“How can I be the one?” (1.1.2020)

My own personal policy as the Universe, Patricia, is to only do those things that I want to do, with whom I want to do them.
That’s part of the reason I’m always hanging around you.
Hungry?   The Universe
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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I be the one?

You? πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Do you know how amazing you are?

When was the last time someone told you that?

If it’s been a long time, then I’m sorry.

We never hear that enough do we?

So, let me repeat that!

YOU are amazing😍😍😍

Feel better?

Make you smile? πŸ˜‰

It’s funny, it takes so little effort to give a compliment.

Yet we so infrequently get them!

So let me say it again, I think you are AMAZING!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

The world would be such a nicer place.

If everyday.

Everyone would give at least one compliment to someone in their life!

Think how much happier everyone would be!

How can I have be the one?

For all you do.

And for all the things you attempt to do.

What you bring to the world.

How you inspire those around you.

Even though you may not even know it.

You know what they say?

You never know WHO you are inspiring?

All the little things that you do.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

The things that you do that you think go unnoticed.

You, just you being youπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If it makes you feel better.

No one has told me how amazing I am lately either?

And I believe I’m pretty damn amazingπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

As a result.

I am beginning to question these people I live with a bit.

So unappreciative!

How can I be the one?

So, now that we have determined you are utterly amazing.

What amazing thing(s) are you going to do with your life?

This is not a dress rehearsal.

It is the real deal.

Now is the time!

Take action.

So, time to get off your couch.

And, start knocking on some doors.

If you want to live BIG.

You need to start to think BIG!

Next step.

YOU have to be out on the dance floor of life in order to make those BIG dreams happen boo!

Whatever you do.

Don’t keep living the same year as last yearπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Or decade!

Make this the year you make some bold moves!

Like, really BOLD MOVESπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

Because, you deserve to live that bold life!

Stop following the pack.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Lead your own pack, even if it’s just you!

If you REALLY want to push the limits.

And make BIG changes.

You need to make BIG moves.

Trust me.

You can do it.

It’s just no one tells you.

How can I be the one?

Make this the year you finally go after that dream!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And if you’re already working on that dream.

Make this the year that you take a giant leap of faith and try something new.

As for me, I’m starting my YouTube channel.

I ripped that band aid off and just did it.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Oh, and I started on TikTok as well (The Frog’s Den).

AND, I am going to be interviewed on national radio next month.

I’d say, to date, I’ve been interviewed about twenty times give or take!

And, that did not just happen.


I put myself out there and went for it!

Like I keep saying.

Don’t wait for opportunity to knock on your door.

Make your own opportunities as well!

Even if something sounds completely ridiculous.

If you think there may be a chance it could work for you, do itπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How can I be the one?

Things to do this year:βœ”βœ”βœ”

Take risks!βœ…

Meet new people.βœ…

Go new places.βœ…



How can I be the one?

More things to do this year:

Hang out with people who are:

not your age,

your ethnicity,

speak your language or

have your background.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That’s how you get to know people.

Other cultures and how other’s view the world.

Do the things you love to do.

With the people you love to do them with.

And don’t worry if other people don’t like it.

It’s not their lifeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How can I be the one?

Take chances!

Get inspired in ways you never have before.

You’d be amazed who’s out there ready to inspire you.

Stop doing the same thing over and over.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If you don’t like your life, change it. #today

Now is the time.

And I find with a lot of people.

It starts with their mindset.

Everything starts with your mindset.

Want to do great things?

How can I be the one?

Smile more.

As I’ve shared this before.

I often get complimented on my smile πŸ˜‰

Now the world needs you.

Share YOUR smile with the worldπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It needs it!


Do things that challenge you. πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

You will never know what you are made of unless you do!

Time to step out of your comfort zone.

How can I be the one?

Here’s a quote from Les Brown that I absolutely adore:

“No test, no testimony. You cannot make lemonade with sugar alone… you must have some sour lemons. You cannot learn good horsemanship by riding a tame horse. The harder the battle, the sweeter the victory!”

How can I be the one?

Don’t be afraid to fail.

Failure is the next step to greatness.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And, as we have already established.

We know you are amazing.

We know you can handle anything that comes your way.

Remember, as I have said before.

EVERYTHING is figureoutableπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If you want something bad enough, you will figure out a way!

And if not, you’ll find an excuse ;-(

And, ain’t nobody got time for that!

How can I be the one?

I love that one.

Talk about a mindset.

That’s the mindset you bring to up your game!

You want to level up.

Change the way you think.

How can I be the one?


My personal philosophy.

The Universe will conspire on your behalf.

To make your dreams come true.

And will pull out all the stops to do it!

She will put people in your life that you never saw coming.

Your life will become serendipitous.

But here’s the thing, you have to put in the work!

Like everyday!

You have to do everything possible on your end to make it work.

It’s a whole Ying and Yang kind of thing.

Oh, and you also have to think it’s already happened.

And give thanks everyday!

I told you, it’s a mindset.

How can I be the one?

You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you feel.

So make sure you are feeling positive πŸ˜‰

Putting good vibes out into the world on a daily basis!

Feelings of being FIERCE.

Owning your power.

Taking risks.

Being authentic πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

As has been said before, ‘everything you need is already inside you.

How can I be the one?

“Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become.” – NineFrogs

Here’s the thing.

You gotta clean house on your way to success.

Like, clean house.

Be it people, jobs, relationships, where you live, etc.

Come up with a game-plan.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If need be, get out a plain sheet of white paper, grab a pen and start writing!

Now is actually a perfect time to do this exercise.

Just take 15 minutes of quite time and write down whatever comes to mind.

Stick it in a drawer and come back to it the next day.

Start circling the things that really resonate with you.

Now come up with a plan on how to make them happen.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

FYI, you don’t have to have the whole thing figured out.

Just start with one small thing, and just keep doing that EVERY DAYπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And then expand on that idea.


That’s how you build.

Expand on everything.

How can I be the one?

Don’t look back in 2030 and say, I wish I had started back in 2021πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

You never want to live with regret!

And, ain’t nobody feeling that!


If I can do.

You can do it.

There’s no magic formula.

It’s hard work, dedication, a creative mind, persistence, and a heaping load of belief in one self.

That’s it.


And knocking on LOTS of doors.

How can I be the one?

Absolutely true.

Stop asking for permission.

Stop waiting for the right time.

Stop waiting for a sign.

And if you are.

This is it!

Time to go out and kick A*S. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

How can I be the one?

How true is that?

Let me share some golden nuggets on your road to success.

Don’t get caught up in the BS of life.

Stay away from people that suck the life out of you.

Dress your best.

Stand straight, shoulders back.

Get a new haircut.

Smile more πŸ˜‰

Be a glow magnet.

Give off such positive energy that you become a beacon of light πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Yeah, like that!

How can I be the one?

That’s you and me!

You SO got this!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Don’t let another year go by.

Living the same year as last year.

Without doing something new to change your circumstances.

YOU deserve so much more.

How can I have it all?

You have within you the power to change anything!

How can I be the one?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

How can I be the one?



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