“How can I find love again?” (7.7.16)

Always speak of the past, gratefully. 
Of the future, excitedly. 
And of the present, Patricia Bokowski, with bobbing eyebrows and a Cheshire grin. 
Spiritual politics, baby –
  The Universe
“How can I find love again?”
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I find love again?

We’ve all been there.

And some of us are still there!

“LOVE is sort of like a fairy tale.  Some people find their

happy ending in the first person they meet.

Others, have to fight a dragon before they do.

And some, have to kiss lots of frogs!”


Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great!

And don’t ever give up in your pursuit of love AND happiness!πŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’Ÿ

Because loving someone.

AND being happy with someone are two different things.

You can love someone.

AND still not be happy with them.

Hard lessons.

I know.

Some days it seems fruitless.

But settling for someone.

Just because you don’t want to be alone.

Is a terrible mistake. 

Far too many people do this.

It’s like staying in a job you hate.

You stay because at least you know what you have.

There’s a term for this.

It’s called “comfort in your misery“.

How many times have you talked to someone.

And, they are in a bad relationship.

And you ask them why don’t they leave?

The answer is usually some BS reason.

Don’t let THAT happen to youπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Because being with the wrong person.

Can make you feel more alone.

Than when you were actually alone πŸ™

I know.

Been there.

Done that.

Married it.

Divorced it.

Horrible experience.

Because, once you’re in it.

It’s a total b*tch to get out of!

Have you ever been with someone who makes you feel like that?

It’s one of the worst feelings in the world.😒😒😒

Better to be on your own, enjoying life

You just have to hang tough!

And be a force to be reckoned with when it comes to dating.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I know that sounds extreme.

But, that’s what it’s come to in the dating world!


Here is your friendly reminder:

Your Prince/Princess is out there!

And they are looking for you too.

You just need to be OUT there doing YOUR thing!

So, in the meantime.

Just keep doing you. 

Do the things that you love.

Take you out to eatπŸ•πŸ•πŸ•

Go for a driveπŸš“πŸš“πŸš“

Learn something newβœ…βœ…βœ…

Sign-up for a new exercise class🦾🦾🦾

Make new friendsπŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š

Pursue your dreams.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Date YOU in the meantime.

And when the time is right.

You’ll meet the person who makes you feel like sunshine <3

You are so lovedπŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™

And if you need help getting yourself back out into the dating world.

Email me at pattib@ninefrogs.com!

How can I find love again?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok and YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon.

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“How can I find love again?”



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