“How can I be happy?” (10.29.2020)

One of the most stringent conditions all angels must meet, Patricia Bokowski, other than double-advanced harp playing and skydiving abilities (not necessarily at the same time), is that they must not allow themselves to feel hurt or rejected by the choices made by others, no matter how much they’ve done for them nor how great their love. 
Yeah, WOW. 
Wow, wow –  The Universe
/ How can I be happy?

Angels are people, too, Patricia Bokowski.


Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – Kermit the Frog

This makes me happy☝☝☝

Finally reaching my goal.

10M monthly viewers on Pinterest.👈👈👈

A lot of work went into that number.

That’s what goal setting is all about.

You write it out on paper, (I’m old school).

Then figure out what steps you need to take to get to that goal.

That’s how you get where you want to go!👈👈👈

And I don’t know about you?

But when I reach a goal, it makes me very Happy!!!


Just yesterday I was reading an article on LinkedIn on happiness!

Most people are looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

And then wonder why they still aren’t happy ;-(

The thing is.

What you are looking for isn’t OUT THERE.👈👈👈

It’s inside you.

Especially in these times.

You need to go inside to find your happiness!

Here’s my advice:

STOP WAITING FOR HAPPINESS to show up at your front door!


And while you’re at it.

Stop waiting for everything to be perfect to be happy.

Because it’s never going to happen.

Like never.


Because it’s kind of like having a baby.

There’s never a good time.


You just be happy now.

No matter what is going on in your life.

Even during a #pandemic.

Especially in #lockdown2020.

And since we have no idea how long this is going to go on.

You can’t put your happiness on ‘hold’.

Waiting for the storm to pass!

Me, got a haircut, dyed it, and got my nails done! Feeling great about myself!

You deserve to be happy now!

It all starts with you!

This isn’t a dress rehearsal.

This is YOUR ONE time shot at it!

And you deserve to be living it happy!


No person, thing OR event, is going to make you happy!

It/they can ‘add’ to your happiness.

But, they themselves, cannot make you happy!

If you aren’t happy already.

You make YOU happy. https://www.ninefrogs.com

I hear so many people these days saying how unhappy they are.

They’re depressed.

Have no energy.

And so on and so on.

How can I be happy?


And I ‘choose’ to stay happy.

Because the alternative wouldn’t do me, my family, or my business any good.

You might not know this, but, everything in life is a choice!

And I choose to be happy!

That’s the thing that trips people up all the time!

Especially now with the current climate.

You can get all caught up in the BS.


You can totally distance yourself from it as much as possible.

People get it all wrong.

They think their life cannot be happy because their life isn’t perfect.

Tell me.

Who has a ‘perfect life”?

No one.

No one has a perfect life.

Everyone has issues.

I bet if you asked Jeff Bezos if he has any problems, he’d tell you he had plenty.

And I bet if you asked him if he was still happy?

He’d give a resounding YES.

And I know what you’re going to say!

If you had ALL that money, you’d be happy too👈👈👈

To which I would answer.

If money was the key to happiness.

Why are there so many known ‘wealthy’ unhappy people ?

Answer: Because they couldn’t find their happiness.

How can I be happy?

When people tell me to be realistic!


Don’t lose your sense of humor.

Just sayin!

It’s a decision.

Do I choose to be happy, or NOT.

For me, it’s not even a decision.

I wake up everyday HAPPY 🙂

Is my life ‘perfect’?


Far from it.

But I make the best of ‘everything’ I have.

And work my ass off everyday to make it better.👈👈👈

That’s my driving force in life.

And, oddly enough.

That makes me HAPPY AF 👈👈👈

How can I be happy?

That’s it!


It’s it impossible not to be happy.

If you are smiling.

And my friend.

There is always a reason to smile.


How can I be happy?

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I love when I hear people say, ‘Patti, I’ll be happy when_______

I lose weight.

I get a new partner.

I get a new job.

I start my business.

The list is endless.

Be happy now.

End of story.

How can I be happy?

I’d say the #1 reason for so much unhappiness in the world.

Is people putting the key to THEIR happiness.

In someone else’s pocket.

I learned this lesson the hard way.

Very hard.


Never again.

I make my own happiness.

And I never rely on anyone ever to make me happy.

People can add happiness to my life.







So, if you have found, that you have left the keys to YOUR happiness in someone else’s pocket.

Take it back .http://WWW.NINEFROGS.COM


How can I be happy?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“How can I be happy?”



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