meeting the one!

 

 

Self-Sabatoge: 

I believe some people go out of there way to not look their best.

It gives them an excuse to fail.

Which is not to say that dressing your best will make everything in your life perfect.

We do live in reality. 

Only if you start your day looking and feeling your best.

There’s a good chance.

Avery good chance.

That good things will come your way more easily. 

And if you don’t believe me, try me!

 

 

Who’s Watching You: 

Maybe it’s your kids. 

Maybe it’s your boss? 

Your followers? 

You never know who’s watching you and who you are inspiring. 

I receive many e-mails from people (who I don’t know).

Telling me I inspire them with my blogs and posts.

I’ve inspired people to do things they never thought they could do.

Things that were on their bucket list and I.

Inspired them to do those things. ☝

Yeah, me!!!

That makes me feel totally awesome.

 

Can we talk about my hair for a second?

I can’t tell you how many compliments I get on my hair!

Yes, my hair.

Recently, one lady came up behind me and said, “Damn, I wish I had your b*lls.” 

I get that a lot.

Oh yes!

Women wishing they could cut their hair like mine.

I tell them they could if they really wanted!

And yet.

They won’t.

And I can always tell the ones that really need to!

I also get complimented on my smile.

The way I dress.

My infectious-positive energy.

Remember, you have no idea who’s watching you! 

So don’t be afraid to be amazing!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

 

Your Haters: 

Think you don’t have haters, think again.  

Oh, you have them. πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If you are out there trying to achieve a dream.

Working on your career or business.

Making waves in the universe as I like to say!

How can I fix this?

 

 

They are there in the wings. 

Maybe you know them, maybe you don’t?  

But rest assured, they are there. 

And you know what? 

Nothing makes them hate you more than when they see you looking good.

Feeling good,

Doing good.

Inspiring others,

Making achievements in the world.

And most of all.

BEING happy! 

Take that haters!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How can I fix this?

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The World Needs You: 

And I don’t mean in the sense that the world needs everyone dressing up (although it couldn’t hurt). 

I mean.

The world needs more people inspiring other people. 

The world needs a big.

Huge shot of INSPIRATION right now! 

There is way to much negativity going on these days.

(and I’m not getting into that, you know the reasons). 

So let’s inspire as many people as we can,.

Through whichever means works for us as individuals. 

Whether it’s on a personal level.

Or a business level.

Through social media.

Or whatever works in your world?

How awesome would it be if you could make this world a little lighter!

A little brighter!

Sharing your smile counts too!

So ask you?

How can I fix this?πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: February 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos up now on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

 

 

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