“How can I change my life?” (7.23.19)

Patricia Bokowski, do you know what it’s going to feel like when the day comes and everything you now want has come to pass?

When you’re living in total abundance, in perfect health, looking fabulous, with friends and laughter wherever you go? 
It’s going to feel like, “Yeah… of course.” 
That’s how well I know you,  The Universe / “How can I change my life?”

Feel it NOW👈👈👈

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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I change my life?

I hear that from many these days.

Why?

Because I think a lot of people.

Are looking for any advice.

Shortcut if you will.

To live a better life.

To be happy.

To increase their productivity and efficiency.

In all aspects of their life.

How can I change my life?

Here’s a life hack.

Look.

The older you get.

The more struggles you encounter.

That’s just life.

And trust me.

I have encountered more than my fair share.

Of life’s struggles.

So.

Please.

Try and learn.

As many.

Life Hacks.

As possible.

Life Hacks!

Can save you time.

Help navigate you through life successfully.

Solve problems.

How can I change my life?

Here’s a really important Life Hack.

Stick with the people who make you feel like magic!

That’s right!

Who are the five people who spend the most time with?

Do they make you feel like sunshine?

Because.

If they don’t.

As I’ve written about a thousand times.

Get a new circle.

Remember.

Everyone you started with.

is NOT going to end with you.

It’s called GROWTH!

How can I change my life?

I think.

As we get older.

One of two things happen.

BTW.

I said getting OLDER.

NOT OLD!

There’s a difference!

You either get smarter.

And learn as many Life Hacks as possible along the way.

Or.

You let life get the better of you!

Luckily for me.

I got smart.

I had to .

It was literally.

Sink or Swim.

And you know me.

There was no way.

That I was going to sink.

Like no f*cking way!

So.

I learned as many life hacks as I could.

Got STRONGER👈👈👈

And FIERCE AF!

And, I am living proof.

How that term that goes;

That which does not kill me, makes me stronger!”

How can I change my life?

So.

If life sends you a life storm.

Weather it well.

Because.

You’ll come out stronger.

And.

If you’re going through one right now.

KEEP GOING!!!

How can I change my life?

Unfortunately.

There are some people who never recover from the storm.

And live the rest of their lives wallowing in it.

“You don’t drown my falling in the water.

You drown my staying in it.”

Ancient Chinest Proberb

Here’s the thing.

If you don’t have some kind of handle on “life”.

“Life” will have a handle on you.

So.

You need to have your ‘power’ in check.

You need to have your mindset in check as well.

How can I change my life?

In today’s blog.

I’ve been sharing some of my best life hacks!

Here’s one of my favorites.

Dress Your Best.

Some people are so quick to disagree with me on that point!

It’s just.

I find it hard to believe.

That, you can feel good about yourself.

When you look like sh*t.

How can I change my life?

And yes, many of you do.

Look like sh*t.

I people watch all the time.

Hey.

Mark Zuckenburg wears a t-shirt and jeans everyday to work and looks great.

Tom Ford wears a suit and tie to work every day and looks fabulous.

We all know the Fedex man wears his uniform and we adore him!

You get the idea.

It’s not what you wear.

It’s HOW you wear it!

How can I change my life?

Don’t wear your pj’s and slippers to 7-11.

Or TJMAXX.

The Dollar Store either.

All the places I shop!

Just put a little thought into it.

Even when you don’t feel like it.

And those little extras like…

Style your hair.

That’s why they make product.

If need be, get a hair cut.

Shave.

Use deodorant.

A little cologne goes a long way.

A dab of perfume.

Or your favorite body spray can make you feel amazing!

Apply some make-up (even if it’s simply lip gloss).

Take good care of your skin.

It’s the only skin you get!

And, now matter what.

Get up, get dressed, and get going!

How can I change my life?

When you feel good about your appearance.

You’re self-confidence will start to soar.

You will be a beacon of light. 

And.

You will be prepared.

To go after those dreams of yours.

And, light up your life!

Yes.

Like that.

Trust me.

How can I change my life?

Here’s a Life Hack no one ever talks about!

Organization!

I am always so amazed.

When I’m working with someone new.

And see how utterly, disorganized they are.

People.

That’s why they call it.

Project Management.

No matter.

However big or small the project.

You need to be organized.

Things like.

Getting ready for work the night before.

Working on a new project around the house.

Even as simple as organizing a closet.

If you can master this trait.

I will tell you.

It will make your life SO Much Easier.

I see people struggle with this issue often.

Don’t be one of them. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

How can I change my life?

That’s a great Life Hack!

You will be too much for some people!

And guess what?

They ARE NOT your people!

Your people.

Should be clapping for every win you get.

And, if they aren’t!

GET new people!

That’s a really important life hack.

How can I change my life?

Here’s a GREAT Life Hack!

Don’t be afraid to bend the rules.

Hell.

Break some if you have to.

I’ve learned.

That’s really the only way.

You get sh*t done!

Staying within the lines gets you nowhere fast.

Start making your own rules.

Start by taking a bad situation.

And turn it into a win for you.

A BIG win!👈👈👈

That’s how you play the game.

And come out a winner.

How can I change my life?

This is my life these days.

For the past nine years.

And it has been.

Life Changing!

I stopped waiting.

And.

Started doing.

Truly.

Life Changing!

People ask me questions all the time.

How do I do this?

How do I do that?

How am I so productive?

Because.

Quite honestly.

I do get a lot done.

On any given day!

Know how?

I’ve learned.

Some really great.

Life Hacks!

How can I change my life?

I’ve also learned.

To stay away from people who don’t feel like sunshine.

And.

To not rely on anybody for help.

That.

If there is something I want done.

I have to learn how to do it myself.

I’ve also realized.

That I’m now working harder than I ever have in my life.

And that I’m okay with it.

Because.

Everything I’m doing.

I’m doing for me and my family.

And, of course, the success of my business!

See.

These are the Life Hacks no one teaches you.

You just have to kind of discover them for yourself.

How can I change my life?

Lastly, make sure to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“How can I change my life?”

www.ninefrogs.com

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One Response

  1. Linda Catalano July 23, 2019

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