“How can I be happy?” (5.14.17)

Do you know what you have in common, Patricia Bokowski, with the tiniest percentage of human beings who have ever, ever, ever graced the face of the earth?

You can still walk barefoot. You can still pick flowers. You can still make a difference.

Life is yummy,

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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs


 The age-old question?

How can I be happy?


I see you people.

The unhappy faces.

The sadness in your eyes.

The way you walk.

The way you hang your head.

The look of despair on your face.

You don’t have to say a word.

I can feel it.

So today.

I’m sharing some of my favorite.

Tips on getting your happy on!

And trust me.

If I can be happy.

After all the sh*t.

That I have been through.

Then YOU can be happy too!


Smile – even if you have to fake it.

The simple act of smiling will make you feel better.

Double bonus if you share your smile with everyone around you!

Making someone else smile is one of the best feelings in the world.

No matter how you are feeling.

Making someone else’s day is a great way to make yourself happy.

And bonus point, it’s FREE!

How can I be happy?

Dress Your Best – I cannot emphasize this one enough.

Before you step out your door in the morning.

Take a quick look in the mirror and ask yourself.

Is this the image I want to show the world today?

Looking and feeling your best.

Are signs of self-confidence.


When you have self-confidence.

You can do things you never would have imagined!

Like pursue all those dreams you have!👈👈👈

Which in turn.

Will bring you happiness!

How can I be happy?

Make eye contact – this is so important.

If you are looking to build trusting relationships and happiness.

Look people in the eye.

Both when listening and talking.

People want to be heard.

And not just with your ears.

When you are on the road to finding your happiness.

I think a big part of that is connecting.

On a real level, with other people.

Compliment others – Dale Carnegie spoke about if often in his writings.

Of the simple act of complimenting others.

In that not only do you get to make another’s day.

And make them feel better.

You receive the residual affect of feeling better for the act of doing it.👈👈👈

Read that again!


YOU will feel better.

Because YOU got to make someone else’s day!

Give someone a compliment.

A genuine compliment.

Dale Carnegie wrote of how he went into a store and saw the poor sales clerk having a miserable day.

So when it was his turn, he said to himself, ‘I’m going to make this young man smile.’

As he got to the counter, he looked at the young man and said: “You have the most gorgeous head of hair.”

And the young clerk beamed from ear-to-ear.

Making both his day.

And Dale Carnegie’s.

That’s what I’m talking about.

Want to be happy.

Make someone else happy and see what happens.

How can I be happy?

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogd

Wear lipstick – even if it’s Chapstick.


I literally couldn’t go one day without lipstick.

And I seriously don’t know how anyone could have a HAPPY day without it 🙂

So please, use a little lip gloss or chap stick if you’re not a lipstick kind-of-girl.

And see how your life changes!

How can I be happy?

Exercise daily – as in move as much as you can in every single day!




Take the stairs.

It is vital to your well-being to get up and move!👈👈👈

Side note:

This is one of the quickest ways people start to feel ‘old’.

They stop moving.

Don’t let that be you!

How can I be happy?

Hug someone – whether it’s a tree or your grandmother!

Be it your significant other.

Your kids or your pet.

It’s good for your heart and your soul.

How can I be happy?

Stay away from toxic people – and you know who I’m talking about!

Those individuals who suck the life right out of you.

The people who are negative.


And make you feel bad.

You’re not going to change them.

So best to either stay way from them.

Or limit your time with them to a minimum.👈👈👈






How can I be happy?

Be genuine – in everything you do.

With everyone you come into contact with.

Both personal and business.

There is nothing worse than a fake.


Most people can smell one a mile away.

Be genuine with your acts, words, smile and feelings.👈👈👈

That’s how you find happiness.

How can I be happy?


I know.

There are people.

Who will read my list.

And go.









And then wonder, why they still aren’t happy! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

So, I sincerely hope that isn’t you!

How can I be happy?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled:  “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“How can I be happy?”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY  11754


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