“How can I be amazing?” (7.1.2020)

Patricia Bokowski, do you remember way back when, on the day you first earned your wings, how you worried about whether or not you’d be able to use them to lift yourself, and thereby the entire planet, higher?
And so I reminded you that the reason you earned them was because you already had?
You’ve already earned all that your heart desires.
Tallyho,  The Universe / How can I be amazing?

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

What no one tells little girls.


We are rarely told we are magical.

That we can do wonderful things.

That we’re smart.

And funny.


That if there is something amazing we want to do in this world, we should do it.


No one tells us that when we are little.

So, that’s why I write these blogs.

To remind all the girls, and boys, you can do anything you set your mind to.

And work at, everyday!

It’s not easy being a good person these days.


Being a good woman.

You tend to get over-looked.

Taken advantage of, if you aren’t careful.

But, that doesn’t mean you still shouldn’t be one.

No matter what the world throws at you.

Bad people.

Difficult situations.

Never give up on being the BEST version of you!

Have you ever been around those people who LOVE talking about things that happened twenty years ago?

Or that High School was THE BEST years of their life?

If you notice, they don’t really like talking about what’s going on right now.

There’s a reason for that.https://www.ninefrogs.com

They don’t have much going on right now.


Whatever is going on, they don’t like it very much.

So, to make up for it, they talk about all the good stuff from years ago.

Yeah, I’m not one of those people.

I live in the here and now.

I live for today.

I work for tomorrow.

I’m building my empire one brick at a time.

One day at a time.

And I’m loving every day of it!

You will rarely hear me talking about what happened ten years ago.

I believe in living in the present.

How about you?

Want to be amazing?

Stop thinking in black and white.

Start thinking unlimited possibilities.


When nothing is sure, anything is possible!


And I am living proof.

I can’t tell you how many times in my life I was sure things were taking a wrong turn.

And then.

Things changed.

In my favor.

That’s when I started realizing it.

Nothing is definite.

Everything is possible.

That’s why I always say.

Keep your eyes AND mind open!

If you have been following my blogs, you know there are a few blogs I write about often.

The Magic of Thinking Big is one of those books!

Here’s a great excerpt from the book that I wanted to share with you:

“Thing Big and you’ll live Big.

You’ll live Big in Happiness.

You’ll live Big in accomplishment.

Big in income.

Big in friends.

Big in respect.

David J. Schwartz

No where in there does it say, look back twenty years.

And compare your life to then!

Of course not.

Life doesn’t work that way.

Life works going forward! https://www.ninefrogs.com

“Life is too short to be little.” / Disraeli

That’s why it’s so important to live a BIG life!

As big as you can.

Putting in all the things you love.

And discarding all the things you don’t!

Make it grand!

Make it amazing!

Make all your friends jealous when they see the life you have created for yourself.

Make all the doubters humbled.

And most of all πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

LIVE for today.

Read that againπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

People are so quick to give up on themselves.

Thinking they just don’t have what it takes!


If you don’t try.

HOW will you know?

No one is going to hand it to you.

YOU have to work for it!




Your life depends on it.


YOU do have it in you.

It’s just you’ve probably been told your whole life, you can’t.


I dare you!

Prove THEM wrong.

Show them what you’re made of.

Let them see you climb those mountains.

How can I be amazing?

You ask.

My dear, you already are. πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

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That’s a wrap.

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while.



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