“How can I be amazing?” (9.27.18)

BIG, life-changing ideas, Patricia Bokowski, rarely first appear as BIG, life-changing ideas.

 
No, hardly, that would be too easy.
 
BIG, life-changing ideas usually show up as plain, little ideas that when given a bit of muscle, gradually evolve into things like Space stations, best sellers, or a new awesome successful thriving fabulous business for everyone in the family. Which means they can often sneak right under the radar and go completely undetected.
 
Got any little ideas? I ask because I know you do….
 
Ou-u-u-u-u-u-h!
  The Universe / How can I be amazing?
www.tut.com
 

 

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

 

I don’t care if you are a size 4 or 24.

Every woman deserves to have choices in what they wear!

Let’s face it.

Pretty much everyone (or at least everyone I deal with), wants to look their best. 

We live in a world where our image is everything๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And remember.

Your personality is NOT the first thing people see when they meet you.

You want to shine when you step out into the world.

And today we’re exploring some absolutely fabulous new designs!

Marina Rinaldi / Ashley Graham

“Character.

Intelligence.

Strength.

Style.

That makes beauty.”

DVF

ELOQUII – TESS HOLIDAY

“A woman unaffected by insults has made her enemies absolutely powerless.”

 

ALPINE BUTTERFLY SWIM / The Royalty Suit

“Dress shabbily and they remember the dress;

dress impeccably and they remember the woman.” /

Coco Chanel

 

I love that ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†

You were born of the stars.

And this is your year to shine.

Stop settling for what others leave you.

Better yet.

And forge your own Universe.

If you knew how precious you are!

How smart, resourceful and unique you are!

That’s why I am always reminding people.

Of how absolutely amazing they are.

Celebrate yourself!

Stop hiding the wild inside you.

Like so many people do (yes, that includes the men).

There’s this thing I see so many people do as they get older.

They stop living their truest lives.

They do things they think they are ‘supposed to do’.

Because.

You know?

They are a certain age.

I say BS๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I say.

As long as you are not breaking the law.

Hurting yourself.

And.

Obviously.

Not hurting anyone else.

Then do what you want.

Wear what you want (that’s a BIG one).

Be with the people YOU want to be with.

Not.

With the people other people want you to be with.

Be with the people who make you happy.

Who inspire you.

Who want YOU to do good!

Yes.

That’s the kind of life you want to be living.

That is how you live an AMAZING life๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

 

 

FASHION NOVA CURVE / Three Wishes Midi Dress

“Why fit in, when you were born to stand out.” / Anna Wintour

 

CHOSEN BY ONE DAY / L A BELLA DONNA COLLECTION

“A girl should be two things; classy and fabulous.” / Coco Chanel

Dare to be different.

Don’t follow the crowd. 

Lead your own pack.

Even if the pack is just you๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I’ve been doing that the last few years.

And.

I have to tell you.

Less BS.

More peace.

More strength.

More happiness.

 

FASHION NOVA CURVE / Brianne High Rise Leggings

“Vibrate so high that toxic people

in your life fall back,

because they no longer

know how to approach you!”

 

Absolutely!

Be THAT Woman if you’re not already!

I believe as we get older, that light from within wants to dance even more.

Let her out.

Ever see a woman over 40 sad?

Most likely it’s because she didn’t let THAT woman out!

She’s too busy trying to be like everyone else.

Instead of being who she wants to be.

Be her.

Let her out!

 

 

FASHION TO FIGURE

“The secret of great style, is to be feel good in what you wear!”

 

 

FASHION NOVA CURVE / “LOVE MY CURVES OR SWERVE” / WILD TIMES JUMPSUIT

“May your vibes shift the whole damn frequency of the room when you walk in.”

 

 

 

FASHION TO FIGURE /

“Fashion is what you buy.  Style is what you do with it.”

 

FASHION NOVA CURVE / My Holiness Jumpsuit

BADASSERY:

“Engaging in seemingly impossible activities and achieving success

in a manner that renders all onlookers completely awestruck!”

 

 

Never forget that!

Sometimes HOPE is the only thing you can hold onto.

Always HOPE for the best in any situation. 

If nothing is for sure.

Anything is possible.

Remember that.

Never lose hope.

Just do it!

Don’t even think about it.

You only live once, and if you do it right, you’ll never regret a day of it!

The time is now๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

 

 

FASHION NOVA CURVE / Tulip Two-Piece Set

“She was not fragile like a flower, she was fragile like a bomb.”

 

 

“Even a STRONG woman needs a shoulder

to lean on, someone who’ll just listen as tears

roll down her face,

and remind her that no matter how far she’s

fallen, she’ll get up again,

strong and wiser than before.”

Anonymous

 

 

Fashion Nova Curve / Leopard Print Bikini

“How do you get a bikini body?  You put on a bikini!”

 

Always ๐Ÿ˜‰

To live your truth, to live your authentic life…to be courageous.

And, whatever you do.

DO NOT let anyone tell YOU that YOU can’t do something.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You can do anything you set your mind to.

And put action behind it!

HOUSE OF CB / LOUNGE COLLECTION

“Clothes aren’t going to change the world.  The women who wear them will.” / Anne Klein

 

Exactly.

Your career will never let you down.

Your career will never tell you it loves you, then leaves you.

Work on your career.

Love will find you when the time is right.

Never chase love.

Never chase money.

Actually.

Never chase anything.

Be a beautiful butterfly and ATTRACT like a MF๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

How can I be amazing?

Easy.

Just do you boo!

 

 

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

How can I be amazing?

www.ninefrogs.com

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